I was finally able to have a conversation with my Virgo interest about what went down on my last visit. He was upset because I kept blowing his phone up, which I feel he contributed to. Apparently his God daughter had a birthday party, which I was not told about, that day. I explained that all I wanted was to be made aware that he had something going on and couldn't spend time with me at the moment. He didn't even need to go into details, but at least a brief text would have sufficed. I would have found something else to do to occupy my time, as I have done in the past. From 1:30 to 9:45 was too long for him not to at least acknowledge me, especially since I flew 800 miles to spend time with him. Not once did the topic of his own daughter come up, so that is not an issue. However, I am still pissed that he claims to "hear my side", yet feels the need to still be upset about me blowing up his phone. I'm 100% certain he would feel the same way I do if the shoe was on the other foot. I know Virgos analyze situations, and rarely apologize. I honestly hope he feels bad for what he did. This situation is uncalled for. A simple "I am busy with something else. I'll meet up with you at__" would have handled this just fine. I really don't even know why he couldn't do that considering that he has made it known on other visits when he had something else to do. I understand that he may not be comfortable being around his friends or family at this point. I also understand that his God children are important to him as his own kids. So, I would have accepted that and went to do whatever. Hell, I'm an only child, so alone time is no biggie. After all was said and done, I asked him if we were through. He said he has to think about it. Ha!
