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cappysweetie,

looks like you are on the edge of being mentally polished by THE VIRGO 😉.
I think you will also need a cappy woman strategist on your side apart from all virgo men on the other side.

Although you have not asked, I would say u have listed all virgos worth listening above
:-). The only thing you need to do is combine all virgo opinions and then conclude the final result. Some virgos are very charming, some are arrogant, some are detailed oriented and all.

So while thinking about your move for your virgo, you should think your virgo is a mix of ALL OF THESE CHARACTERISTICS. That way you will be covering all cappy woman basis :-).

Let the game start ..HAHAHAHAHA
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looks like you are on the edge of being mentally polished by THE VIRGO 😉.
I think you will also need a cappy woman strategist on your side apart from all virgo men on the other side.


Hi CGV!!! I simply wasn't thinking LOL!!!! I was only thinking of virgos, that was it. You are right, I need a woman from my neck of the woods to too. THANK YOU 🙂 🙂 🙂

Let the game start ..HAHAHAHAHA

Honestly, that's what I feel this whole thing is, a game. It will take me too much time to get into it because I'm at work *sigh*
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The differences between THIS virgo and some other guys:

- 2 cancers
- 1 scorpio (I didn't get a chance to date the other one *pouts*)
- 2 capricorns
- 1 taurus
- 1 Saggie

is that THESE guys were at least upfront in the beginning, for some odd reason, virgos aren't! They either distance themselves or run away ... why? Other virgos I've dated (included this guy) was not so upfront. It took one virgo guy (virgo/ libra) about a year just to talk to me and my other virgo boyfriend only was kind of forced to talk to me because we had to work together LOL.

Haha! Sorry, the other guys I mensioned above were more in my face and that's what I'm use to. I don't like push-pull, nope, nope, nope
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LOL...You mean my Virgo bf and friends have been lying to me all these years?? That pink and green don't look good together?? Now, I gotta go back to the drawing board.

Well actaully pink and green don't look good together ... LOL

But anyway, yours my be a different kind of virgo guy -- it really depends on their chart.

His chart is like this

Sun: Leo/ Virgo cusp
Moon: Pisces ( I thought it was on the Pisces/ aries cusp but I'm not sure)
Mercury: Leo
Mars: Scorpio
Venus: Virgo
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But with his Mercury being in Leo and his sun in Leo/Virgo (mine too is on the cusp), he should be very expressive and talkative and upfront. I don't know, but every Virgo I've known has been this way, so it just seems kind of out of character.

Well, he was ... until this pass Monday. Well there' sort of more to it also. I posted a thread in the Astro/ Relationship board called: "Am I an Idoit", thats where the story is located.
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Here's the post:

Am I An Idiot (this happened last week)

There's a guy ( I don't know his sign)that claims to have been watching me for about three years ? last November, he asked for my number, I declined to give it to him because I don't usually give my number out. Plus, I didn't know enough about him.

Over the past few months, I have a pretty good idea about his character because our conversations, I felt more comfortable.

So April 21 (this past Monday), I felt compelled to give my number to him my number, I thought about the whole weekend (LOL), so Monday, I decided to do it.

Since I knew he asked for it before, my excuse was, ?since we are transferring to the same area (for school), it would be nice to talk to someone I know.?

He seemed glad, to have my number, BUT its Wednesday and I haven't heard from him.

Is this a sign that he only wanted my number to see if he could get it? Or am I making to much of this?
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Keep in mind, he come around me, and nor vice versa. I guess I saw a potential problem when I weighed the differences actions from last week Thursday and this pass Monday. Last week (the week I gave him my number) he seemed interested and warm. But this week he seemed distant. It was the end of the semester was on April 28th, so things were alittle nutty because we students are always worried about our grades, but still ...
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F $ A,

Well I kind of was direct with him Monday, when the semester was over and we talked briefly -- I said hi from the office and got his attention.

He said that since he will not see me until after today, that I should have a good week. Well, I told him that I wish him the same BUT I also said that it's up to him whether or not he sees me this week or next week, because he has my number of course. He smiled and agreed.

So .... I was as direct as a capricorn can be
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Well, we've talked on/ off for three years, but just in passing
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cappysweetie,

I Think you are in for a long haul. Remember the third law of physics? Action and reaction stuff. IF you are thinking of him, he is thinking of you too :-)..

Do not be friends, I say, be more than friends 😉.

I think we need to plan step by step, how to make this work ONLY If you want him and want this to work.

:-)
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And I do remember the third law of physics 🙂 If he's thinking to me, I wish he'd put it into action! Goodness ...

