How does a virgo guy flirt?

Hey!

I just need some insight about virgo flirting? any ideas..

I am a cancer (female) and I just want to understand if he likes me or not?

what are those signs?

I'll give a shot..can sarcasm be a sign?

because he gets really sarcastic, he is constantly making fun of me, criticizing me sarcasticly in a exaggerating way..

They have a creepy stare apparently.

Usually, they just stare at the person they are attracted to, with hopes of the other person picking up on their desire to have you make the first move = they are NOT romantically aggressive, and will wait submissively for the other to take control.


Typically .. the sarcasm is expressed to all people to whom they feel comfortable around .... friends/family/lovers/co-workers.

A sure way of knowing whether this man is into you ... wait until he is quiet, nor distracted by anything ....

.. if he's staring at you with big eyes ... then he likes you "that" way. And if he is doing this, then he's waiting for you to approach him romantically.

If he is, and you do make the first move ... don't be surprised if he is hestitant and acts shy .. this is normal, for they can't be expected to take the lead once you've shown him that you are aware of his interest in you ....... you HAVE to take full lead and ask him out. If he's a typical Virgo .. he won't ask you out, even if you give him the signal that you are aware of his interest in you.

good luck 🙂

oh boy, I guess I wont be dating a virgo.

How well do you virgos respond to sarcasm and criticism directed towards you?

Are you the type that can dish it but not take it?

How do you gage the respect line?
What may seem playful to you may seem hurtful to another and vice versa.

Evan_Khan

more details...

we knew eachother from college, but we were never close
2 months ago I just bumped into him in a restaurant, ever since we are chatting online..well it was just friendly chat with a lot of sarcasm

a month ago we decided to grab a coffee and we were there just talking for 3 hours..i really had fun..but i wasn't really feeling something for him..so i was cool with it..no expectations

after 2 weeks he asked me to have a coffee again..so we went out..again we were there for 2-3 hours alone..but that day suddenly his friends came along..even though he was trying to hide it,he was panicked..and his friends started to make fun and he was trying to explain that there was nothing going on between us..it was weird..just to calm things up, I told them how deeply in love I am with him in a ironic way..everyone laughed..case closed.

after that, we started to see eachother once a week, going to movies and hanging out..

well when we meet, its only two of us..and since we are talking he is always looking to me but i don't know if he is staring..but i can say that he is always making fun of my facial expressions and gestures...

and no touch!..spending time for 3-4 hours and we don't even kiss eachother bye bye..avoiding anything tactile

i dont know....

"we were there for 2-3 hours alone..but that day suddenly his friends came along..even though he was trying to hide it,he was panicked..and his friends started to make fun and he was trying to explain that there was nothing going on between us..it was weird..just to calm things up, I told them how deeply in love I am with him in a ironic way..everyone laughed.."




So, he's embarrassed of you when his friends come near .. and your solution to this is to tell his friends you are in love with him?


rflmao

Remember that line from Carrie, when her mother's words echoed through her head?


'They're gonna laugh at you, they're gonna laugh at you.'

he wasn't embarrassed of me..since we are from the same college..i already knew his friends..and they knew me

but we were never close..barely friends..yeah I told them that I am in love with him..it was clear that it was a joke

is it possible to find "The Virgo Male - part 1"—

that can help me 🙂

[i]I'll give a shot..can sarcasm be a sign? [/i]

For me, it can be 🙂 The best way to describe it is...
I ONLY pick and give crap to someone I like. If I DON'T like you, I won't even bother giving you anything beyond civil pleasantries.

My gal distinctly knows that something is wrong or I'm mad at her by the amount I pick on her. In fact, if I pick on her a lot, she'll say "Wow, you REALLY missed me today didn't you?"

Sarcasm, picking on someone, etc, can definately be an expression of affection especially from guys.

"In fact, if I pick on her a lot, she'll say "Wow, you REALLY missed me today didn't you?"

--> this is cute 🙂

VirgoHero tell me other signs please....i already know "staring" what else?

