Dy...about the way ur lady caught ur attention

Hi Dy...Not sure if u read my previous post. I like a virgo guy and decided to just jump in and email him. He asked to know what I look like n never replied after I sent him my pic and told him I thought to ask him for a drink. Without blowing my own trumpet, I'm quite cute...emailed him again telling him to overlook this crazy girl who fancied him as I'm now feeling quite embarrassed esp he didn't reply. He didn't reply at all...

I know the best way would have been to know where he hangs out and 'accidentally' bump into him. But he'squite well known in my small country, involved in politics etc...and I think he hangs out mainly in private parties where I won't have access. I'm a rather stubborn taurus :-)) Don't want him to think I'm stalking him though...I thought to drop him another mail may be and ask what he'd think if I just pop in his office!! if he'd kick me out or get me kicked out...!!! I know it sounds totally crazy & probably stupid...but I think it's unfair to be judged by a pic or may be he doesn't have any interest...I made the first move and heard guys like to chase mostly, not be chased!! I think he's single, well he divorced few years back and had a break up with his gf few months back.

What do u virgo guys think?! tks

How adorable. What a cute story. If the two of you get married, it will be a great story to tell to new friends and whoever. See, when a gal is interested in a guy she doesn't back down. I need to pick up some points here. Thanks, Dy. You've given me something to think about. You're always helpful.

Well, Dy, one can never assume one is going to get married so quickly. In your case it looks like you have found the one and keep her. It's more than likely going to be a journey you've never been on before. If I know Virgos correctly, well, they like nothing more than a challenge so I'm sure your fit for it.

I hope soon I'm the One with a special man. When that day will come I have no idea. Hopefully within the next few years. Then I can tell you he will be on a roller coaster ride like never before because I have a lot up my sleeve for him as I'm very unpredictable. Oh, I can't wait.

Thank you very much for your comforting words, Dy. Although I'm getting a bit impatient in the recent.

Dy:
There's that Virgo memory again. You are absolutely right the Virgo guy in my case has a lot of stuff to work through. He got annoyed with me for being honest with him. Can you imagine? I who thought Virgos like honesty. I was blown away by it and quite literally annoyed which is not like me at all.

Dy:
"I think he may be neck-deep in REALITY right now..."

Could you explain what you mean by that? I don't understand him now not that I ever understood him. He and I are total opposites but that's okay because it's a challenge.

Dy:
I get your drift. I just couldn't understand why he got annoyed with me. Now I haven't heard from him since Sunday night and I don't even know if he's mad or what. I think I'm getting the silent treatment now but I don't know. Although he has said he'll be in contact. I have no idea what's going on. If I'm to go along with what is written on DXP, a Virgo usually means what they say. Oh, it's weird that's all I can say but interesting. The only thing I know is life does go on.

He's in the country and not out of the country. Yeah, he's been in contact with me. A lot this weekend something like the old days. He called me on Friday, 2 times on Saturday, 2 times on Sunday and then after midnight on Monday morning. On Saturday and Sunday he was drinking and drunk but spoke pretty clearly. The conversation on early Monday morning started off like normal. A lot of chitchat. Then all of a sudden he went into detail about sex during the weekend which I thought was highly irresponsible. Then he told me I would never meet a person like him. I told him I know a few people who are like him. Boy, did he get annoyed because he wasn't as unique as he thought he was. He's unique in his own way. I was only being honest. Then he said I annoy him because I'm too positive. He always looks down upon himself and I always try to turn the situation around. He says nobody likes him, nobody wants to date him and he doesn't like himself. When I told him on Sunday night (when he was drunk) this can't be true that's when he told me you think you know me so well and stuff. I was astonished to say the least. The something went wrong with phone and I hung up. I called him back to which he would call me back in 2 minutes which he didn't do. Then I waited over an hour to find out what was going on. He seemed to be very tired then. He said he'd call me the next day which he didn't and well, I haven't heard from him either. Therefore I don't know if he's mad or what and I'm getting the silent treatment or what. I vented on Virgo forum because I was so annoyed.

I just had to laugh now. I've re-read wrote I just wrote. It's like a soap opera.

M Ldy,

Virgos are a mystery to me. I've given up trying to figure them out. It's like just when everything is somewhat back to normal, it seems Virgos retreat. I especially find the disappearing and reappearing acts most fascinating. Just when you think you're not going to hear from them again, they pop up like nothing is wrong. Anyway, it's a very interesting journey to say the least. I just don't understand the problem. My problem with this Virgo guy is I'm not clingy and I give him a lot of space. Maybe he wants me to more clingy or whatever. I have no idea.

Dy,

Last night you asked me a question. I replied back to you. Could you give any comments on the situation? I've no idea what's wrong with being honest though and why he should be mad if he's mad at all.

Mystical

But he told me I piss him off which he's never said before. Therefore he has to take a break other times because I'm too positive. I don't understand that. What's wrong in showing that not everything is so dark?

Dy,
Okay, then. Thank you very much. I just have to let go and see what happens. I just hope that if I ever meet another Virgo it won't be so frustrating. I'll look on the positive side and try to think this Virgo is a one off. At least I hope so.

dyrstr8z:

When you are down in the dumps and want to be left alone, how long do you want to be left alone for? Give or take a few days

dyrstr8z:

I just wanted to thank you for all of your insight here. It has been very informative. I know none of us will ever figure you Virgo's out but at least we can get a better understanding of where you guys are coming from. Thanks!!!

Hopefully, you will better understand where the women are coming from too so it can give you insight on your own relationship. Hope things are going well with Deb.

Dy,

I just wanted to let you know Virgo guy called me just a few minutes ago. I wasn't even expecting to hear from him ever again because I wasn't sure if he was mad at me. He said he's been at sea. I don't understand what is going on if I'm going to be honest. Tells me early on Monday morning I annoy him and yet he still takes contact with me. I guess he does like that I'm honest with him.

Anyway, he wanted me to know he's popular among the girls. I don't really care if he is or isn't but I do find it interesting he has to tell me he's popular. I wonder what he thinks he going to gain with that.

I didn't mention anything about my frustration with him from early Monday morning. He seemed to be the exact same as he usually is which is pleasant.

He told me he'd be in touch which I said fine. I'm still very unsure of what his agenda is though.It's interesting though.

Mystical