How many virgo men have been cheated on?

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hahhaha.. no bran. i don't plan to and has not been on my agenda once. i was just curious bc i know several virgo men have been cheated on. my virgo guy, his last ex cheated on him.

just curious and wanted to know. i leave a relationship first then start talking to guys. i'm a faithful gf.

i love my virgo guy but many times he drives me up the walls. lol he's a great friend to me and many others but to be in a relationship with him has been hard. but i love him. i'm loyal and faithful.

i'm just curious about the things virgo men (or ladies) do that would drive others to go wander off while in a relationship that's all.
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ahaha.. that's funny when you said "attention whore".. at first i was like.. wat the? then i had to read it again. well, i'm not much of an "attention whore" or a telephone operator where i have to be on the phone with my virgo all the time 24/7. i do feel that i need (not want) a little bit more attention. i feel he gives it more to his friends, then he does to me. but that's a whole diff issue. anyhow...

that so describes my virgo.

i don't think virgos are boring. i think it's more frustrating and a lot of work, a lot patient, a lot of understanding, a lot trust, a lot work, oh, i said that already... ke ke. but yea, to me, virgos aren't boring since they stimulate my mind and heart and the coolest to be around.

i know that virgos can be great friends, but when it comes to being in a relationship with one, why less reassurance?
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there's no point to prove. everyone's situation is different. i just wanted to know if there was a common reason why people cheated on virgos.

n yea, the forever projects.. top secret or not....

but i do have to thank you all for your insights to understand the characteristics of a virgo. i've been lurking the forums for a bit while now so i thought i pop in to thank you all. i know everyone and every virgo is born different as an individual but to learn the common characteristics does help me understand my virgo more.
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"Karma always comes back to haunt these kind of people."

- i highly believe in karma and karma kicks ass!

"Well, many Virgos can be charming - especially when we know the interaction is (and will probably always be) CASUAL. It's when we see a potential relationship, and/or respond to the other emotionally, that we often get tongue-tied, withdraw, etc."

- The virgos I know in friendship are sweet, caring, charming, helpful, ... To be in a relationship with one is a whole new ball game... a twist of confusion.. i feel like i'm living in a secret garden ... and i thought i knew him... he lives more than one life...

so, does anyone here live a second life or more?

I love my virgo guy regardless of the things we go through. we started off as friends but are now in a relationship together.


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First off, i just want to say "hey" to all the lady gems on here. I'm just gonna assume all three of us, gemfox, mzc and i are gemini ladies. lol

"when a virgo really is turned on,it shows,& when he acts distant & moody some
women might take it for rejection?"

yeah, i can tell if my virgo is interested in things or people. but when they become distant, it just confuses me and drives me nutts.. before, i misunderstood that he's not interested or is being unfaithful or unloyal to me when he pushes me away or gives the distance.

"They can make me feel worse than any man I know,but they do seem really good hearted on the inside when you get to know them."

I know what you mean. lol.


" hopefully he understands & knows how take care of a gemini ;]"

do you think who takes care of who more? gem or virg? or does it depends like on emotions, is it just gems.. and on other things like work, house duty, etc.. are virgs?
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"when a virgo really is turned on,it shows,& when he acts distant & moody some
women might take it for rejection?"

my virguy in the beginning of the relationship he acted distant & moody too but then it all change.. i asked him why were yoo acting like that & i said was it because yoo weren`t sure if i was foreal about the fact that i wanted to be wit yoo or be real.. cause yoo know about the whole situation wit his ex cheating on him. then i guess he realized that i was down for him then things got better =]

"do you think who takes care of who more? gem or virg? or does it depends like on emotions, is it just gems.. and on other things like work, house duty, etc.. are virgs?"

i think gems take care of virgo more, but sometimes it equal too. with me it`s more like work, house dutys, etc..

GemGirlNVirgGuy is it the same way wit yoo too? or nah?
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"i think gems take care of virgo more, but sometimes it equal too. with me it`s more like work, house dutys, etc.. GemGirlNVirgGuy is it the same way wit yoo too? or nah?"

Yeah, I totally feel like I'm doing all the work and taking care of us more. Emotionally and physically. But I do know that he tries a bit so I can't ask for much bc he is honest saying that he's not perfect... etc.. lol grr.. many times i feel like i'm not number one (behind other people) and it hurts me. you ladies feel the same way?
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I would imagine that in the cases where virgos are cheated on its because the other person is getting something outside of the relationship that they aren't getting in it. My adult virgo definitely got cheated on in those last days before i called it all off. I did have a virgo years before that though who I never cheated on because she never gave me a reason to....she was always giving it up. I loved that about her lol...I never could have cheated because she made it a point to drain me of every drop I had before i left her house...there was simply nothinig left for anyone else...which was fine with me because I'm always busy with something anyways....
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My Virgo husband was cheated on by every serious relationship he had before me. Finding someone faithful wasn't an easy task for him, since giving his women emotional support wasn't something he was willing to do, nor, is it deemed as necessary. If a woman ain't getting what she needs, it's hard for her to give back what he needs .. loyalty .. that's just the way it works.

Additionally, every Virgo I've ever met, male and female .. have cheated on their partners .. so, that has to account for something as well .. if a particular Virgo ain't faithful .. then they would get the same treatment back.
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Alot, a lot, a lot, a lot and then a lot more work .. much more than any other ..

work, work, work and it's never enough because they need more and more .. even the Aries, who needs tons of attention doesn't need as much work.

Shame .. cause, they give back so little in comparison .. they have requirements, if women don't fall within their expectations, they are deemed unworthy of any effort, while the partner works, and works and works at the union ..
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Message posted by: VirgoFun on 2/7/2007 12:43:10 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.133
virgo women.. we rock. we can have anything we want.

Message posted by: VirgoFun on 2/8/2007 3:15:55 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.133
ohmygoodness. can you guys help me? i'm stuck. =9 we're in a slumb. he's not calling me. i'm thinking of reading "he's just not that into you." talk about depressing.



lol .. ok