butterfly1107
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decisions...decisions...decisions
"Is is something the woman does or does a light bulb come on in your head that makes you realize that you have been blessed with a true gem?"
Not a male Virgo here, so I can't answer that question. However, I know mine well enough to know that he doesn't care for concieted people.
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
Not a male Virgo here, so I can't answer that question. However, I know mine well enough to know that he doesn't care for concieted people.
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
Is is something the woman does or does a light bulb come on in your head that makes you realize that you have been blessed with a true gem?
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
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lol. Actually, sometimes it's good to be confident in yourself like that butterfly, just make sure there are some actions to fully back up those words. They'll see the light, eventually. 😉
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
Not a male Virgo here, so I can't answer that question. However, I know mine well enough to know that he doesn't care for concieted people.
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
PAngel thanks so much for your comment butI am far from being a conceited person but I do know my worth and which every good hearted person should as well...I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap! My virgo once told me that when he settles down there will be no getting back up...
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
PAngel thanks so much for your comment butI am far from being a conceited person but I do know my worth and which every good hearted person should as well...I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap! My virgo once told me that when he settles down there will be no getting back up...
Is is something the woman does or does a light bulb come on in your head that makes you realize that you have been blessed with a true gem?
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
caprigirlwithvirgo...I like that one!
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
caprigirlwithvirgo...I like that one!
lol. Actually, sometimes it's good to be confident in yourself like that butterfly, just make sure there are some actions to fully back up those words. They'll see the light, eventually.
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
reniniba-chan...I most definitely back up my words with actions and then some but I guess even with actions you still have to be careful because it could all be just a bunch of game!!! Thanks for your comment 🙂
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
reniniba-chan...I most definitely back up my words with actions and then some but I guess even with actions you still have to be careful because it could all be just a bunch of game!!! Thanks for your comment 🙂
"Message posted by: butterfly1107 on 4/9/2007 3:26:20 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.254
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
My Virguy sees my qualities and is totally aware of them but he is skeptical. We just started "talking" in December so theres a long road ahead. He's lingering around to see if i'm real. Another virgo friend of mine I have known for 3 years. We started out dating but we decided it was better to be friends. After all this time he is developing real feelings for me. I am not into him anymore but I am pointing out that after 3 years he is starting to fall for me. Be patient. Do your own thing. Don't worry about the status of your relationship. Be a true friend with no strings attached seeking nothing in return but friendship and respect. Don't be a kiss ass. If he acts like a jerk let him know but don't whine and complain about were this relationship is going. Stick to those rules and he will be yours eventually. You may even realize that your just not so into him like I did with my old friend. Or he'll realize that you are the one and you guys will live happily ever after.
Butterfly1107:
We virgos take a LONG time to think things thru, especially getting into a committed relationship. We don't take it lightly. I am a virgo woman with a scorpio man...yes, this bothered him alot, especially in the beginning of our relationship. I would say it all a very gradual process...
We virgos take a LONG time to think things thru, especially getting into a committed relationship. We don't take it lightly. I am a virgo woman with a scorpio man...yes, this bothered him alot, especially in the beginning of our relationship. I would say it all a very gradual process...
Message posted by: butterfly1107 on 4/9/2007 3:26:20 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.254
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
That is correct...I have had 4 virgos in my life and even though things did not work out with them and I am actually glad that things did not work out because the men i thought they were as time went on i found out that they were not the kind of men i wanted in my life and that has nothing to do with them being virgos. To be completely honest with you PAngel those same virgo men always tells me whenever we talk that I am truly the best woman and they wish that they would have realized that sooner but of course now it's way too late because once i am over you that's it!
And i am sure that age was also a factor as well...
Thanks PAngel! 🙂
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
That is correct...I have had 4 virgos in my life and even though things did not work out with them and I am actually glad that things did not work out because the men i thought they were as time went on i found out that they were not the kind of men i wanted in my life and that has nothing to do with them being virgos. To be completely honest with you PAngel those same virgo men always tells me whenever we talk that I am truly the best woman and they wish that they would have realized that sooner but of course now it's way too late because once i am over you that's it!
And i am sure that age was also a factor as well...
Thanks PAngel! 🙂
My Virguy sees my qualities and is totally aware of them but he is skeptical. We just started "talking" in December so theres a long road ahead. He's lingering around to see if i'm real. Another virgo friend of mine I have known for 3 years. We started out dating but we decided it was better to be friends. After all this time he is developing real feelings for me. I am not into him anymore but I am pointing out that after 3 years he is starting to fall for me. Be patient. Do your own thing. Don't worry about the status of your relationship. Be a true friend with no strings attached seeking nothing in return but friendship and respect. Don't be a kiss ass. If he acts like a jerk let him know but don't whine and complain about were this relationship is going. Stick to those rules and he will be yours eventually. You may even realize that your just not so into him like I did with my old friend. Or he'll realize that you are the one and you guys will live happily ever after.
happycrab...you have such a sweet heart! It is so true about virguys when they take their time and I am a witness that with time life gets a whole lot better with your virguy. You will start to notice how he is slowly putting his guards down with you and giving you more and more of him and we are not even totally there yet and i am happ with the results from me being patient and just loving unconditionally!
Thanks happycrab 🙂
happycrab...you have such a sweet heart! It is so true about virguys when they take their time and I am a witness that with time life gets a whole lot better with your virguy. You will start to notice how he is slowly putting his guards down with you and giving you more and more of him and we are not even totally there yet and i am happ with the results from me being patient and just loving unconditionally!
Thanks happycrab 🙂
Butterfly1107:
We virgos take a LONG time to think things thru, especially getting into a committed relationship. We don't take it lightly. I am a virgo woman with a scorpio man...yes, this bothered him alot, especially in the beginning of our relationship. I would say it all a very gradual process...
So, thank you so much for your comment and actually virgos are doing it the right way because no one should be rushing into a long term committed relationship unless you have had time to get to know the person and whether or not you will be happy with them for a long period of time.
It has been about 1 year and a half for me and my virguy but we used to work together when we were 18 and we will be 26 this year but we have only really gotten to know each other over the last year and a half. I agree...it is a very long gradual process but worth it! How long did it take for you to decide to commit to your man?
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We virgos take a LONG time to think things thru, especially getting into a committed relationship. We don't take it lightly. I am a virgo woman with a scorpio man...yes, this bothered him alot, especially in the beginning of our relationship. I would say it all a very gradual process...
So, thank you so much for your comment and actually virgos are doing it the right way because no one should be rushing into a long term committed relationship unless you have had time to get to know the person and whether or not you will be happy with them for a long period of time.
It has been about 1 year and a half for me and my virguy but we used to work together when we were 18 and we will be 26 this year but we have only really gotten to know each other over the last year and a half. I agree...it is a very long gradual process but worth it! How long did it take for you to decide to commit to your man?
🙂
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