Fellow Weirdgos, what are your dating experiences with Libra?

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Just came back from my third date with a Libra woman I started seeing recently. Im surprised at how good things went and how good things feel this early on, great physical chemistry (we spent a lot of time cuddling and making out) and pretty good conversation, we have a lot if common interests which is really nice! Having previously been in a relationship with a Gemini, at this point I'm kinda used to the slight aloofness of air signs, so it doesn't really bother me. I think it also helps that I'm a very social person myself, so her being your typical Libra social butterfly is more of a blessing to me than anything else. Tonight she also told me she likes me A LOT, and for that reason she said she had to be very honest that it was better we didnt have sex just yet. cause she wanted to get to know me better without the implcations of bringing sex into the equation.I cant deny that was a bit of a bummer to hear cause its obvious we both "want it' . Generally when I have such chemistry with a woman, sex is just a formality, so it usually happens rather quickly. The more I think about it, the more I like the idea though, it really makes me respect her a lot more too..and look forward to seeing her again 😛


What are your experiences with Libra?
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Posted by 9waterlion9
I found this report to be very accurate pointing out the pros & cons of Lbra/virgo, although I used it to compare our mars signs(and he's also a Libra moon)

https://www.astromatcha.com/astrology-compatibility/virgo-compatibility/virgo-and-libra-compatibility/
Thank you for sharing this site. I actually enjoy reading the Virgo and Sagittarius Compatibility 😄
https://www.astromatcha.com/astrology-compatibility/sagittarius-compatibility/sagittarius-and-virgo-compatibility/
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Just came back from my third date with a Libra woman I started seeing recently. Im surprised at how good things went and how good things feel this early on, great physical chemistry (we spent a lot of time cuddling and making out) and pretty good conversation, we have a lot if common interests which is really nice! Having previously been in a relationship with a Gemini, at this point I'm kinda used to the slight aloofness of air signs, so it doesn't really bother me. I think it also helps that I'm a very social person myself, so her being your typical Libra social butterfly is more of a blessing to me than anything else. Tonight she also told me she likes me A LOT, and for that reason she said she had to be very honest that it was better we didnt have sex just yet. cause she wanted to get to know me better without the implcations of bringing sex into the equation.I cant deny that was a bit of a bummer to hear cause its obvious we both "want it' . Generally when I have such chemistry with a woman, sex is just a formality, so it usually happens rather quickly. The more I think about it, the more I like the idea though, it really makes me respect her a lot more too..and look forward to seeing her again 😛


What are your experiences with Libra?
Fire Venus folks.. Smh😆

Regarding the topic - my dad has been married to a libra for nearly 20 years now. They've had their ups and downs but I think she's a good wife to him and he knows he's lucky to have her. She gives him space and caters to him.

I also have a libra colleagues who's married to a Virgo. I'm not sure what her husbands placements are but she keeps saying that she regrets marrying him.
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Space is very important to both Virgo and Libra! I think Libras can have their clingy moments which is fine by me, makes me feel loved. I can also be clingy when Im really enjoying her company, but I dont feel the need to constantly text her when we are away from each other or get constant updates of her day, we do text each other once or twice per day though and sometimes when we are both online at the same time and have some free time we do have entire text conversations, which is good enough for me (thinking back of my Gem ex...she could be suffocating with the texting and need for daily updates, Gems can be smothering when in love!)

Having said that I think a great deal of the attraction we have comes from our mutual earth planets (her moon in Taurus and Mars in Cap) plus her Venus in Scorpio which makes her intense in her affections, I like that.
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Im really falling for this Libra! Cant stop thinking of her...last night after she invited me for dinner at hers, we spent around 2 or 3 hours at a really nice intimate acoustic gig just holding each other tightly, just feeling the music, dreaming away, kissing, touching each other gently, more cuddling and more kissing..aghh!!!! Im getting too mushy now haha

