@Scorpmoon39
10 YearsTaurus
I cant keep a man for 5 min!! What the h#*
How Zodiac Placements Affect Relationship Durability
Your Taurus Sun and Scorpio Moon suggest strong emotional and physical needs, while Mars and Venus in Aries indicate passion and independence. Finding a partner who matches your intensity and values depth requires aligning with someone who appreciates your strength and emotional depth. Understanding your placements can help you attract the right partner who can handle your fiery and complex nature.
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Why?
Do they get weird and show his crazy, or just leave you?
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.
Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries
Ok, I'm in the same boat. My venus is in Aries, and I plan on being single forever. Unfortunately.
Posted by almondeyezk
Ok, I'm in the same boat. My venus is in Aries, and I plan on being single forever. Unfortunately.
I don't know much about Aries...time to study up
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1
Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo
Why *
Posted by Abrahaml
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idk
This is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
Posted by Abrahaml
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.
Lol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
Posted by Explicit
What House is your Venus in?
Venus is in the 8th house
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.
rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.
Posted by jeane
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.
I do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
Posted by Abrahaml
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.Lol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
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You're almost 40 and you live in Cincinnati, honestly you don't have much of a choice. The mentality of people there(esp.men) is so far out.. I just cant.
Maybe it really is you, but it's likely that it isn't your fault.
Posted by Abrahaml
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idkThis is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
To be honest, I can handle you, it's just probably the guys you picking . You need a warrior , not a pencil pusher
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I do need a warrior, someone strong and capable...fiercely loyal who is in touch with his emotions and worships me like I will him.
And I'm just being honest.
That city is just bleh. If you get a chance to move, do so.
Yes, there are weak men and just immature low lifes in any city but... well.
Also venus in aries is a fun venus, but it's challening... you should check out will Harrisons venus in aries video it's a really good one
🙂
Posted by Abrahaml
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.Lol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
You're almost 40 and you live in Cincinnati, honestly you don't have much of a choice. The mentality of people there(esp.men) is so far out.. I just cant.
Maybe it really is you, but it's likely that it isn't your fault.
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It's a mess here...it's a pathetic, sad, mess....no one has any depth or passion. I'm full of passion
Posted by jeane
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.
I do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
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but giving is what you want! they want to give to you! they want to provide. they want to be the one that opens the stuck lid off a jar. they want you to think they are the most amazing man that ever walked the earth.
women like gifts and talk about their feelings. don't treat them like women. men like to be of service. they want your respect even more than your love.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
And I'm just being honest.That city is just bleh. If you get a chance to move, do so.
Yes, there are weak men and just immature low lifes in any city but... well.
Also venus in aries is a fun venus, but it's challening... you should check out will Harrisons venus in aries video it's a really good one
🙂
I'll do that!
Posted by jeane
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.
I do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
but giving is what you want! they want to give to you! they want to provide. they want to be the one that opens the stuck lid off a jar. they want you to think they are the most amazing man that ever walked the earth.
women like gifts and talk about their feelings. don't treat them like women. men like to be of service. they want your respect even more than your love.
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It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
Posted by Abrahaml
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.Lol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
yes you have it easy. count your blessings. I know 60 year olds who can't get it up and can't get women even if they tried. Once I hit that age...
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Yeah...no lol...I have 0 desire in using men for money, sex or anything else. I have self respect and I'm not chucking that out the door for a quick lay or some nice shoes....
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
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I mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I do
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
Posted by Abrahaml
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.Lol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
yes you have it easy. count your blessings. I know 60 year olds who can't get it up and can't get women even if they tried. Once I hit that age...
Yeah...no lol...I have 0 desire in using men for money, sex or anything else. I have self respect and I'm not chucking that out the door for a quick lay or some nice shoes....
I see why some men might be scared of you then well not me, I'm sexually attracted to older women so idk, you just gotta find a guy whose as I interested in you as you are him and who makes you feel good in every way but easier said than done
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Ugh.. well I don't want them to be scared of me lol.
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
I mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I do
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
Suck his dick. Simple. That's all a dude needs.
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Baaaahahahahaha!!! I am quite talented in that dept but still...need more from them than a penis in my mouth.
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
I mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I do
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
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you don't need to act helpless but you have to let them take the lead at times. go back to the stuck lid, could you open it yourself? of course you could. you know it, he knows it but you allow him to open it and he feels amazing.
you want to give? give him small victories, allow him to feel like a winner.
like i said, he'll know very well the strong independent woman you are, but he'll love you for making him feel like the biggest dick swinging guy whoever walked the earth. who can resist a woman who makes you feel that way?
you don't have to force it, they will offer in little ways to show you they can take care of you. let them, don't shut them down. it doesn't make you weak, it makes you irreplaceable.
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
I mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I do
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
you don't need to act helpless but you have to let them take the lead at times. go back to the stuck lid, could you open it yourself? of course you could. you know it, he knows it but you allow him to open it and he feels amazing.
you want to give? give him small victories, allow him to feel like a winner.
like i said, he'll know very well the strong independent woman you are, but he'll love you for making him feel like the biggest dick swinging guy whoever walked the earth. who can resist a woman who makes you feel that way?
you don't have to force it, they will offer in little ways to show you they can take care of you. let them, don't shut them down. it doesn't make you weak, it makes you irreplaceable.
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I guess I can let him open a pickle jar every once in a while...I just don't do needy. Needy women make me gag...so do needy men. Has to be a good balance.
