Why people try to make virgos relax ?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by g-virgo on Monday, July 7, 2003 and has 10 replies.

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@g-virgo
21 YearsVirgo

Seems like everywhere i go , people always try to tell me in a situation to relax.Even though a virgo like me tend to worry a lot.I don't know how people can make us virgos relax .Unless someone like Sloane knows how .

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@jaya
21 YearsLibra

virgos are special..🙂 luv that neurotic energy that I get from them..it's both cute and funny at the same time..and yet, somehow..strangely calming.. I like it when virgos make a nervous fuss over someone that they care about..It's sweet! ^~^

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I really don't think you can make a virgo relax - it's impossible!!! - it's their nature to be fussy and clean and hygenic blah blah and to be on the go all the time!!! For example, when I was with Mr. Virgo, just before making love, I would fling my clothes with abandon onto the floor and believe it or not!! Mr. Virgo would actually get out of his bed and either hang my clothes up or neatly fold them on a chair so they wouldn't crease!!!....now come on!!!....if that ain't over-fussiness in the extreme I don't know what is:-)....even at parties, when everyone was sloshed and drinking and smoking to their hearts content, Mr. Virgo would come along with his clean-up cloth!! and mop up any spilled drink or cigarette ash belonging to anyone and everyone (and this I might add when he would be sloshed himself!!!) If there was the tiniest hint of a stain of any sort on his clothing, it would immediately be in the wash, I am talking tiny miniscule stains that even a galloping horse woudln't stop to see - he noticed them and it unhinged him......and if the clothes weren't 110% ironed and to his liking, the washing and ironing would all begin again and again and again!!!! so to all my virgo pals.....talk about perfection, perfection, perfection!!! but then again we wouldn't have you any other way!! or would we!!-)
A x

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@james tate
21 Years10,000+ PostsCapricorn

The only way to relax a virgo is a stun gun. By the way being a capricorn we have something in common I have my underware starched and pressed. I at one time was a bloody pugilist an quite good at it but could not stand the mess of the sweat and blood of another all over me. quite nasty.

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes, James Tate, Capricorns come a second best in the tidy, fussy fussy stakes to Virgos as far as I am concerned......after a night's passion, Mr. C. would begin to fix his bed, sheets, puff his pillows, tidy his clothes, etc.....bloody annoying for me...I have to say......why can't caps and virgos just accept chaos for a while—....lovely lovely chaos.....and abandon themselves to the moment!!! Oh god no!!!!, all has to be made perfect again a.s.a.p. - but don't you realize that the moment is as perfect as it's ever going to be in that moment!!! and the person who you are with is as perfect as they can be for that moment...afterall what have we all really got...only "moments" in time??!!:-)
Ciao J.T.
A x

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@sloane
21 Years1,000+ Posts

G-Virgo
Perhaps you are the one who is in tune to the very essence of a situation and the people around you are too numb to respond to something. Did you ever think of that? This is not a bad thing at all. Maybe the person(s) telling you to relax aren't too bright. if they were caught in a burning building--who would get out first? You, not them.

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@james tate
21 Years10,000+ PostsCapricorn

Ax I bet you would go with a man who used a wrinkled condom
I always cold press mine first. Also god help me when she uses my tub for a bath and doesn't clean up the mess. Also no stocking hanging around the lou. I guess thats why Den and I( her being a sag) and not the neatest person in the world,live apart.