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Its quite normal I make comparisons to my previous ex, my intention is never to bitch about her or put her down, I dont like talking shit about exes, its just natural for me to come to certain realizations after these 2-3 months that we broke up, being able to see things more clearly as to why we werent a good fit and taking the experience to keep learning about myself and what I exactly look for in a person. I think its good to reflect on these things
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As for the timing in being ready to date again, thats just very personal. I dont need years to get over someone and open myself up to other people. I've noticed that after 1-2 months of heavy isolation and reflection after a breakup, Im ready to open myself up to the world again, its just what works for me, and I just happen to be a social person so I meet lots of people, if one of them happens to catch my attention and interest, I dont see why I shouldnt take a chance and explore the opportunity
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Its quite normal I make comparisons to my previous ex, my intention is never to bitch about her or put her down, I dont like talking shit about exes, its just natural for me to come to certain realizations after these 2-3 months that we broke up, being able to see things more clearly as to why we werent a good fit and taking the experience to keep learning about myself and what I exactly look for in a person. I think its good to reflect on these things
Nobody is perfect dude the only reason it didn't work out is cause she didn't want it to. That's it. It takes two to tango!

And believe me you a Gemini is light years ahead of a libra!

True they're indecisive but libra are nuts!

Good luck
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I cant take the audacity in your claim seriously ("the only reason it didnt work was cause she didnt want to") since you have limited information of what really went on between the two of us.

Fast forward 2-3 months after the break up, I see way more clearly how the dynamics of the relationship were and sadly I can only admit that sooner or later we were most likely gonna break up anyway, so if it hadnt been her pulling the plug 3 months ago, it would have likely been me at some point anyway, Im positive. The thing is, like I said before, this is stuff you only truly realize after you have been away from the person and regained your clarity.
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Well, the title of this thread is pretty self-explanatory, so I'm not sure how you expect me to take your 'opinions' seriously considering you aren't a Virgo, sorry..but I was truly looking for input from fellow Virgos.
Look, you've been on dxpnet long enough to know that all types of people will comment on any thread.

Also I didn't see you knock any non Virgo commentators that were positive regarding your question until people commented on things you were uncomfortable with.

That's the truth for everyone to see.

If you don't like unsolicited opinions on a public forum then don't post about your personal life. It's as simple as that. You can't dictate what people comment on.
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How hard is it for you to understand that you aren't a Virgo and therefore I wasnt looking for input from you on this thread?

Sometimes things are just as simple as that, please dont dig too much into it, dont waste your energy on this thread, theres plenty of others where your input is welcome otherwise you can always start yours.
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Sorry, but I just cant take Black Mamba seriously. Her giving relationship advice is like Donald Trump teaching a diplomacy class
So basically CC riled you up and as a way of coping with butthurt you strike against another poster?LOR was just talking to you with respect, and shared her experience of her father and libra mother, which is the match people were talking about in this topic.

Then you keep going "with all due respect" after you call someone a clown.

Everyone replies in dxp and the topic wasn't derailed for pages or pages for you to make a grandstand against another posters.

Just wow @ the narrow view here.
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Mark Harmon is also married to Libra Woman. Virgo Man and Libra Woman it's not really a rare combo and has potential to work for a long run.
wow Pam Dawber and Mark Harmon?? I looked at Pam Dawber's chart. She's gemini moon, with Virgo Venus/Virgo mars. That's alot of mercury.

i have seen Pam Dawber and Mark Harmon in films/shows, and i Always got the feeling Pam Dawber is not very Libra-esque or not into beauty so much like typical libras, and she is Always like all over the place -- very mercurial. It's perfect for Virgo Mark Harmon who won't get bored either. Although Pam Dawber has alot of Libra, her dominant gemini and virgo planets really show. Her libra stuff loves to pair up to the right man and that Virgo venus and virgo mars "gets" Mark Harmon's planets.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Pam_Dawber

and not a wonder!!!! Mark Harmon has libra himself!!!!
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Mark_Harmon

Saturn Libra and Neptune Libra all in the 12th house. The 12th house Libra stuff diffuses and at least his 12th gets her Cancer Uranus in the 4th house.

