Hey virgo guys do women read to much into what u say

I feel like they do, when I first got into astrology I really thought it was us so in my real life I try to be very direct in what I say but still women keep second guessing what I'm saying like I'm speaking code or something. I see it on here... For example, topics like what did he really mean by this I read it and I'm like he just told you. I even say it to the person and there like u don't know viragos lol. Did u check my name lol. Do we really give mixed message or are women just being delusional because they didn't get the answer they wanted..

I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

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Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

*in HIS bed

Ask a straightforward question, get a straightforward answer. It's even more obvious in the men than the women. Virgo Women are a bit more evasive?

Times you won't get a straightforward answer from a Virgo:

1) You are being manipulative and we zero in on your intentions. If your aim in getting an answer is to thwart the truth or gain some leverage in some power play you're engaged by yourself...you will either get silence or, depending on the Virgo, some bullshit answer because people like this are to be toyed with since they can't be real.

2) We don't have sufficient data to reply. In this case, depending on circumstances our opinion isn't yet formed and is undergoing more mental research in our brain. We're not dodging it because we have some malicious intent, we really need more data to work with. A genuine Virgo will tell you straight up that they need to think on this more.

3) It's none of your business. There's a lot of people who are WAY too intrusive with their questioning.

4) We are tired, and then we'll come back to this discussion later. Or we are going through tough times..again, the convo will be picked up at a later time.

5) You already asked this before and you got an answer from me..maybe that is a pet peeve of mine personally and my father's but I will not repeat myself again and again in case you cannot take it the first time or feel the need to see if my answer changes from the first time you asked til now. It reeks of trust issues or inability to face facts.

6) Silence is also an answer. Past a certain point, I won't go out of my way to explain myself if all previous attempts were unsuccesful.

7) You have an inability to accept things at face value, in which case what's the point of me explaining it over and over again?

8) Most of your questions are thinly veiled attacks, you don't aim to gain knowledge, you aim to soothe your ego or validate whatever assumption you have going in your head.

Just off the top of my head.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Hummmm that's a good point I'm talking to this sag girl and she says that to. Like she will ask me something and than she will say u don't look like u want to do it. It's a mixed bag most of the time it's me thinking real fast if I can do it. But some times I don't but I have no real good reason not to do it, just that I'm lazy like lol so I do it because I couldn't find a good reason not to.

If you referring to that thread created by taurus girl this morning. I think she's either playing dumb but she know the answer already or just simply dumb or maybe
a combination of both.

I mean the virgo guy already told her he doesn't need to pay him but she still feel like paying him the money.

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Ask a straightforward question, get a straightforward answer. It's even more obvious in the men than the women. Virgo Women are a bit more evasive?

Times you won't get a straightforward answer from a Virgo:

1) You are being manipulative and we zero in on your intentions. If your aim in getting an answer is to thwart the truth or gain some leverage in some power play you're engaged by yourself...you will either get silence or, depending on the Virgo, some bullshit answer because people like this are to be toyed with since they can't be real.

2) We don't have sufficient data to reply. In this case, depending on circumstances our opinion isn't yet formed and is undergoing more mental research in our brain. We're not dodging it because we have some malicious intent, we really need more data to work with. A genuine Virgo will tell you straight up that they need to think on this more.

3) It's none of your business. There's a lot of people who are WAY too intrusive with their questioning.

4) We are tired, and then we'll come back to this discussion later. Or we are going through tough times..again, the convo will be picked up at a later time.

5) You already asked this before and you got an answer from me..maybe that is a pet peeve of mine personally and my father's but I will not repeat myself again and again in case you cannot take it the first time or feel the need to see if my answer changes from the first time you asked til now. It reeks of trust issues or inability to face facts.

6) Silence is also an answer. Past a certain point, I won't go out of my way to explain myself if all previous attempts were unsuccesful.

7) You have an inability to accept things at face value, in which case what's the point of me explaining it over and over again?

8) Most of your questions are thinly veiled attacks, you don't aim to gain knowledge, you aim to soothe your ego or validate whatever assumption you have going in your head.

