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Confused Virgo FWB
A couple other things: he's made random comments that have thrown me off. He one time basically told me that his mom was gonna be my mother in law. When I asked him what he meant, he never replied. Also, one time he asked if it bothered me that all we do is have sex. I told him it used to, but I'm so used to it now it doesn't bug me. Didn't reply to that either. Every time we talk and I look at him, he won't make eye contact lol. I know he'll look at me when I'm looking away, but the I look his way, and he looks away.
So at this point I'm just confused. I feel like he's catching feelings, but I never really know with him. How do Virgos act when they like you?
His chart: Scorpio Rising, Virgo sun, Cancer Moon, Virgo Venus, Gemini Mars, Leo Mercury
So at this point I'm just confused. I feel like he's catching feelings, but I never really know with him. How do Virgos act when they like you?
His chart: Scorpio Rising, Virgo sun, Cancer Moon, Virgo Venus, Gemini Mars, Leo Mercury
Eh
What is it YOU want from him? Something more? Or are you concerned he's catching feelings and the status quo of you fwb will change...
To answer your question, yes I believe he's catching feelings.
From my experience, you know a Virgo likes you when they always want to speak to you and hangout with you. If this is the case, that means they feel a certain level of comfort with you/you captured their interest. Him being more passionate during sex (since he wasn't for a long while) is an indicator. The fact that he offered so many times to buy certain things, pick you, if you were hungry, cuddling. Communicating that he cares about your safety... Virgos like to be of service to those they care for.
So I would definitely say he at least likes you more than just a fwb.
From my experience, you know a Virgo likes you when they always want to speak to you and hangout with you. If this is the case, that means they feel a certain level of comfort with you/you captured their interest. Him being more passionate during sex (since he wasn't for a long while) is an indicator. The fact that he offered so many times to buy certain things, pick you, if you were hungry, cuddling. Communicating that he cares about your safety... Virgos like to be of service to those they care for.
So I would definitely say he at least likes you more than just a fwb.
Posted by LadyNeptuneTo be 100% honest I don't know. Part of me wants something more, the other part wants to just keep it how it is.
What is it YOU want from him? Something more? Or are you concerned he's catching feelings and the status quo of you fwb will change...
Posted by CurlyAriesInteresting. Thanks for you input. I was with a Virgo man for 3 years, but he was very blunt about his intentions. This one is hard to read. One min he seems like he's catching feelings, the next he's cold.
To answer your question, yes I believe he's catching feelings.
From my experience, you know a Virgo likes you when they always want to speak to you and hangout with you. If this is the case, that means they feel a certain level of comfort with you/you captured their interest. Him being more passionate during sex (since he wasn't for a long while) is an indicator. The fact that he offered so many times to buy certain things, pick you, if you were hungry, cuddling. Communicating that he cares about your safety... Virgos like to be of service to those they care for.
So I would definitely say he at least likes you more than just a fwb.
Posted by DanceWithMeLightlyHe knows. I told him this in the beginning of the year.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThen maybe you should let him know that.Posted by DanceWithMeLightlyI have mixed emotions honestly. If he were to ask me to date him, I probably would've agreed to it months back out of curiosity. He seems like he'd be a great boyfriend and I did really like him at one point. What's holding me back now is I'm trying to move across the country to another state for work by next year, and I can't have anything/anyone holding me back. And I wouldn't wanna do a long distance relationship. I did that for 4 years, and I refuse to do it again.
Yeah he's catching feelings for you.
OP, is that good or bad news for you?
Bring it up in conversation that you're actually planning to move next year for work.
We Virgos are very physical, sensual and a relationship devoid of that is a non-existent one. Even if you establish a relationship now, it would only die.click to expand
Posted by DanceWithMeLightlyYeah I'll bring it up next time I see him. Thanks for your input it was very helpful ŠPosted by thecrazyariestaurusMaybe you should try to bring it up again and study his reaction.Posted by DanceWithMeLightlyHe knows. I told him this in the beginning of the year.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThen maybe you should let him know that.Posted by DanceWithMeLightlyI have mixed emotions honestly. If he were to ask me to date him, I probably would've agreed to it months back out of curiosity. He seems like he'd be a great boyfriend and I did really like him at one point. What's holding me back now is I'm trying to move across the country to another state for work by next year, and I can't have anything/anyone holding me back. And I wouldn't wanna do a long distance relationship. I did that for 4 years, and I refuse to do it again.
Yeah he's catching feelings for you.
OP, is that good or bad news for you?
Bring it up in conversation that you're actually planning to move next year for work.
We Virgos are very physical, sensual and a relationship devoid of that is a non-existent one. Even if you establish a relationship now, it would only die.click to expand
Posted by HighwayChileWell, I kind of wrote the question at the end of my long ass post.
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So you write a book about you and him....what's the real question?
Al I see is lots O` confusion.
FWB is nothing but selfishness and narcissism. Good job waisting 3 years of his life where he could have built a real relationship with someone. Now all you and him have is confusion and disappointment.
He pro got scared to lose you when you told him you were moving then realized hey I like this girl lol. Sucks for him.
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Before it happened, he was constantly texting me and messaging me on snapchat and didn't even bring up sex. It was just random conversation. He's been tagging me on random memes on fb, and IG (which is surprising because friends are able to see who you're tagging, and I assume I'm a secret lol). He keeps saying we should hang out, or have a movie night.
So the day of, he's texts me and asks what time. I told him we can't go to my place because my roommate was home, so he offered to go to his (never happens). I agreed and told him I'd drive there. He asked me if I wanted him to pick me up, but I declined because I didn't want him to go out of his way. He asked me if I wanted food or anything before I went and I declined. I get to his place and he tells me to make myself comfortable, so I sat on his bed next to him and we watch TV for a little. He started cuddling with me (which never ever Happens). Then we got down to business. During the act, he holds my hand, and kisses me the whole time (never did that before). Then we took a little break and we just layed in bed. He flipped thru channels, and found a movie he really liked. He asked me if I ever watched it, and I said no. And he said, "you're gonna stay here with me and watch it". I was thrown off by it but I stayed and watched it lol. Then when we finished, he walked me to my car and kissed me goodbye and told me to text him when I got home so he knew I got home safe.
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