How to deal with a virgo girl who wants a relationship and then changes her mind within days?

I have known this girl for the last 11 years. We are both 22. We have been best friends for years and I fell for her three years ago. Out of fear of losing her I didn't tell her how I felt until the end of last year. She said that she wasn't ready for a relationship but she would think about it and that I shouldn't pressurize her into a decision. She also added that she would love it if we were together sometime in the future and that she trusts and respects me a lot. I didn't pressurize her and waited for nearly 5 months. She called me and finally said that she felt the same way for me too and that she wanted to meet me and talk about it but couldn't wait until then. We got together from 2nd of this month. Suddenly from the next day she started ignoring me, talked over the phone in a way as if she was not interested and suddenly today texted on facebook that she thinks she doesn't love me and just likes me. I was heartbroken and didn't text her back and she kept texting me 'Are you ok? I dont think so' , 'You are my besty' 'sorry please say something' and sent smileys as if nothing has happened. I don't know how to deal with this. Please help.

Me: Virgo Sun, Sagitarrius Moon, Virgo Venus, Sagittarius Rising

She : Virgo Sun, Leo Moon, Leo Venus, Sagittarius Rising

She isn't feeling you at all.

Probably tried to, out of guilt for misleading you or pressure with herself if you showered her with attention and/or presents.

It sucks when you know you could gel well with someone but there is no chemistry.

There is nothing for you to deal with other than getting over it. I hope you don't harbor ideas of getting her to try again because all that will fail.

I agree with Damnata. She likes and loves you as a friend and was hoping the chemistry would follow. But it's not happening and now she's backing away. At least you went for it and now can move forward with your life instead of clinging to a dream.

you should back off completely go out with friend and/or start seeing someone else, get your mind off of her.

dont give her the attention nor eye contact when you see her and be causal and polite.

you can remain friends but don't jump to answer her calls or texts.

she'll remember what she could have had

let is take its course from there but genuinley get out there and start seeing someone else

All of the above.

At 22, you've barely gotten out of diapers when it comes to relationships.



Days will come that women will lie to you, play with your head, use you, lead you on, trick you and most of all cheat on you.

When those days happen (and they will) you have this person to look back on to be thankful that there are ladies out there will be honest and respectful to you. Even when they don't want you as a boyfriend, they will have the decency to be straight with you, and cherish what they do like about you.

Sometimes people think a door has closed in front of them, but, when they clear the fog from their head they realize the door opened.