Just off the top of my head.

I agree 100 percent exspecially number 5 that's me all the way.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

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What is sign of your mother? if you don't mind telling it. I'm just curious 🙂 Don't worry i'll be nice even I'm not a fan of combo haha.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

What is sign of your mother? if you don't mind telling it. I'm just curious 🙂 Don't worry i'll be nice even I'm not a fan of combo haha.

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My mom's a Gemini sun/Libra moon. Dad's Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

Virgo moons are weird. Not the same as virgo sun.

Virgo moons arent very good at socializing. Awkward ppls. So awkward it borderlines retarded.

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I find that adorable. I didn't go any further than that though; circumstances wouldn't allow it.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

What is sign of your mother? if you don't mind telling it. I'm just curious 🙂 Don't worry i'll be nice even I'm not a fan of combo haha.

My mom's a Gemini sun/Libra moon. Dad's Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

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Thanks! I actually like this combo for Virgo man. Probably the second most common for Virgo Man when it comes from dating/marriage among the mutables.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

What is sign of your mother? if you don't mind telling it. I'm just curious 🙂 Don't worry i'll be nice even I'm not a fan of combo haha.

My mom's a Gemini sun/Libra moon. Dad's Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

Thanks! I actually like this combo for Virgo man. Probably the second most common for Virgo Man when it comes from dating/marriage among the mutables.

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Really? They drove each other crazy. All us kids thought they should've gotten a divorce. Their fights were truly epic, usually escalated by my mom, due to my dad's stoic and cold demeanor.

But they truly love each other. Been married for 55 years.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Hummmm that's a good point I'm talking to this sag girl and she says that to. Like she will ask me something and than she will say u don't look like u want to do it. It's a mixed bag most of the time it's me thinking real fast if I can do it. But some times I don't but I have no real good reason not to do it, just that I'm lazy like lol so I do it because I couldn't find a good reason not to.

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Try to pay more attention to how someone might interpret your actions, not just your words. You guys can be charming and I think you don't realize how that speaks louder than what you say.

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I've noticed that you guys say what you mean, but your body language/facial expressions/actors often contradictory to what you are saying.

So it's really hard to interpret what you really do mean.

Do you mean, when they say, "Sorry I'm married" but meanwhile their hands are busy undressing whoever they are saying that to? 😆

Lol, something like that. I grew up with a Virgo dad so his inconsistencies were a bit different. He wasn't unfaithful to my mom

But I did have a crush on a Virgo Moon guy who came on very strong and when I told him that I couldn't get him off my mind, he said he didn't feel the same way. And then proceeded to show me pics of his house, dog (in hos bed), family on his phone, and ask me what I had planned for the weekend. WTF?

What is sign of your mother? if you don't mind telling it. I'm just curious 🙂 Don't worry i'll be nice even I'm not a fan of combo haha.

My mom's a Gemini sun/Libra moon. Dad's Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

Thanks! I actually like this combo for Virgo man. Probably the second most common for Virgo Man when it comes from dating/marriage among the mutables.

Really? They drove each other crazy. All us kids thought they should've gotten a divorce. Their fights were truly epic, usually escalated by my mom, due to my dad's stoic and cold demeanor.

But they truly love each other. Been married for 55 years.

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Hahahaha that's why i think it's the second most common because i think the common the worst. j/k but I seen this combo a lot for Virgo Man and I actually like it.

Fighting/disagreement is part of relationship. The point is they still married even they have different personality and nature, so i guess both of them still compromising and respect each other differences. Unless your mom and dad marry themselves, then yeah no fighting/disagreement because they will think the same thing in everything.

Good luck with your parents in marriage. I wish my wife and I can make it for the next 50 years getting married to each other just like your parents. You know we may annoy each other sometimes or have disagreeme

Just finish my sentence lol because I reached the text cap on my last post. What I'm trying to say is we may annoy each other and have disagreement sometimes but we still love each other no matter what. Because we know how to compromise and respect each other.

Good luck again with your parents.