Emotionally scarred

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by VirgoWanderer on Wednesday, March 23, 2022 and has 2 replies.

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@VirgoWanderer
4 Years

Hello Virgos,

What is the most emotionally scarring insult that someone has ever unleashed onto you?

For me it is when people suggest that I'm stupid. I have ADHD so people often tell me I'm absent minded, which is fine, but when they use my absent mindedness to suggest I lack intelligence, I get very upset. Is this a Virgo thing? I suppose it's because we don't like to be flawed. I don't mind being judged for other aspects of my personality. Even if people say I'm ugly or clumsy, I don't mind. But I hate being called stupid. Do other people just shrug it off?

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

meh i don't care about insults like that.

but i don't like being called 'selfish' especially by someone who i've accommodated beyond reason and have caused me nothing but inconvenience or downright suffering.

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@Dastard2020
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by virgoOPPP

meh i don't care about insults like that.

but i don't like being called 'selfish' especially by someone who i've accommodated beyond reason and have caused me nothing but inconvenience or downright suffering.

What? You've met my mother?