Dating a virgo man

Posted by hippiecrite

Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

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Yes @saggurl88

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Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

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Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

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Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

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Posted by hippiecrite

Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

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Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

It's how we are 🤷🏼‍♀️

I have moments where I'm like super all about it and then I need time to recharge....I will still text and respond but I need my alone time. Tbh ...nobody should be really seeing each other everyday unless you live together and even then be prepared for the Virgo to go off in the other room to be by themselves for a bit.

Now if we are making excuses and are really distant then something is up and either we are figuring out a good way to bring it up or avoiding it altogether until you ask....that just depends on the Virgo.

There's no harm in bringing it up to him but if he really isn't doing anything to warrant it then id leave it alone. He might then start thinking something wrong all the time or he's doing something wrong and that puts added pressure and we will start to overanalyze and withdrawal even more.

I'm obviously not a virguy nor dated one but us robots are all the same lol.

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It's how we are 🤷🏼‍♀️

I have moments where I'm like super all about it and then I need time to recharge....I will still text and respond but I need my alone time. Tbh ...nobody should be really seeing each other everyday unless you live together and even then be prepared for the Virgo to go off in the other room to be by themselves for a bit.

Now if we are making excuses and are really distant then something is up and either we are figuring out a good way to bring it up or avoiding it altogether until you ask....that just depends on the Virgo.

There's no harm in bringing it up to him but if he really isn't doing anything to warrant it then id leave it alone. He might then start thinking something wrong all the time or he's doing something wrong and that puts added pressure and we will start to overanalyze and withdrawal even more.

I'm obviously not a virguy nor dated one but us robots are all the same lol.

Okay then I'm guessing right.

We see each other a few times a week which is totally fine with me. I'll probably eventually bring it up very casually that this is just something that I have noticed.

Doesn't seem like he is making excuses atm, still makes an effort to see us here and there.

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Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

He never disappears for days. He will at least text or call once a day.. I asked him a few days ago if everything is okay because he seems bit flat and he said yeah I'm great, having a good week actually.. oh well.. I might just have to fund the right time and have this chat.. but seems to me this is who he is, his personality.. other than that he is a great guy, very attentive and caring.. very good with my son as well

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Posted by hippiecrite

Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

He never disappears for days. He will at least text or call once a day.. I asked him a few days ago if everything is okay because he seems bit flat and he said yeah I'm great, having a good week actually.. oh well.. I might just have to fund the right time and have this chat.. but seems to me this is who he is, his personality.. other than that he is a great guy, very attentive and caring.. very good with my son as well

That’s awesome, but which of us are you trying to convince? If you were totally cool with everything, you probably wouldn’t have posted. Or maybe you were just venting and now you’ve seen it typed out and realize it’s silly?

Regardless, the note about communication still stands. With anything really. It sounds like you have a good thing going and being open is a great way to keep building on that. Festering sucks. 😄

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Posted by hippiecrite

Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

He never disappears for days. He will at least text or call once a day.. I asked him a few days ago if everything is okay because he seems bit flat and he said yeah I'm great, having a good week actually.. oh well.. I might just have to fund the right time and have this chat.. but seems to me this is who he is, his personality.. other than that he is a great guy, very attentive and caring.. very good with my son as well

That’s awesome, but which of us are you trying to convince? If you were totally cool with everything, you probably wouldn’t have posted. Or maybe you were just venting and now you’ve seen it typed out and realize it’s silly?

Regardless, the note about communication still stands. With anything really. It sounds like you have a good thing going and being open is a great way to keep building on that. Festering sucks. 😄

I think he is just so different from anyone that I have ever dated( being so practical, pedantic, not very romantic, particular, very levelled and not talking much, but yet so generous, caring, honest)And I have never been much into star signs but when started reading about virgos a lot of things about him made total sense. I think that's why I am here asking 😊

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Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

He never disappears for days. He will at least text or call once a day.. I asked him a few days ago if everything is okay because he seems bit flat and he said yeah I'm great, having a good week actually.. oh well.. I might just have to fund the right time and have this chat.. but seems to me this is who he is, his personality.. other than that he is a great guy, very attentive and caring.. very good with my son as well

That’s awesome, but which of us are you trying to convince? If you were totally cool with everything, you probably wouldn’t have posted. Or maybe you were just venting and now you’ve seen it typed out and realize it’s silly?

Regardless, the note about communication still stands. With anything really. It sounds like you have a good thing going and being open is a great way to keep building on that. Festering sucks. 😄

I think he is just so different from anyone that I have ever dated( being so practical, pedantic, not very romantic, particular, very levelled and not talking much, but yet so generous, caring, honest)And I have never been much into star signs but when started reading about virgos a lot of things about him made total sense. I think that's why I am here asking 😊

Isn’t it weird when you finally get the good one and you’re comparing him to the toxic ones and wondering what’s wrong with him? 😂

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Posted by hippiecrite

Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

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Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

Same, but he always asks if I'm seeing other people. I'm not so I say no. But for a time I was. I joked with him that I didnt like to share and he almost flipped out saying "you think I do?" Then once he said to me "if you were my girl(exclusively) it would be different" but when I asked how he wouldnt elaborate. But we were talking about seeing other ppl and I took that as a warning that if we were exclusive and he found out I was talking to other guys there would be hell to pay...which is diff from his usual "what ever makes you happy" vibe.

