Confusing Virgo Woman? Are they this forward?

So I recently met this girl, we started talking and becoming friends. We met online and I went to hang out with her at her place. So some background info.. I am also a girl and I'm lesbian with a long term partner. I'm a taurus. She's bi and has a somewhat unofficial bf shes been dating for few months. She a virgo. Anyways..

So we were smoking some herb chilling and started talking. She shared a lot of personal things about her life and her past which surprised me. (sexual assault, etc) She did some odd things like show me her underwear drawer/underwear which I didn't think anything of. She told me the top drawer was for the kinky stuff and I said I'm not going to ask about it. So we were talking about raves and ecstasy and she would make comments like "Oh, I don't know if I could roll with you. I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off you.." We were both smoking and she was kind of suggestively blowing the smoke towards me. I tied up my hair cause it was in the way and she was told me I was really pretty. Being the shy person I am I just said thank you? Anyway there were subtle hints throughout the night.

So it became pretty late and I decided to leave, she told me to text her when I got home safety which I did. Then she texted me telling me she wanted to do something inappropriate. When I asked her what she said she wanted to kiss me. We talked for a bit and both agreed that we would be respectful of our partners and each other by not crossing any boundaries. It would both ruin our relationships and our friendship.

Problem is...I can't figure her out because she's so hot and cold. She'd say things like "In another parallel universe I'd like to be with you" or "I like you a lot" She's even made some interesting sexual comments through text. Then she'd say things saying its best to keep it as a friendship. She would text me litle things like she's going grocery shopping or doing laundry, typically things you report to a significant other.. So one question... Do virgos usually come off this strong? I thought they were shy? I'm taurus and shy as hell. Very cautious, I don't make moves or provoke anyone to give me that kind of attention. Also is this something that seems genuine/serious or is she just messing around? I feel awful because I'm attracted to her to but it seems all screwed up. I do like her and would like to be her friend because we connect well and yeah.. I haven't had many female friends and we just click. What are your thoughts?

didnt read but yes they are forward, at least when they are in a situation that makes them feel awkward, which is often enough. i've had sex with a couple just because they slipped up and said something very forward that they didnt mean to say, once they say it they'll just go with it.