I guess I can let him open a pickle jar every once in a while...I just don't do needy. Needy women make me gag...so do needy men. Has to be a good balance.
don't be needy. i am not needy but as my guy says to me "i like it when you need my help".
Posted by andstrollbot
date someone as intense aka suffocating and maybe you will learn to ease up i onow that is how i learned.
God...I can be suffocating. I mean...I need attention, I need to feel desired
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational and incapable of having a normal conversation, but we fell for eachother emotionally, we laughed and still laugh together a LOT...if she had a few more qualities l would have been over the moon all thse years, l donlt understand guys that leave you. Anyway these days l'm helping her get over trauma and she's changing so things are looking up. But you sound like an absolute gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.
Posted by bricklemark
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.Lots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's so hard ...
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Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
Posted by Abrahaml
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idk
I thought men like dominant woman?
Posted by busyeyes88
@BM. You sound really sweet and caring ! 😄
Is this me? If so Ty ? l'm a cancer. You sound sweet too ?
Posted by Scorpmoon39
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries
Well looking at this you way more intense than I. But my placements compared to yours I would be a little hesitant or intimidated by your energy. Takes me awhile to get used to fire, fixed energy. As I am similar but more kick back and less impulsive.
Posted by BeautyandTheBull
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo
It's way too intense true.
Yuck.
Go for it moondust. You got this. Yuck.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by BeautyandTheBull
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo
It's way too intense true.
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Ugh....this sucks lol. I used to be codependent, got married really young and now divorced for 6 years now. I've grown so much in those 6 years and I really like myself now. I've built a successful business, provide for my family, I'm fun as hell and I have one hell of a big heart. I'm not all manly lol...im about as much of a woman as you can get...long hair, makeup, heels etc. I'm far from a dude. I'm soft and gentle but can also be hard and mean as hell of you cross me. Leo's are a no for me, I just had a virgo from hell and other sure I can take the scorpio manipulation crap...definitely not into sag, too black and white for me. Lmao I'm a mess...
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by BeautyandTheBull
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo
It's way too intense true.
Ugh....this sucks lol. I used to be codependent, got married really young and now divorced for 6 years now. I've grown so much in those 6 years and I really like myself now. I've built a successful business, provide for my family, I'm fun as hell and I have one hell of a big heart. I'm not all manly lol...im about as much of a woman as you can get...long hair, makeup, heels etc. I'm far from a dude. I'm soft and gentle but can also be hard and mean as hell of you cross me. Leo's are a no for me, I just had a virgo from hell and other sure I can take the scorpio manipulation crap...definitely not into sag, too black and white for me. Lmao I'm a mess...
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No you may need some water and earth signs. It may help tone you down alittle and go with the flow.
Posted by bricklemark
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.Lots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's so hard ...
Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
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Idk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.
Posted by LeDominoes
Have you tried these?
Haha! I have them installed under my bed —
Posted by everlynn
@Scorpmoon39 why do you keep changing your profile picture—
Because I wanted to lol, no...someone made a comment about my last one so I changed it....and the little fact that I have had a hell of a time making a decision on anything the last few months. It's weird..
The smallest crap I have been obsessing over and can't make a decision.
Posted by bricklemark
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.Lots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's so hard ...
Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
Idk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.
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Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?
Posted by Abrahaml
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idkThis is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
To be honest, I can handle you, it's just probably the guys you picking . You need a warrior , not a pencil pusher
I do need a warrior, someone strong and capable...fiercely loyal who is in touch with his emotions and worships me like I will him.
You need to get with another taurus.
HA! So he can cheat on her . Every male taurus I knew always had bitches on deck . Always. Mines were of higher quality of course
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Lol doubt it
Whoa....now I get it. Now I know where that is coming from!! I have been working on the ego and selfishness over the last few years but what he said about reacting without a moments thought and then regrett it moments later...BIG problem right now. I'm going to dive into my aries and try and control the dark side of it way better
Posted by bricklemark
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.Lots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's so hard ...
Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
Idk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.
Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?
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No..
I live on the west side of cincinnati, basically the armpit of cinci lol. And to be honest, they intimidate me...I don't feel accomplished enough or educated enough. Insecurities suck
Posted by Abrahaml
A strong woman is someone who is nice and tries not to let the world trample them. But there comes a point in time when these strong women gotta tone it down for a dude at least a little bit. You don't need to be a jerk 24/7 to someone you likeI think any strong woman would want someone in their life who's their support system in their moments of weakness. Someone who makes them feel like they don't always have to be the strong and independent one. Someone that makes them feel more "feminine"...
IMO
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It's a constant struggle because yes, we want it but it's the allowing ourselves to be vulnerable enough to allow ourselves to receive it is the problem
Posted by Scorpmoon39
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries
I think it's definitely the intensity. I find Aries Venus tends to constantly think about the person they like. As a result, you're always thinking of wanting to talk to them, spend time with them, and doing things for them. Aries Venus can put in too much effort, too soon in the eyes of the other person.
This is added to your Aries Mars (which makes you very much go after what you want) and Scorp Moon. I think Aries Mars can also get frustrated at the lack of action from other people.
IMO
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HIt that nail right on the head...
Ugh, how do I fix this?!?! God...now I see not only am I a pain in the ass but I'm an overbearing, smothering, love the crap out of ppl pain in the ass.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?
Hey 🙂 l'm good thanks, how are you? What's goin on in your world? I only answered cause it was on the front page 🙂
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Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.
Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries