Cajunspirit
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Cardinal Signs - The Relationship Challenged
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Are you insinuating my Cappy made a bad choice by falling in love with moi? 😛
Awwww...cut a nerve did I? This pic is even more horrible. Change it back to the other one...Neo.
Sorry Caj. Didn't mean to hijack your post. Carry on now.
Interesting one that number 4. My friend is a Cap and her guy is a Libra. They are very business minded and like the nice things out of life but I believe that's where their compatibility ends. This couple in particular - not referring to Cap/Libra pairings in general. My friend is a very strong woman but there's just something about this Libra that keeps her hooked. She wasn't even like this with her Pisces guy some years ago.
Are you saying it didn't work between me and the Libra? 2 weeks of almost bliss, I reckon.
well, people can plan when their child will meet the world for the first time ,but sometimes it just happenns to be in one of most emotional periods describing pisces,cancers and scorpios.yes,they are not eazy to deal with ,but they are loyal.the choise of a partner is it not like an algorithm valid for the other signs too?
it's so unusual to meet libra and capricorn in such chart....from what i observed they are in tune with virgo people
it's so unusual to meet libra and capricorn in such chart....from what i observed they are in tune with virgo people
Probably why my only relationships with aries were flings, my only relationship with a capricorn wasn't great, and I can never land a cancer for the long run even if I try.
to Candeh15 & VitasXisto :i respect your opinion,it's based on your personal experience,however it's not good people to be "labelled" only by their sun sign ,individuality plays a part too .even they deserve a chance to be happy.
peace 🙂
peace 🙂
Posted by quo vadis?
to Candeh15 & VitasXisto :i respect your opinion,it's based on your personal experience,however it's not good people to be "labelled" only by their sun sign ,individuality plays a part too .even they deserve a chance to be happy.
peace 🙂
Lol, it's not like I wouldn't give people of this sun sign a chance because of past experiences. I learned that lesson. I was going along with the topic and relating them to what has happened to me. I would date an aries if things happened to work out and we lasted longer than the initial fling; I'd try a capricorn again, but it'd take work. And I'm always into cancers and I've had many pleasant experiences with them.
Oh Shaks, I'm going to vomit if you and your cappy get any cuter. 😛
Posted by virg_goki
not everyone's perfect you do know that. If you expect yourself to be expected for who you are now, y not try practising that on others first?
I am trying to make sense of this statement.
If you expect yourself to be accepted for who you are now, y not try practising that on others first?
Now, I don't know where you came up with this notion of acceptance and I also fail to see it's relevancy. But if that is your question, my answer is, I don't expect it.
Posted by quo vadis?
pisces,cancers and scorpios.yes,they are not eazy to deal with ,but they are loyal.
I don't know many loyal Pisces. I know of some loyal Cancers. Scorpios are the only consistently loyal water signs and that ain't saying much.
Posted by VitasXisto
That's funny, cause all the signs he's mentioned I fuckin HATE, and from my personal experiences, they are all disloyal little cunts. Especially the clingy weak pathetic Capricorn bitch...
lol, I know what you're talking about.
Posted by Candeh15
Probably why my only relationships with aries were flings, my only relationship with a capricorn wasn't great, and I can never land a cancer for the long run even if I try.
Nice to see some corroboration 🙂
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboomPosted by DyTryin
Capricorn & Virgo - besides Shaka, what other VGs on DXP are attracted to Cappies?? :: Crickets :: Thought so.
Lots..the ones I remember off the top of my head, Sorti, LV and believe it or not..Cajun 😛click to expand
Truth, though I doubt I'll ever date one.
ok Ladies and Gentlemen,i'll check the course of ticket's price of Virgin Atlantic so i could go "home" 🙂
to : candech & cajunspirit: *speechless* standing with white flag infront of the ultimate virgo power 🙂
to Shaka_laka_boomboom :i too believe that virgo people are fine with capricorns ,so many things in common they have,well you are the live example and the better i guess could be the virgo-virgo connection.
to : candech & cajunspirit: *speechless* standing with white flag infront of the ultimate virgo power 🙂
to Shaka_laka_boomboom :i too believe that virgo people are fine with capricorns ,so many things in common they have,well you are the live example and the better i guess could be the virgo-virgo connection.
Posted by VitasXisto
That's funny, cause all the signs he's mentioned I fuckin HATE, and from my personal experiences, they are all disloyal little cunts. Especially the clingy weak pathetic Capricorn bitch...
Whud you say Willis—————
Shaka KNOWS the truth! The TRUTH will set you free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Cajunspirit
So in my never ending pursuit to find trends and similarities between the signs, I have a new theory to draw on.
Female Cardinal Signs, Capricorn, Aries, Cancer and Libra, all make, arguably the worst, relationship choices. More so than the other signs of the zodiac.
I find all these signs put on a very strong image in public, an image which rarely reflects their mushy and soft insides. You would'nt believe it till you see it.
And in my very biased opinion the awards are!!!
1. Libra, by far the most notorious sign for making poor relationship choices. Always ending up in some kind of self pity, emotionally distraught, cheating or abandoned. Anyone who dates a Libra will learn the meaning of pretentious and controlling.
2. Cancer, second only to Libra, I can't recall how many times I have seen Cancer women change men like they change their clothes. Very prone to making miscalculations and impromptu decisions with some of their most incompatible signs. The Cancer woman is the nightmare of the Aquarius man.
3. Aries, here, there and everywhere. The Aries woman often has numerous flings and leaves men shattered. The biggest mistake an Aries woman can make is dating a Cancer man, which they frequently do then regret...
4. Capricorn, I have only recently noticed these women to be hung up on exes. Very peculiar business. For someone so headstrong and giving an independent image, once they go mush for someone, game over. Capricorns and Libras make sweet music, till the Libra cuts the cords and the Capricorn smashes the instrument.
Is there ANY hope for us Cajun?
Oh, and Canjun, I resemble that remark! The only ex I'm hung on is a VIRGO. Damn, Virgos, love em'.
From my experience, Scorpio women encroach on OTHER people's relationships when they're single. They can be loyal to their man, but beware how they act around yours!
I've been dubbed a "boy hopper" by my friends because I could never make up my mind and stay with one guy for too long, but I've been dating the same Virgo for 5 months. It may not seem long, but to someone as indecisive, restless and guarded as I, it's no small feat.
I think with Libras (or any sign really) maturity nullifies the negative relationship characteristics we all possess. We grow and learn how to not only love people the right way, but also how to correctly let others love us.
I can contend to Cardinal signs maintaining a public image far different from their private selves, but as a Libra, that ties into attempting to keep a balance. Because on the inside, I'm sensitive and soft, I feel I need to contrast those sentiments with appearing to be strong and level-headed on the surface.
I've been dubbed a "boy hopper" by my friends because I could never make up my mind and stay with one guy for too long, but I've been dating the same Virgo for 5 months. It may not seem long, but to someone as indecisive, restless and guarded as I, it's no small feat.
I think with Libras (or any sign really) maturity nullifies the negative relationship characteristics we all possess. We grow and learn how to not only love people the right way, but also how to correctly let others love us.
I can contend to Cardinal signs maintaining a public image far different from their private selves, but as a Libra, that ties into attempting to keep a balance. Because on the inside, I'm sensitive and soft, I feel I need to contrast those sentiments with appearing to be strong and level-headed on the surface.
it was the Cappy who used him 'cause she saw right through him and fed him a taste of his own medicine! She wasn't clingy at all... she was SMART!
Nothing like being proactive... 🙂
I think cancers don't change partners in a hurry so much as give their heart to a relationship until it proves to be the wrong one. Then they give their heart to the next one etc. We mean well, try to take people at their word, and put ourselves into each effort...
Posted by crzydiam63
Is there ANY hope for us Cajun?
This whole post is subject and applies to a percentage, not a whole 🙂
Posted by LibraLove
From my experience, Scorpio women encroach on OTHER people's relationships when they're single. They can be loyal to their man, but beware how they act around yours!
A valid observation. My last Scorpio girlfriend, I met her through counselling. She was upset about another Virgo who she wanted being with another girl. I found it hilarious and pathetic.
I've been dubbed a "boy hopper" by my friends because I could never make up my mind and stay with one guy for too long, but I've been dating the same Virgo for 5 months. It may not seem long, but to someone as indecisive, restless and guarded as I, it's no small feat.
Congratulations on being a Libra, lol.
I think with Libras (or any sign really) maturity nullifies the negative relationship characteristics we all possess. We grow and learn how to not only love people the right way, but also how to correctly let others love us.
Love makes you do stupid things, but I agree entirely.
I can contend to Cardinal signs maintaining a public image far different from their private selves, but as a Libra, that ties into attempting to keep a balance. Because on the inside, I'm sensitive and soft, I feel I need to contrast those sentiments with appearing to be strong and level-headed on the surface.click to expand
Trust me, I had to witness it firsthand with my Libra ex to believe it.
subjective*
Posted by lildol
it was the Cappy who used him 'cause she saw right through him and fed him a taste of his own medicine! She wasn't clingy at all... she was SMART!
Nothing like being proactive... 🙂
As your post attests... Cardinal signs are prone to making rash decisions, without getting all the facts.... sadly.
Posted by VitasXisto
Posted by lildol
it was the Cappy who used him 'cause she saw right through him and fed him a taste of his own medicine! She wasn't clingy at all... she was SMART!
Shut the fuck up lildol I never gave you permission to speak, you will speak when spoken to, otherwise you shut your mouth be a good little useless Capricorn whore....
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*bitch slaps Vitas* Grow up or grow some balls or both... you should never speak to a woman like that. Actually, no one should every speak to anyone like that!
it's so strange to see a "civil war" on the virgo board ....is it not better to leave that to Axel & Slash? 🙂
Posted by DyTryin
Capricorn & Virgo - besides Shaka, what other VGs on DXP are attracted to Cappies?? :: Crickets :: Thought so.
You forgot me baby
I think I do tend to gravitate toward people that aren't traditionally my match. They also gravitate toward me. Leo's and Virgo's are gonna drive me mad... I think I see the good qualities, and tend to "forgive" the undesirable traits. In the end it's those traits that precipitate the ending of a strong bond. The Cancer in me wants to make everyone get in touch with their feelings. I see the emotion and try to encourage it, forgetting that not everyone wants to deal with or put their emotions on display. I think it takes an extremely strong person to be vulnerable, and trust people not to hurt you. It's easy to play Hardass...
Posted by 25thDecan
Again....what tha fuck are you talking about you lil beaner? You rsponded to ME...when I never addressed you. Lmao@you. You silly little cheerleader, what're you? Save a dxp now? Lmao the nerve of this kreylboin...lmao
Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries?
Posted by gemtaur
Caj,
Fire girls are turned off by controlling men but attracted to passionate men. Virgo men have the hidden passion fire girls find irresistible, but the afflicted ones are extremely controlling. Cancer men are not controlling in the same way.
A Cancer will never criticize a fire girl because he cares. A Cancer will never care more about his self-image than his woman...Fire girls need to know they are your number one or they are out. It's just how we are built.
Can Cancers be manipulative, sulky, and controlling? Absolutely. The key is that a fire girl can detect the difference in motivation. An afflicted Virgo man's control stems from insecurity, narcissism, understanding love as need, whereas a Cancer's passive aggressive behaviour originates in the need to self-protect.
An unafflicted Virgo brings out the protective side of an Aries woman and the compassionate side of a Saggie. It's the need to control and the inability/unwillingness to appreciate that a fire girl needs to be accepted as she is (within reason, of course) in the eyes of her lover, that causes the incompatibility. A Cancer and an Aries don't have this problem because a Cancer man knows how to cherish his woman if he actually loves her, moods and all; he does not try to control or change her.
Just my two cents.
Your observation rings true with my experiences.
I personally can't accept certain bad characteristics people may have, that was a serious issue for the fire girls I have dealt with.
Posted by 25thDecan
He's not talking about her bad "fire" characteristics. He's talking about compromising things like infidelity, drug abuse, excessive emotional outbursts, I believe. I'm the same way. Fuck the zodiac. Be a responsible adult and we'll talk....unless yous a scorpion.....
Smoking, tattoos and piercings are quite intolerable for me.
Much respect 25th, not many people keep it real anymore.
Posted by 25thDecan
He's not talking about her bad "fire" characteristics. He's talking about compromising things like infidelity, drug abuse, excessive emotional outbursts, I believe. I'm the same way. Fuck the zodiac. Be a responsible adult and we'll talk....unless yous a scorpion.....
See now I was with you til you started talkin bout no excessive emotional outbursts. Seriously? You know we need our drama!
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Female Cardinal Signs, Capricorn, Aries, Cancer and Libra, all make, arguably the worst, relationship choices. More so than the other signs of the zodiac.
I find all these signs put on a very strong image in public, an image which rarely reflects their mushy and soft insides. You would'nt believe it till you see it.
And in my very biased opinion the awards are!!!
1. Libra, by far the most notorious sign for making poor relationship choices. Always ending up in some kind of self pity, emotionally distraught, cheating or abandoned. Anyone who dates a Libra will learn the meaning of pretentious and controlling.
2. Cancer, second only to Libra, I can't recall how many times I have seen Cancer women change men like they change their clothes. Very prone to making miscalculations and impromptu decisions with some of their most incompatible signs. The Cancer woman is the nightmare of the Aquarius man.
3. Aries, here, there and everywhere. The Aries woman often has numerous flings and leaves men shattered. The biggest mistake an Aries woman can make is dating a Cancer man, which they frequently do then regret...
4. Capricorn, I have only recently noticed these women to be hung up on exes. Very peculiar business. For someone so headstrong and giving an independent image, once they go mush for someone, game over. Capricorns and Libras make sweet music, till the Libra cuts the cords and the Capricorn smashes the instrument.