😕

LOL, nothing. I just love that smiley. 🙂

😕 : - S

😕 O . O

:'-( : ' - (

oops, for the last one remove that dash (-)

😭 : ' (

yes he is insulting(yeah he knows the boundries)but he keeps talking and spending a considerable amount of time with me..

also he started to make sexual jokes while we are chatting online..however, nothing tactile is going on when we meet

He insults me ... I love him


Does he want me? I want him


He keeps talking to me, eventhough he's insulting ... does this mean he wants me? I so hope so because I want him to want me.

Miasma: I'll give a shot..can sarcasm be a sign?

Yeah, it's a sign of insecurity & immaturity.

I was much more sarcastic in my youth than I am now in my middle age.

Not all VirGuys are introverts who stare & remain silent. If we look, and we get a positive look back, we will act. I like word play, and I can be charming when I'm really really interested in the woman. We catch every detail, and we can use these observations in a pleasant way, or in an unpleasant way...

The next time he pops off, set him straight. If he stops, he cares about you. If he doesn't, then kick his sarcastic ass to the curb...

~DyarStra?e

DyarStra?e

Thanks for the info, do you still keep the "The virgo male part 1"—
I just want some general info about virgo flirting—

P-angel, for now i just like spending time with him. yeah he is sarcastic and he is even insulting me time to time but he makes it clear that he is joking..
and I am also firing back..I can handle his sarcastic approach and I am not complaining, so we are playing with words and laughing. we are having fun together. no further expectations.

I don't love him and I don't want him to want me..I just take it easy, actually I don't think and I don't worry about these stuff...

I am just curious about how does a virgo guy flirt..that's all..do you have a problem with it?

?

"I don't love him and I don't want him to want me..I just take it easy, actually I don't think and I don't worry about these stuff..."


Really?

Then why after getting your answer from Virgos in here did you bump this topic back up two days later if ..... you just take it easy, don't actually think, and don't worry about these stuff .....

I don't have a problem with you per se .. just a problem with people who are so self-absorbed that they have no awareness of how they appear to others .. a self-absorbed person can only comprehend what they want and Cancer usually fits the bill.


His friends laughed at you when you blurted out you are in love with him, eventhough he was heming and hawing when seen with you, telling them that you two aren't together. By you blurting that out was the LAST thing a person should have done, since he was uncomfortable about being seen with you in front of his friends. But, you have no awareness of this because you are self absorbed.

You say you don't want him to want you, and don't care

then bump this thread after two days .... so people can continue to focus on you and this situation, eventhough your last post claimed you don't actually think or worry about this stuff .....

Of course, you'll have no idea what this post of mine is implying and I don't expect to have the ability to.

p-angel,

if you think i am so self-absorbed, why are you even entertaining my threads with answers? i think you are the one who thrives for attention and needs to stur up controversy. i asked a simple question in the beginning of this conversation about how virgo males flirt and gave some extra details about what my relations with this guy were to help people answer my question.

my purpose for "blurting" out that i am in love with him was to ease the conversation and throw some simple sarcasm for people to enjoy. this was a simple comment that wasnt a big deal for anyone and in fact his friends were amused and joined us for some coffee proving that only YOU are insecure with my comment. i guess you have zero sense of humor and are unable to understand any sort of joke. people did not laugh AT me, they all laughed WITH me so there were no "heming" and "hawing" actions going on (and excuse me if im not the only one who doesnt understand your backwards, 1980s ling-o).

like i mentioned earlier (if you can even recollect that far back between your banters) i am an easy going person so jokes between the virgo male and i are a simple way of showing affection and attention. i guess your flirting abilities may be out-dated because after that night at the coffee shop was when we really began to see each other more often...so i guess it worked, huh? maybe you should be taking some notes from me. oh sorry, am i being too self-absorbed for you? should i just stop right here?

"Of course, you'll have no idea what this post of mine is implying and I don't expect to have the ability to."

let me know if i wasn't clear enough for you.

"after 2 weeks he asked me to have a coffee again..so we went out..again we were there for 2-3 hours alone..but that day suddenly his friends came along..even though he was trying to hide it,he was panicked..and his friends started to make fun and he was trying to explain that there was nothing going on between us..it was weird"

lol

outcast swore that was deep.