How Do You Get a Virgo—

Hi All,

I am a Gemini and would like some advise on Virgo's. I have met this sexy man and do see him out at least 4 times a week. I just like him so much and would like to get to know him BETTER! He has just gotten out of a long relationship the past 2 months and I see him staring at me, he talks and I feel there is a strong chemistry between us...BUT...he never says so or asks me out. Tell me about Virgo's and how I should let him know that I want a kiss 😉 Do they like aggressive women or the shy type? Should I let him know how much I like him or wait for him to make the first move?
Thanks

In my experience, virgo's like the assertive type. They also like you if you are a bit wicked also. They admire a sharp intellect. At the end of the day, just be yourself. If it does not work out with the virgo, there will be somebody more suited to you out there. You shouldn't have to 'change' yourself to be with him 😉

Adios Amigo 😉

Virgos like assertive types, but it's a very fine line with them. They don't like "over the top" assertiveness; they don't like aggression (unless it's under the covers...so to speak...and even then, they like a nice balanced mix of sweet and saucy...not too much of one or the other). Luckily they're very adaptable people, so they can adjust easily to whatever mood you happen to be in (aggro or not). A bit of wicked is most definitely a trait they enjoy (privately), though.

Don't be afraid to let your smarts shine through; they like this, as LG said.

If it were me personally, I would let him ask you out. Virgos, for all they're said to be passive and non-initiators, really are, especially if they're quite interested. The male ones, at least. I've no doubt he's got an interest in you. Have fun with this and let him get the nerve to ask you out. By have fun...I mean..hang out a little; have lunch with him, go to a movie, discuss things you're both interested in. In time I'm sure he'll act.

Hi got to be good......I've read your post looking for info. on how to snare Mr. Virgo. Well after been with Mr. Virgo for a year, I feel a "little" qualified to tell you. I first saw Mr. Virgo in a nite-club - he bumped into me carrying drinks...I made a funny comment or so I thought!!!..he just looked at me and smiled and walked on.....I remember saying to my pal....I like him and I'm going to have him! Then one month later Mr. Virgo and his pal came to club again.....I was up dancing in front of Mr. Virgo...I could see him staring...I gave a few stares back....I wanted him to make a move or get dancing with me but no!! he just stood at the wall staring all night. So I decided it was time to "manufacture things in the right direction".....I stood beside him and "accidentally on purpose" hit against him while drinking..he looked at me and I said sorry and that was it!! The ice was broken...in the astro books gems and virgos are not supposed to get on...gems too flighty....virgos just like one-to-ones - queitness. However, if you want to snare him, dress classily (not sexy). I used to think I was the sexiest thing in my low-cut tops etc. but Mr. Virgo soon told me what he thought of it. Tell him lots about yourself....don't ask too many questions about his life in the start anyway...they can be a bit secretive....but are really nosey about yours. Don't use bad language, don't use too much make-up....again I used to dolly myself up meeting Mr. Virgo and spend a while getting makeup just right. The minute he got me to his house he would actually get a cloth and rub it off saying there was no need to put on any make up with him - he used say I was beautiful just as I was (god help his eyesight!!!:-)) but they will tell you quite openly how they feel. Don't expect to be swept off your feet with wine and roses with Mr. Virgo - but do expect to slowly but surely, feel him seep into your being.....they are very persistant, expecailly in the beginning...and this can be off-putting (well for me being an aquarian) - it's just they need plenty of assurance and security.....be very affectionate and touchy with him (in private anyway). Don't play head or heart games with Virgos and ring him lots....they loved being rang by their lovers...no matter what the hour is....they don't like you to have too many friends or acquaitnaces (which gems do have)!!! Don't tell lies...they bloody know immediately when you are....they are very suspiciious and expect neatness and cleanliness.....they are hypochondriacs sometimes and so critical.....it's just they are searching for perfection which they will never get!!!!!! And one final word.....don't be a drama-queen....keep things low-key but light and fun.....don't be agressive - just be you!!:-)

Good luck - they are also great in bed.

Alana x

Well, to each their own. Personally, I'm crazy about my Virgo. Of course, I'm young, prone to fantasy, trusting, and what she calls "blissfully clueless." All my horoscopes and natal charts tell me how easily I fall in love. This is in addition to the fact that, though I've known her for a couple of years, we've only been dating a few months and we've only been an 'official' couple for a few weeks.

Want to know how to get one? Anyone? Be kind. Be as kind as you can possibly be, and allow them someone to talk to. I think that advice should suffice for any romantic wandering, because after all, the first thought brought to bear when someone says, "Wasn't that ROMANTIC?" (aside from thought devoted to stopping the gag reflex) has to do with kindness. Nobody ever got that comment without allowing someone to talk as well as feel trusted.