It seems it is VERY harmonious if both parties have both signs domiannt in their chart.




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Mark Harmon is also married to Libra Woman. Virgo Man and Libra Woman it's not really a rare combo and has potential to work for a long run.
wow Pam Dawber and Mark Harmon?? I looked at Pam Dawber's chart. She's gemini moon, with Virgo Venus/Virgo mars. That's alot of mercury.

i have seen Pam Dawber and Mark Harmon in films/shows, and i Always got the feeling Pam Dawber is not very Libra-esque or not into beauty so much like typical libras, and she is Always like all over the place -- very mercurial. It's perfect for Virgo Mark Harmon who won't get bored either. Although Pam Dawber has alot of Libra, her dominant gemini and virgo planets really show. Her libra stuff loves to pair up to the right man and that Virgo venus and virgo mars "gets" Mark Harmon's planets.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Pam_Dawber

and not a wonder!!!! Mark Harmon has libra himself!!!!
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Mark_Harmon

Saturn Libra and Neptune Libra all in the 12th house. The 12th house Libra stuff diffuses and at least his 12th gets her Cancer Uranus in the 4th house.

It seems it is VERY harmonious if both parties have both signs domiannt in their chart.




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Hi Lis, what do you think about your fellow Aqua Sarah Palin and her husband Todd Palin about their relationship. Because I find that very intriguing because Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman are very rare pairing for a Virgo Man in Air Signs, just like Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman are very rare pairing for a Virgo Man in Fire Signs.
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it's actually NOT rare in my world. I personally believe all 12 sun signs are compatible with eachother, but you all are too smart...

you know it's deeper than sun.

i actually went to look at a few cemetaries, (only because we were visiting past relatives too and bringing flowers) and plenty of different sun signs together till the end.

as for Pam Dawber, she kind of reminds me a bit like our Pisces sun/Taurus moon's wife, who he's been married to for near 3 decades. She isn't into beauty at all, but alot of social work and she wears no make up and is Always dressed in jeans and casual shirts. Very un-libra; she is actually double libra with libra venus too (maybe it's the houses it's in) and she's got Scorpio mars and Scorpio merc, which i thought stood out to me.
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it's actually NOT rare in my world. I personally believe all 12 sun signs are compatible with eachother, but you all are too smart...

you know it's deeper than sun.

i actually went to look at a few cemetaries, (only because we were visiting past relatives too and bringing flowers) and plenty of different sun signs together till the end.

as for Pam Dawber, she kind of reminds me a bit like our Pisces sun/Taurus moon's wife, who he's been married to for near 3 decades. She isn't into beauty at all, but alot of social work and she wears no make up and is Always dressed in jeans and casual shirts. Very un-libra; she is actually double libra with libra venus too (maybe it's the houses it's in) and she's got Scorpio mars and Scorpio merc, which i thought stood out to me.
Okay.
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Weirdgos? I'm actually surrounded by virgos at the moment and trying to survive. Help me !!

How do you think you are weird? I see an earth sign that talks a bit, is insightful, needs to vent and values friendship big time. I guess coming from an Aqua, the weird scale might be off 😛
My husb Is Virgo Sun, Mars Aqua, Uranus ruling his chart. I think he qualifies as a weirdgo. 😆 lol
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Weirdgos? I'm actually surrounded by virgos at the moment and trying to survive. Help me !!

How do you think you are weird? I see an earth sign that talks a bit, is insightful, needs to vent and values friendship big time. I guess coming from an Aqua, the weird scale might be off 😛
My sister is a Aquarius and we get along just fine 😛
Yeah!! 🙂 I guess I'm just saying I never really knew much about virgos but I'm having a good new experience with them.
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I do annoy her sometimes though but she find our Gemini brother more annoying because he loves to pull pranks on her which she doesn't find amusing lol. But technically Me and Gemini brother are the most annoying in the family even our Aries father think were both immature and annoying on different way.