Does this Virgo guy like me(ctd....)

Sorry my info was inaccurate. So when he said he had 3 other options and will consider me equally, I was hurt. I asked him how is that fair when we spend most time together. His other choices are far away.he said he needs to fair to me as he knew some for few yrs. I doubted whether he spoke the truth in this as he was just mentioning that I need to wait and suddenly became noncommittal. Also he kept txting me from home where he had other choices. That didn't mske sense. Also he showed me threatening txt messages from his xgf demanding to know his future plans. He didnot reply anything. He said that I only knw his future plans after his brother and that he just has contacts with his xgf to make sure she doesen't jump into anything drastic and he will never consider her anymore . Well I believed the txts as he showed me . But rest made me disturbed. He saw me upset and kept all the way to my home to drop me although I kept telling him no. Even during our meet ups, he will never leave if he saw me upset even though business txts used to keep coming. I knew he cared abt me . We discussed a lot abt our future plans and he always kept mentioning that I he wants me to follow my dream.
I backed off that day. But he kept txting me for dinner foll sat. I replied yes only after few days. He replied instantly saying he will pick a good restaurant and took me to his most fav one that day. Looked like he was waiting eagerly for me to reply .
I really love him but he is never ready yet to take it to romance. He says that he has a wall and moreover has an obsessive compulsive problem which took him almost 9 mo with his x's to get intimate. I know that he can never hug or shake hands with anyone easily. He only hugs me briefly when I mention . We have been next to each other on bed talking and having friendly arguments but he has never made any attempts to get intimate. I have so far given him his time and space . Hd still txts me and meets up with me. I really don't know whether he really likes me.

Busyeyes knows what's up. He is mind fucking you.

Burgos love to see how far you will go and then they raise the bar higher.


He's playing you. Move on. Find your happy.

Lol. Virgo. Not Burgos. Damn phone.

Well he knew I was a very strong and outspoken person. I am a true taurean by nature except that I am not arrogant . However I know he utilized my affectionate and caring part of my nature. But I don't know why he picked me up amidst all the gals in my group. He still meets a lot of gals but never reaches out to open a pvt chat or meet ups with them as he did with me. I am out of town now. But he still txts me everyday . He had a very busy class schedule where he puts in 12 hrs as well as has business to take care of. Some days he reaches home at 10:30 pm.
We had a small argument 2 days ago . He forgot my travel plans which made me angry and upset. He was txting me and asked me am I not in town? I kept quiet for a while and then txted him that he has a horrible ego which fails yo make him acknowledge good genuine gals around him who only care and donot want his money. He got annoyed and said GN and sweet dreams. When I txted him back y he dies that when I am hurt , he txted back saying he has a long day next day and really doesnot want to argue with me. I said fine and stopped that night. But next day afternoon I txted him sorry for being rude as I felt bad and that I won't txt him anymore as he is busy. He txted me after hd came back and txted me calling my nickname that he had a 13 hr shift and is really tired and no worries. Everytime I back up, he tries to reach forward.in my opinion, there us no options. He hardly gets any time to txt gals. Even our meet ups he schedules with grt difficulty. I guess he is confused now and at the same time doesen't want to let me go. He told me that he is scared if being hurt agsin which will take him more time to come out if. At the sane time he wants me . I know he likes me and has always supported me with all my decisions re my career. He is not the kind who will keep flirting with gals. I can vouch that much about him. That's what made him close to me. What do u all think?

The sooner you realize that p*ssy is power the better you will be at dismissing this inscure narcassist. You are reading too deep into the words that he says and honey he picks them carefully to keep you begging for his crumbs. Be the woman a man needs not a woman that needs a man. His issues has nothing to do with you and he is keeping his options open so don't think that he just makes time for you he can very well make time for other women! Pick you? You come off as desperate saying he picked you out of the group a girls. It is up to the woman to give the man a tie of day he is only a typical hunter! You show weakness which is why he is toying with your head. He only cares about his feelings and disregards yours. You know what will make a virgo fall in love with you? Not buying into any mind games and walking away from him when he treats you like youre just an option! They like strong women who doesn't take any crap from no one not even them! if you want any guy to respect you have some respect for yourself first and don't wait on any man to acknowledge your worth.

I read the first part of your saga, which was on another thread. ::: shake head :::

And I just thought you were really immature. Probably another teenager pretending to be an adult and failing miserably because it's easily recognized that the content is juvenile. So, I was just going to fly by and not bother to participate in coaching a person on ---- don't be so dense !!!!

... because really. Why are people having to tell you that you're being thick?

Then, you said this ....

Posted by Vimadit

I kept quiet for a while and then txted him that he has a horrible ego which fails yo make him acknowledge good genuine gals around him who only care and donot want his money.

... and I fell out of my chair.


So, not only ARE you really that dense ... you also make sure he knows that you eagerly put yourself on the selling table, for him to decide your fate.

I'm like ... wha?

I don't see anything wrong he's done here. He's reacting to you as you present yourself. If you are presenting yourself as meaning so little that you approve of, and equally play, for attention ... then you are getting exactly what you deserve.

You don't deserve more. You deserve what you earn. And according to what you wrote, what you think you deserve is his deciding to approve of you, and label you.

You really can't be an adult. Are there really people out there who are this insignificant?

You are including yourself in the group of females to compete with, to get him.

Since those ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ are your actions, in how YOU behave, it means you are participating in playing games for his attention.


so, then ... why is this thread here?


I tell you .... I thank my lucky stars EVERY fucking day. I could have been born like this lady.

Posted by Vimadit

So when he said he had 3 other options and will consider me equally, I was hurt.

I asked him how is that fair when ......

what?