I dont think he understands the fact that I would be loyal af if we were exclusive. Shit I'm pretty loyal now and we arent exclusive. But. Really that's cause I dont have any other options.

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Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

Same, but he always asks if I'm seeing other people. I'm not so I say no. But for a time I was. I joked with him that I didnt like to share and he almost flipped out saying "you think I do?" Then once he said to me "if you were my girl(exclusively) it would be different" but when I asked how he wouldnt elaborate. But we were talking about seeing other ppl and I took that as a warning that if we were exclusive and he found out I was talking to other guys there would be hell to pay...which is diff from his usual "what ever makes you happy" vibe.

I dont think he understands the fact that I would be loyal af if we were exclusive. Shit I'm pretty loyal now and we arent exclusive. But. Really that's cause I dont have any other options.

we're similar, what's your placement?

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Posted by SeaLion

Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

Same, but he always asks if I'm seeing other people. I'm not so I say no. But for a time I was. I joked with him that I didnt like to share and he almost flipped out saying "you think I do?" Then once he said to me "if you were my girl(exclusively) it would be different" but when I asked how he wouldnt elaborate. But we were talking about seeing other ppl and I took that as a warning that if we were exclusive and he found out I was talking to other guys there would be hell to pay...which is diff from his usual "what ever makes you happy" vibe.

I dont think he understands the fact that I would be loyal af if we were exclusive. Shit I'm pretty loyal now and we arent exclusive. But. Really that's cause I dont have any other options.

we're similar, what's your placement?

In my profile 👆

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by SeaLion

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by SeaLion

Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

Same, but he always asks if I'm seeing other people. I'm not so I say no. But for a time I was. I joked with him that I didnt like to share and he almost flipped out saying "you think I do?" Then once he said to me "if you were my girl(exclusively) it would be different" but when I asked how he wouldnt elaborate. But we were talking about seeing other ppl and I took that as a warning that if we were exclusive and he found out I was talking to other guys there would be hell to pay...which is diff from his usual "what ever makes you happy" vibe.

I dont think he understands the fact that I would be loyal af if we were exclusive. Shit I'm pretty loyal now and we arent exclusive. But. Really that's cause I dont have any other options.

we're similar, what's your placement?

In my profile 👆

ah, sorry.

interesting that we've completely different placements, but both are loyal even in an not committed relationship 🙂

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by SeaLion

Yes @saggurl88

I'm of no help. I just cut one Virgo off and the old Virgo is back with a vengeance lol I need 4 of them for every quarter of the year, so they can be on rotation 😆

That may be the trick... but mines got a Scorpio moon and he gets low key jealous af even when he tells me he just wants me to be happy.

The Virgo that I liked was jealous too, but only in front of me, he couldn't see anything else I was doing cause I don't throw stuff in his face. He's dating and he knows I'm dating and that's it.

Same, but he always asks if I'm seeing other people. I'm not so I say no. But for a time I was. I joked with him that I didnt like to share and he almost flipped out saying "you think I do?" Then once he said to me "if you were my girl(exclusively) it would be different" but when I asked how he wouldnt elaborate. But we were talking about seeing other ppl and I took that as a warning that if we were exclusive and he found out I was talking to other guys there would be hell to pay...which is diff from his usual "what ever makes you happy" vibe.

I dont think he understands the fact that I would be loyal af if we were exclusive. Shit I'm pretty loyal now and we arent exclusive. But. Really that's cause I dont have any other options.

we're similar, what's your placement?

In my profile 👆

ah, sorry.

interesting that we've completely different placements, but both are loyal even in an not committed relationship 🙂

I'm Leo dominant. Leo's tend to be loyal....for the most part.

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Posted by MissVesna

Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

Yes I've noticed this a lot with mine. One moment he will be clingy and then the next I'm sitting alone watching the movie we started together and he is in the other room cleaning the kitchen or whatever else. Or he will just flat out tell me it's time for me to go home. Lmao. I hate when he does that but then other times he begs me to sleep over so I know he doesnt mean it in a mean way.

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

Yes I've noticed this a lot with mine. One moment he will be clingy and then the next I'm sitting alone watching the movie we started together and he is in the other room cleaning the kitchen or whatever else. Or he will just flat out tell me it's time for me to go home. Lmao. I hate when he does that but then other times he begs me to sleep over so I know he doesnt mean it in a mean way.