It is my personal opinion that unfaithful partners seek something they're not getting. If someone ever cheated on me, I would be the first person I'd blame. From my own experience, that's why I was motivated to play the field. I've found what I wanted, and suddenly I don't want to anymore. I have the feeling that it will continue to be this way forever unless that stops.

Wow Josh. . . That was very. . . Well I think you've hit the nail right on the head.

I agree with basically all that you've said Josh...with one exception...while I agree that a cheating person is looking for something they're not getting, I don't think the other person is EVER to blame. It's not that person's fault that their partner didn't feel fulfilled by them, in whatever way. Very rarely (if ever) do two people get Everything they need and want from each other. It's a matter of how much they're both willing to compromise what they want for what they're willing to work to keep...It's also a matter of ability to commit, maturity, respect, and loyalty...a cheating person does not exhibit any of these traits, and it is not their partner's fault; it is a flaw in the cheater and the cheater only. One can just as easily (in fact, it would be easier) to break off the relationship before cheating occurs, if they're not satisfied.

I've been both the cheater and the cheatee, so I'm coming at this point from two angles.

HI Cancerbuddy - to answer your question.....I am aquarius...so aquarius:-) and if I was to go by sign compatibility it's a no-go area - superbly mis-matched!!!! If I go by Chinese astrology though, me Horse, he Tiger...we are superbly matched!!!!, or so THEY say!!!!! So I just decide to go with me!!!!....forget the so-called experts........but I do understand your frustration.

As I've said before, sometimes he is such so hard work.....I like and have a wide circle of friends...he doesn't like this and has small circle of friends...I like spontaneity, to take the bull by the horns and go and do something different...with him going to the shops is like an military manoevre....has to be timed to perfection and needs two days in advance for thinking it through!!! I am airy-fairy....he is SO grounded....I like to dream....he's into reality....I like to be diplomatic and not want to hurt his feelings if I have to challenge him on something....he just blurts out what he has to say regardless of my feelings (and just says that he has to say what's in his heart!!)....I like to be a drama-queen and make dramatic entrancees wherever I go....He likes to blend into the background and not be seen!!!! I like to wear make-up and get dolllied up.....he doesn't like it and tries to make me take it off (he doesn't succeed!)....having an argumment with him is like talking to a 5 yr old!!! - no matter how valid my point - he only sees it from his point of view (which is nutty!) to mine....my world is full of gray areas and misty colours, his is just black and white...no in betweens....one good thing I suppose is we have heated fights (I will raise my voice and stamp my feet even!!) - he never raises his voice, just persistantly will repeat over and over and over again his view....till I am worn down!!!! He is insanely jealous and possessive sometimes.....jealousy is not in my nature - whoever, whatever, whenever!! He criticizes everthing and would find flaws I am sure in paradise.....he likes the house and everything and everyone in it spick and span....I don't care if the house is in bits!!!! I fling my clothes on the floor before we make love...he neatly folds and hangs up his....get the drift!!!

To be honest, I double dated him for nearly a year Cancerbuddy....with a cap. guy.....call me a cheat, a liar, whatever!!! I honestly didn't see it as cheating....I just wanted and loved both guys in different ways - eventually I had to make a choice....both were becoming very suspicious and naturally picking up vibes....(I'm in bed with one and the other will ring and I have to run out to the toilet to answer....not good! not good at all!!!!...you can imagine the scenario...I was run ragged!!!! every which way!!!!

I suppose the bottom line in the attraction is - he is everything I am not and I am everything he is not and so we complete each other in some strange, mysterious way.....
The other thing he has helped me with is to talk from my heart...till I met him I was an emotional coward....found it hard to tell anyone how I felt....he continually talked from his heart to me, very eloquently -

For me he is sex on legs, (even though he is 8 years younger, I never feel like the mama in the relationship..sometimes I feel like he is the daddy....he fusses, cooks, cleans not only for me but for all his friends and relatives.....

One look in his eyes and I am lost (virgos can look into your soul with their beautiful eyes)....if I am out with him I never need to look at another man....this has never happened to me before in my life....sometimes I don't like the depth of feelings I have for him, it scares me......but we don't choose, we just fall!!!

As regards him being unfaithful.....I haven't seen that side....—?? I do know that he will go out to bars and chat with girls.....I have been with him and they still come on big time to him....but when they do this, he always puts his arm round me

"Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened"
~Dr. Suess

Sorry about your "heartbreak" Cancerbuddy....I know the feeling. It's a good thing. Some people never feel, they stay behind walls to protect themselves when in all reality they are shutting themselves off from life. Good for you for LIVING! 😉