Does he want a relationship or just to hit?

Here's the key:
He doesn't return calls.
He doesn't return text messages
You only see him late at night.

Those^^ are all red flags.

Oh, he's making an effort? His idea of an effort is more texting?? That's a lame effort in my opinion.

If he were interested in you, then he would step up, make plans and take you out at a decent time of the day. Late night is not acceptable unless you just want to hook up. Too busy is no excuse.

If he's in the entertainment industry, then he probably has girls throwing themselves at him. Be the one girl who is different. Make him work for it. Don't be willing to meet up late at night - you've already got plans (isn't watching TV by yourself plans?). If he wants you make him do step up. If he won't, then no hard feelings and no loss.

Virgos are traditionalists, just like us caps are. Be old fashioned.