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Ask him what’s up. As long as you aren’t over emotional or irrational, there’s no harm in bringing it up. Tell him you’ve noticed a pattern and wasn’t sure if you should be concerned, or whatever. If your needs aren’t being met during those fluctuations, I’d bring that up too. You’ve been together for almost a year, don’t be afraid to communicate.

Thank you. Yeah I can be a bit emotional sometimes hence I haven't brought it up yet. When it happens I bite my tongue not to talk abour it because I know I can say things that I will regret saying and always promise to myself that when everything is better and I'm a lot calmer I will chat about it. But when things are great they are so great that I don't feel like talking . It's like this vicious cycle ..

Mine needs to lay low sometimes to recharge his batteries. Like... last year, we went on a family vacation and I didn’t see him for almost a week after we got back. We’d talk and text every day though. That was something we established early on. It’s our bare minimum. If I didn’t hear from him, or vice versa, we’d know something was really wrong.

That “rule” came about organically, but some things warrant a conversation. Especially if you know you’re prone to getting emotional, try to work it in when you’re not over there biting your tongue. The Virgos I know get glassy eyed and shut down when things get super confrontational.

Anyway. Just saying it sounds like you need to clear the air. Best of luck.

He never disappears for days. He will at least text or call once a day.. I asked him a few days ago if everything is okay because he seems bit flat and he said yeah I'm great, having a good week actually.. oh well.. I might just have to fund the right time and have this chat.. but seems to me this is who he is, his personality.. other than that he is a great guy, very attentive and caring.. very good with my son as well

That’s awesome, but which of us are you trying to convince? If you were totally cool with everything, you probably wouldn’t have posted. Or maybe you were just venting and now you’ve seen it typed out and realize it’s silly?

Regardless, the note about communication still stands. With anything really. It sounds like you have a good thing going and being open is a great way to keep building on that. Festering sucks. 😄

I think he is just so different from anyone that I have ever dated( being so practical, pedantic, not very romantic, particular, very levelled and not talking much, but yet so generous, caring, honest)And I have never been much into star signs but when started reading about virgos a lot of things about him made total sense. I think that's why I am here asking 😊

Isn’t it weird when you finally get the good one and you’re comparing him to the toxic ones and wondering what’s wrong with him? 😂

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

It really must be a virgo thing then🤷‍♀️looks like he is back to his normal self now. Invited my son and I for their family Christmas lunch too. I just need to accept that that's what he is like and try not to stress too much about it.

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

Yes I've noticed this a lot with mine. One moment he will be clingy and then the next I'm sitting alone watching the movie we started together and he is in the other room cleaning the kitchen or whatever else. Or he will just flat out tell me it's time for me to go home. Lmao. I hate when he does that but then other times he begs me to sleep over so I know he doesnt mean it in a mean way.

Omg yes 🤦‍♀️ I remember when we first started seeing each other we'd be hanging out at his place and one moment he is all over me and the next minute he says okay, its bed time now ..kind of hinting it's time to go home 🤣 it's very different now ofcourse but used to spin me out

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

Yes I've noticed this a lot with mine. One moment he will be clingy and then the next I'm sitting alone watching the movie we started together and he is in the other room cleaning the kitchen or whatever else. Or he will just flat out tell me it's time for me to go home. Lmao. I hate when he does that but then other times he begs me to sleep over so I know he doesnt mean it in a mean way.

Omg yes 🤦‍♀️ I remember when we first started seeing each other we'd be hanging out at his place and one moment he is all over me and the next minute he says okay, its bed time now ..kind of hinting it's time to go home 🤣 it's very different now ofcourse but used to spin me out

Haha yes he has said that too "its bed time" omg that's to funny

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Okay, so I need a little help over here. I've been seeing a virgo now for about 8 months. He is lovely. But what I find hard is that some weeks he wants to see me a lot, he will come and stay over few nights a week, will be texting something nice and cute.throughout the day.. and other weeks he'll just quickly call me in the evening. We will still see each other a couple of times but no cute messages ect..It feels very up and down.. and it does happen every few weeks. I'm probably over reacting, but cince he met my son and it's all getting a bit serious I'm stressing out a bit. Is it typical for virgo men act this way

Virgos are moody. This happens a lot. Dont take it personally so long as hes still invested in your relationship , he will be honest with you and tell you where you stand. They like a like of space and to focus on other things at times, you gotta be okay with them doing that cause they dont change lol

It really must be a virgo thing then🤷‍♀️looks like he is back to his normal self now. Invited my son and I for their family Christmas lunch too. I just need to accept that that's what he is like and try not to stress too much about it.

They require a lot of space and when they get into a hobby or work or something, they obsess so everything else gets paused. Dont try to change this, he wont like it, you either accept it or not. They're distant sometimes, but their loyalty is pretty good. So long as you give him his space, he'll be back.

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