@The_king
9 Years
Texting a virgo girl
How Should You Text a Virgo Woman Without Pushing Her Away?
Many people notice Virgo women can be slow or selective with texting, especially early on. What tends to work is being clear, thoughtful, and not overdoing it with constant messages or pressure. If texts feel too much or too vague, she may pull back or take longer to respond. In real situations, steady and genuine communication usually gets a better response than trying too hard.
What's your sign ?
You're going to have to warm her up to get her to open up more.
Find out what her interests are and send her something related to it like a link, article, pic, etc. She'll become engaged.
I have Venus in Virgo, Cap Moon
What's her Mercury?
I am a cancer sun, aries moon.
Her mercury is in libra.
Virgo Venus will quietly work their way into your heart. They are sensitive, if a little insecure, and many people find this reserved loner very attractive. They usually play it safe and they must know that you like them before they'll make the tiniest move. They are great listeners, and they spend time observing your habits and reactions so they know all the ins and outs of your personality. Like a small child with a crush, they may indicate their interest by being a nuisance. When they criticize, they are not trying to hurt you; however… they are trying to help! They are turned off by boastful people or those who appear to know it.
Virgos take their time and will not rush into things. You also need to be very CLEAR with a Virgo about what you want. So the best thing to do with her (or any woman) is to be direct. When you see her, ask her out. Let her know you are interested in getting to know her better and that you find her interesting. If she's shy, you're DEFINITELY going to have to do this. She's not going to initiate this until she is comfortable with you.
Posted by Chuckcem
Virgos take their time and will not rush into things. You also need to be very CLEAR with a Virgo about what you want. So the best thing to do with her (or any woman) is to be direct. When you see her, ask her out. Let her know you are interested in getting to know her better and that you find her interesting. If she's shy, you're DEFINITELY going to have to do this. She's not going to initiate this until she is comfortable with you.
Yes!
The thing is she replies to first 2-3 messages and then suddenly disappears. Then again comes online the next day , reads but doesnt respond. I am really confused if I should continue to chase her or just move on. I really like her but her dual behaviour throws me off every time I decide to ask her out.
Can you give us an example of how those texts go?
She's just taking time to warm up. She's not initiating texts because she doesn't want to look too desperate.
If I could give you any advice, it's to be consistent, don't scare her away, have proper hygiene (wash yourself, don't have stains on your clothes, be clean, don't act like a barbarian), and maybe hang out with her more so you guys are familiar. Maybe ask her out on a date. Get to know each other more.
Example 1 :-
Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Posted by The_king
Example 1 :-Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Honestly, she doesn't sound interested.
I wouldn't even bother contacting her again. Fuck all that.
Yeah she's just being polite at most. Let this one go.
So whats with all this continuous staring when I am not looking? Why check out someone you are not even interested in?
Posted by The_king
So whats with all this continuous staring when I am not looking? Why check out someone you are not even interested in?
First off there would be no way for you to know if she stares at you if you are NOT looking. You know because you are looking too.
Secondly, I stare at people a lot. I just find them fascinating and like picking up on their quirks/body language.
Even if she does like you, she's giving you no room to build on smthg here so it's really a waste of your time.
Posted by The_king
Example 1 :-Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Thats freaking rude of her! She is truly not worth it. The fact that she ignores you twice she doesnt even value you. You deserve better than that. That virgo girl isnt even polite.. she skipped you twice. No manner
Posted by The_king
So whats with all this continuous staring when I am not looking? Why check out someone you are not even interested in?First off there would be no way for you to know if she stares at you if you are NOT looking. You know because you are looking too.
Secondly, I stare at people a lot. I just find them fascinating and like picking up on their quirks/body language.
Even if she does like you, she's giving you no room to build on smthg here so it's really a waste of your time.
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Actually you can notice when someone is staring at you even if you arent directly looking at them.
Posted by The_king
Example 1 :-Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Thats freaking rude of her! She is truly not worth it. The fact that she ignores you twice she doesnt even value you. You deserve better than that. That virgo girl isnt even polite.. she skipped you twice. No manner
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Nah! I don't think shez rude. Just reserved and shy from wat I know. Has just 3-4 guy friends who she really talks to(who happen to b scorps btw).
Posted by The_king
So whats with all this continuous staring when I am not looking? Why check out someone you are not even interested in?First off there would be no way for you to know if she stares at you if you are NOT looking. You know because you are looking too.
Secondly, I stare at people a lot. I just find them fascinating and like picking up on their quirks/body language.
Even if she does like you, she's giving you no room to build on smthg here so it's really a waste of your time.
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Couple of my friends noticed that few times. Also they had absolutely no idea that I liked her or trying to get to know her or anything. I haven't told any1 about her.
Posted by The_king
Example 1 :-Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Thats freaking rude of her! She is truly not worth it. The fact that she ignores you twice she doesnt even value you. You deserve better than that. That virgo girl isnt even polite.. she skipped you twice. No manner
Nah! I don't think shez rude. Just reserved and shy from wat I know. Has just 3-4 guy friends who she really talks to(who happen to b scorps btw).
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Yeah but still though, imo its rude to not even reply back.
Posted by The_king
Example 1 :-Aries - heyy couldn't help but notice u weren't there for morning lecture today.
Virgo - yeah, I attended it in the afternoon batch. Thanks for your concern.
Aries - all prepared for exams next week?!
NO REPLY
Example 2 :-
Aries - hii!! Haven't seen u in a while. How r u?
Virgo - Good. 🙂 Hope u r doing well too.
Aries - yeah m fine. Wat r your plans for this weekend?
NO REPLY
Something like this, it becomes really hard to get a conversation flowing
Thats freaking rude of her! She is truly not worth it. The fact that she ignores you twice she doesnt even value you. You deserve better than that. That virgo girl isnt even polite.. she skipped you twice. No manner
Nah! I don't think shez rude. Just reserved and shy from wat I know. Has just 3-4 guy friends who she really talks to(who happen to b scorps btw).
Lol dude you can't beat a Scorpio for a Virgo
Give up please
You make me sad
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I don't think she likes any of them romantically. She's been friends with them for quite a while and still they are just friends.
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Hi! A virgo girl recently caught my eye. I noticed her staring at me/glancing at me from across the room when I wasn't looking. At first I ignored it, but when it started happening frequently I finally decided to talk to her. The conversation went well. As we don't get to see each other often I decided to text her, however she doesn't seem to b responsive to texts. She does text back, but with short replies and after several hours. Also she never initiates texting conversation.From what I know, she is a shy person and hasn't dated any1 before. I am really confused whether she has lost interest or whether shes taking time to open up to me.Plzzz help!!
P.s:- she's got moon and venus in virgo