I am a Scorpio. I met this Virgo and I am crazy about her. I been patient, I am going through the friendship stage. She told me to take it slow, which I did, two weeks later we slept together. We planned to have sex as much as we can get together. A day or two passed and now she is quiet. She acted different, when I asked her, she told me she was fine she is just quiet. I texted her a couple times, she didn't reply. Now out of nowhere she texted me back about some random thing. I am not used to it. I feel I should ignore her text and give her a break.
Virgo girlfriend


I’d think you only wanted sex too. Maybe you should try taking her out on a date or something ya know. Stimulate her mind... make it seem like you aren’t only wanting the punani

All you want is sex.
Stimulate her mind
Stimulate her mind

🙄

@Dragonian123
I get you! I thought I was bad at communication but the Virgo I'm dealing with is horrible. I just don't text him at all and just wait for him to come to me, when he does, I respond within a reasonable time and then follow through on plans to see him. It's annoying, I had to learn to not text him at all randomly cause I won't get an answer anyways.
At least that leaves me some freedom to move around and do me 😄
I get you! I thought I was bad at communication but the Virgo I'm dealing with is horrible. I just don't text him at all and just wait for him to come to me, when he does, I respond within a reasonable time and then follow through on plans to see him. It's annoying, I had to learn to not text him at all randomly cause I won't get an answer anyways.
At least that leaves me some freedom to move around and do me 😄



Seems like all I want is the booty. However, we have gone to a lot of dates. I been doing everything it was suggested about Virgos. I waited 3 months for a kiss. I did fail to mention that after the first kiss she told me to take it slow, to which I agreed. Two weeks later after a date and make out, she said she wanted to do it, me being the guy, agreed. Then we agreed to have sex from there on, but she didn't want to be official yet. I already asked her if everything is alright. I got her flowers, got her dinner, but I did not push the subject. We kissed, hug and then she went quiet.

Posted by Dragonian123
Seems like all I want is the booty. However, we have gone to a lot of dates. I been doing everything it was suggested about Virgos. I waited 3 months for a kiss. I did fail to mention that after the first kiss she told me to take it slow, to which I agreed. Two weeks later after a date and make out, she said she wanted to do it, me being the guy, agreed. Then we agreed to have sex from there on, but she didn't want to be official yet. I already asked her if everything is alright. I got her flowers, got her dinner, but I did not push the subject. We kissed, hug and then she went quiet.
What exactly is it that you like about your Virgo. What makes you “crazy about her”


Posted by FknMeow
I swear, a scorpio could easily write a book on how to lose a virgo before you even have one.
Does anyone ever really "have" us though?
Literally my relatiinship with scorpio now. Tho we have not been in sexual relationship. But I know he loves me. Us virgo girls are very over analytical. You should take it slow as this relationship always starts off with friendship and then forms into love bond. One's you reached to her heart, I swear you will have passionate relationship. This scorpio approached me and I told him to be friends first. However my virgo nature allows me to flirt with him. But I also fear heartbreak as my past relationship. See, virgos are very vulnerable and sensitive inside. We always fear heartbreak. So we don't often get in relationships. We love hard, verrry hard. So it do takes us long to forget someone and completely move on from them. So maybe she will not enter in relationship with you now. Just ask her out on date but remember, nothing sexual. Don't be clingy or cuddly right away. Just be patient. Have conversations with her about her life, your life, intelligent convo. Listen to her always. And dont be fast and a pushover. Or she may run away. One more thing, scorpis are very intense so even if you have very deep and intense feelings for her dont be open. She will scare away. One's your relationship will develop, you can easily be intense and passionate with her. But take it slow for now. Goodluck 😉
Posted by Virgogirl_
Literally my relationship with scorpio now. Tho we have not been in sexual relationship. But I know he loves me. Us virgo girls are very over analytical. You should take it slow as this relationship always starts off with friendship and then forms into love bond. One's you reached to her heart, I swear you will have passionate relationship. This scorpio approached me and I told him to be friends first. However my virgo nature allows me to flirt with him. But I also fear heartbreak as my past relationship. See, virgos are very vulnerable and sensitive inside. We always fear heartbreak. So we don't often get in relationships. We love hard, verrry hard. So it do takes us long to forget someone and completely move on from them. So maybe she will not enter in relationship with you now. Just ask her out on date but remember, nothing sexual. Don't be clingy or cuddly right away. Just be patient. Have conversations with her about her life, your life, intelligent convo. Listen to her always. And dont be fast and a pushover. Or she may run away. One more thing, scorpis are very intense so even if you have very deep and intense feelings for her dont be open. She will scare away. One's your relationship will develop, you can easily be intense and passionate with her. But take it slow for now. Goodluck 😉

Posted by LaMadrina
2 tangos not 1. she sexed you too. so if she wants to be weird, let her be. someone said in reference to scorpios that they arent mind readers. well, neither are we. move along until she learns to communicate properly. if she wanted to do other things besides sex, she would have made it known. it's not your fault for what a grown consenting adult does.
I agree!
Just like a woman to switch things up after sex and then get mad that the man isn’t doing more lol.
Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by Virgogirl_
Literally my relatiinship with scorpio now. Tho we have not been in sexual relationship. But I know he loves me. Us virgo girls are very over analytical. You should take it slow as this relationship always starts off with friendship and then forms into love bond. One's you reached to her heart, I swear you will have passionate relationship. This scorpio approached me and I told him to be friends first. However my virgo nature allows me to flirt with him. But I also fear heartbreak as my past relationship. See, virgos are very vulnerable and sensitive inside. We always fear heartbreak. So we don't often get in relationships. We love hard, verrry hard. So it do takes us long to forget someone and completely move on from them. So maybe she will not enter in relationship with you now. Just ask her out on date but remember, nothing sexual. Don't be clingy or cuddly right away. Just be patient. Have conversations with her about her life, your life, intelligent convo. Listen to her always. And dont be fast and a pushover. Or she may run away. One more thing, scorpis are very intense so even if you have very deep and intense feelings for her dont be open. She will scare away. One's your relationship will develop, you can easily be intense and passionate with her. But take it slow for now. Goodluck 😉
don't project and punish Scorpio for what others did to you. you either like him and want more than friendship or you dont. no one should have to slow their pace or wait because you are scared to be hurt again. scared, or just want to call all the shots to suit your ego?click to expand
I never told that I won't answer him for yes. I am not the type of person who will lead someone just to stroke my ego lol. I will take it slow. Usually it happens with everyone. No one wants to get their heart broken. If you had experienced a bad past. You will always be cautious for future. Basing off of the signs. A person who is heartbroken will usually be cautious next time while initiating relationships. I am taking my time to think if he is right for me. Not playing mind games with him just wanna know if he will be worthy enough fir love. You will relate to it if you have experienced the same in your past. Not virgos not capricorns even scorpios are cautious after heartbreak. And any sign will be. Virgos are hard to get because we are cautious while jumping into relationship "thing". Not playing a scorpio and totally didnt meant it. Taking my time to grow this relationship and testing him by making him wait for me. If scorpio will not wait and wants to move on to someone, I will not be bothered. I will only wish best for him. I am not judging him based on my past. Its just that now I am more cautious about whom to give my heart to. If that makes sense..

Have u ever considered giving her some time to herself. Jeezus

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by 777
Have u ever considered giving her some time to herself. Jeezus
I agree. Let her chill out for a bit. She probably needs to reflect and process.click to expand
Yes. Reflect & process about her own life

Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by Virgogirl_Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by Virgogirl_
Literally my relatiinship with scorpio now. Tho we have not been in sexual relationship. But I know he loves me. Us virgo girls are very over analytical. You should take it slow as this relationship always starts off with friendship and then forms into love bond. One's you reached to her heart, I swear you will have passionate relationship. This scorpio approached me and I told him to be friends first. However my virgo nature allows me to flirt with him. But I also fear heartbreak as my past relationship. See, virgos are very vulnerable and sensitive inside. We always fear heartbreak. So we don't often get in relationships. We love hard, verrry hard. So it do takes us long to forget someone and completely move on from them. So maybe she will not enter in relationship with you now. Just ask her out on date but remember, nothing sexual. Don't be clingy or cuddly right away. Just be patient. Have conversations with her about her life, your life, intelligent convo. Listen to her always. And dont be fast and a pushover. Or she may run away. One more thing, scorpis are very intense so even if you have very deep and intense feelings for her dont be open. She will scare away. One's your relationship will develop, you can easily be intense and passionate with her. But take it slow for now. Goodluck 😉
don't project and punish Scorpio for what others did to you. you either like him and want more than friendship or you dont. no one should have to slow their pace or wait because you are scared to be hurt again. scared, or just want to call all the shots to suit your ego?
I never told that I won't answer him for yes. I am not the type of person who will lead someone just to stroke my ego lol. I will take it slow. Usually it happens with everyone. No one wants to get their heart broken. If you had experienced a bad past. You will always be cautious for future. Basing off of the signs. A person who is heartbroken will usually be cautious next time while initiating relationships. I am taking my time to think if he is right for me. Not playing mind games with him just wanna know if he will be worthy enough fir love. You will relate to it if you have experienced the same in your past. Not virgos not capricorns even scorpios are cautious after heartbreak. And any sign will be. Virgos are hard to get because we are cautious while jumping into relationship "thing". Not playing a scorpio and totally didnt meant it. Taking my time to grow this relationship and testing him by making him wait for me. If scorpio will not wait and wants to move on to someone, I will not be bothered. I will only wish best for him. I am not judging him based on my past. Its just that now I am more cautious about whom to give my heart to. If that makes sense..
you're not hard to get or keep. more hard to get rid of. It's hard for you to be fair. you virgos have a one sided idea of how relationships should be. you nag and nitpick and you look for impossible levels of perfection in a partner, while ignoring your own flaws. with every virgo it's been like this. they want to take it slow on their side, yet they bombard and fire off questions and judgement immediately when it comes to others. as if we have to hurry up and be who they want or else we don't pass their worthy test. then they cry or act hurt when you call them out and unload on them. i cannot and will not tolerate such nonsense. it's best i stay away from any virgo.click to expand
I agree

Anywayyyyy,
unbiased as can be: give her some space. Take some time out for yourself. When you’re both ready, come back and communicate (talk It all out) about what both of you want outta this situationship
unbiased as can be: give her some space. Take some time out for yourself. When you’re both ready, come back and communicate (talk It all out) about what both of you want outta this situationship

Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by Virgogirl_Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by Virgogirl_
Literally my relatiinship with scorpio now. Tho we have not been in sexual relationship. But I know he loves me. Us virgo girls are very over analytical. You should take it slow as this relationship always starts off with friendship and then forms into love bond. One's you reached to her heart, I swear you will have passionate relationship. This scorpio approached me and I told him to be friends first. However my virgo nature allows me to flirt with him. But I also fear heartbreak as my past relationship. See, virgos are very vulnerable and sensitive inside. We always fear heartbreak. So we don't often get in relationships. We love hard, verrry hard. So it do takes us long to forget someone and completely move on from them. So maybe she will not enter in relationship with you now. Just ask her out on date but remember, nothing sexual. Don't be clingy or cuddly right away. Just be patient. Have conversations with her about her life, your life, intelligent convo. Listen to her always. And dont be fast and a pushover. Or she may run away. One more thing, scorpis are very intense so even if you have very deep and intense feelings for her dont be open. She will scare away. One's your relationship will develop, you can easily be intense and passionate with her. But take it slow for now. Goodluck 😉
don't project and punish Scorpio for what others did to you. you either like him and want more than friendship or you dont. no one should have to slow their pace or wait because you are scared to be hurt again. scared, or just want to call all the shots to suit your ego?
I never told that I won't answer him for yes. I am not the type of person who will lead someone just to stroke my ego lol. I will take it slow. Usually it happens with everyone. No one wants to get their heart broken. If you had experienced a bad past. You will always be cautious for future. Basing off of the signs. A person who is heartbroken will usually be cautious next time while initiating relationships. I am taking my time to think if he is right for me. Not playing mind games with him just wanna know if he will be worthy enough fir love. You will relate to it if you have experienced the same in your past. Not virgos not capricorns even scorpios are cautious after heartbreak. And any sign will be. Virgos are hard to get because we are cautious while jumping into relationship "thing". Not playing a scorpio and totally didnt meant it. Taking my time to grow this relationship and testing him by making him wait for me. If scorpio will not wait and wants to move on to someone, I will not be bothered. I will only wish best for him. I am not judging him based on my past. Its just that now I am more cautious about whom to give my heart to. If that makes sense..
you're not hard to get or keep. more hard to get rid of. It's hard for you to be fair. you virgos have a one sided idea of how relationships should be. you nag and nitpick and you look for impossible levels of perfection in a partner, while ignoring your own flaws. with every virgo it's been like this. they want to take it slow on their side, yet they bombard and fire off questions and judgement immediately when it comes to others. as if we have to hurry up and be who they want or else we don't pass their worthy test. then they cry or act hurt when you call them out and unload on them. i cannot and will not tolerate such nonsense. it's best i stay away from any virgo.click to expand
I have a question, why do u hate virgos?

I have never met a loyal scorpio man, the women yea
Never
Way too many secrets..
Never
Way too many secrets..
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