HAHAHAHA And they are the most indirect people.
U should have said something indirectly. Seriously..


I like how you think missy 😛 So far two people have said that I need to trick him, hmmm, well this makes since. Virgos are mental, so .... YEAH!!!!!!!!! LOL!!!
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Hi!!!!! Starblue!

I don't care if you are a girl 🙂 You are still a virgo, right?

But I have some new ones to add to the list

P-Angel -- I believe she is married to a virgo

Virgohero -- I think he's a new virgo dude ...


Oh goodness! Why do "these" particular men have to be SOOOO freaking complicated. I shouldn't have to enlist all this help just to get a date with a virgo guy LOL!!!!!!!! It only takes a day with a cancer guy so I'm a bit spoiled LOL!!!!
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Oh goodness! Why do "these" particular men have to be SOOOO freaking complicated. I shouldn't have to enlist all this help just to get a date with a virgo guy LOL!!!!!!!! It only takes a day with a cancer guy so I'm a bit spoiled LOL!!!!


lol, that's cute Cappysweetie!!....aw...😉 You won my Moon in Cancer over already! lol 😛
(btw, we only SEEM complex....you get into a relationship with us you'll be tearing you hair out over how simple we are! lol)

Seriously though you gotta ask a specific question becuase I don't know what your unsure about....just let it rip.
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LOL @ Virgoexalted, you are indeed number one 😉

Well, I'm unsure about virgo guys LOL!!! Here I am thinking that I was a freaking expert on them and I'm not LOL!!! *bruised ego*

All this chaos started because this freaking virgo guy has wanted my number for months now and he hasn't called yet. I gave it to him two weeks ago. The whole, "Am I An Idiot" thread is on the Astro/ Relationships board.

I thought he was a good guy, if I knew he wasn't going to call me I wouldn't kept my number to myself.
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He seemed sooo interested two weeks ago but two weeks have pass and I haven't gotten a call.

So at the time I was slightly confused as to what the heck happened -- now, I'm just exhausted. Either he's really SLOW or he lost interest after he got my number, which is typical -- although after he got my number, things seemed to be going in a good direction, until the end of the semester.

Like I should, I spoiled 🙂 Plus, I though virgos were a little better then this ...
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Well there's good and bad virguys and gals out there....perhaps he just hasn't made up his mind yet....That's really apart of the dating scene at large ya know? Regardless of anybodies sign, they either call you, or don't, it's a toss up, but recognize it for what it is, and don't take it personally, I mean, based off conversation alone, you sound like a cool chick....a party/brain...I think that's the perfect girl, one who knows how to undwind and relax, and then switch gears into brain mode....

CS, I suggest you don't let this bother you becuase while you're worrying, he's doing HIS thing....I don't see him sweating over it, so I think you should just let that one go, and if he comes back to you, than everythings roses, but it's STILL roses becuase you're not bent outta shape over one guy.

Just have YOUR fun, and don't let anyone ruin it....there could be an explanation for his actions, and if you really like him like that, find out what's up with him....
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Well there's good and bad virguys and gals out there....perhaps he just hasn't made up his mind yet....That's really apart of the dating scene at large ya know? Regardless of anybodies sign, they either call you, or don't, it's a toss up, but recognize it for what it is, and don't take it personally,

Yeah, I've come to realize that. Hahaha, like I said I'm sooo not use to it. I guess that was the problem, I'm use to getting a call right away ... THIS has never happened to me before and I became annoyed with him and myself because of that fact LOL.

Now don't get me wrong, none of the relationships betwen the men have worked out but at least they called within a 24 hour time-span. I thought this guy was better then the rest ... hahaha, and he doesn't call at all! So yeah, it was slightly diffcult to swallow because he chased after me and then he lets me go —??

I mean, based off conversation alone, you sound like a cool chick....a party/brain...I think that's the perfect girl, one who knows how to undwind and relax, and then switch gears into brain mode....

Awww, thank you VE. You two should switch places!

CS, I suggest you don't let this bother you becuase while you're worrying, he's doing HIS thing....I don't see him sweating over it, so I think you should just let that one go, and if he comes back to you

Oh yeah, if he doesn't acknowledge me, I'm done. Hahaha, and even if he does, I'm still done! He has to show me more dude. Like I said on the cappy, I can't STAND waiting, I have way too much energy 😛

He just better NOT get annoyed if I'm talking to another guy again 😉 I will tell him off.

Just have YOUR fun, and don't let anyone ruin it....there could be an explanation for his actions, and if you really like him like that, find out what's up with him....

Hmmm .....