Help! Is my virgo gone forever?

Profile picture of pumpkinn
pumpkinn
@pumpkinn
12 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 1
Ugh, i dont even know where to begin. Im a virgo female that dated a virgo male for exactly three months to the day. He and i met on line a little after thanksgiving. We went on a date and it was as if we knew each other forever. We live about an hour away from each other but the first week we saw each other every day after. Then one day, he dropped a bombshell saying he was honest to me about everything except he had a son and was going thru court stuff over the last four years over his son. He became very emotional and started to cry. Things were ok, rocky in the beginning a little bit cause i wanted a relationship and he didnt want to commit and wanted me to leave it be and let the cards fall where they do. Ok fine. I backed off big time. He inturduced me to his family fairly quick and they all seemed nice. A week or so later, i asked him, what are we? He got so freaken mad and said actions speak louder then words! Do you think after what ive been thru with my ex, i bring girls in and out of my parents home? Leave it alone!! So, i did again. Then one day he was just being very weird. We texted constantly. Then it was very few and far in between. Then i kept texting and emailing asking what the heck is going on? I finally get a response, i have feelings for you i hope its obvious. I told him i had feelings as well.. so things were good and he was on the phone one day and said hey im with my GIRL ill call you later. Then he would make comments like calling himself my boyfriend when we were alone but to his parents and stuff he would call me his friend. I was so confused. But he would get so angry with me and always said i know his buttons to push and i rub him the wrong way. He made me feel so bad. I left his house then i couldnt get ahold if him for days..then a few days later i got a text saying, im so sorry i dont know why the littlest things are upsetting me. I do care for you and the last thing i want to do is hurt you. I think me and you could be a good thing. Then, two weeks ago he picked me up and said hey i need to talk to you about something. He said an ex girlfriend contacted him and he was gonna see her but i had nothing to worry about. That friday i told him, if he chooses to go i cant date him anymore. He said i was rediculous and who was i to give him an ultimatium. I texted and called to the point he said if i text him again he was gonna change his number. I apologized and still nothing. Did he really throw me away like garbage?