Need advice please

Hello guys,

Hope you are well.

My problem in few words :

I was very close friend to a Virgo man ( I’m Scorpio ), and at some point he kind of acting very strangely like beginning to like me ( that’s what I thought ) but he was also very confused.

One day I lost my patience and said horrible words like I don’t understand you, you are from no use... but that’s because he kept trying to make me jealous. Literally it was making him so happy to see me that way so yeah I lost it totally. Anyway he cut me off obviously lol but he came back 8 month later and apologised for cutting me off and tried to find some excuses, he wants to reconnect.

I’m really confused because I’m someone who likes boundaries; either we are friend or we are not, I hate confusion. Also I know that he has a collection of girls that he call when needed and hurt many girls I don’t like that. There is a part of me who wants to avoid anymore crap and say bye and a part of

Me who wants to be friends again . So I’m really confused , if you could give me advices please that would be really great thanks smile

Excuse me if there is a duplicate, for some reasons I was unable to accèss my first post. Thanks

Was he confused or confusing to you?

We have always been very open, we were friends for two years and we even use to live in the same house.

He began to confuse me, because he stopped reaching out and would assume I was dating when I just busy at work. When we used to go clubbing that was always fun but suddenly he could not handle guys around me, he would just look on the floor and go away. One day he said to me he is seeing back one of his ex and I just said «  i am happy if you are «  and his expression totally changed , he looked sad, and then he became distant with me. I kept calling and he said he is busy dating , and I needed him because I was going through something difficult st work so that’s when I lost my nerves.

So he had to get you jealous in order conform that you like him... you got mad he came back but keeps one foot in and one foot out..

I'm not a bit lost on his girl collection.

Always wanted a harem but there is far too much anxiety on just one woman alone I'm pretty sure I would die early tryna to juggle a collection.

He is an attention seeker that’s why he keeps all the girls in his pocket. I know it because he used to tell me everything, how he manipulates girls to get what he wants.

He used to say «  the best thing to get a girl is to play hot and cold so you create a need and then she is crazy after you »

I don’t even know why I created that topic. He is obviously not good hearted. I think my brain is a mess too lol.

That is a scary virgo.

Why be confused over his foolishness? You know what you NEED to do so just do it and never look back. He's a mess of a man and make a mess out of you IF YOU ALLOW IT.

So you basically fell for exactly what he told you he does...fuck that. Tell him to fuck all the way off!

Yeah lol I feel a bit stupid, plus he is a drug addict too I forgot to mention.

It’s just that we were initially good friends and it’s a shame what happened, but I guess there is nothing I can do, it’s not like we can go back haha.

Thanks anyway.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

So you basically fell for exactly what he told you he does...fuck that. Tell him to fuck all the way off!

This! 👆👆👆

Scorpio and Virgo aren't a good match in my experience and opinion. Scorpio is fixed. Virgo is mutable. We just don't speak the same language.