How to deal with virgo woman?

I'm a real Scorpio (Sun), darn very intense (!), with Moon in Gemini and Leo Asc/rising. Recently I met a real Virgo woman, same interests and same belief on many fields. I know she likes me too.

While I'm aware there are more aspects of it than only the Sun sign, she fits the description of a Virgo sign damn well. I'm amazed how right astrology could be in this situation.

She's little innocent, might be tad naive, sharp and hella smartass. Impressve writing skillz. spiritual, and obsessed with food/health/fitness. Maybe too much. She might stress a lot when she don't reach her calories targets, or something.

There is also a other side, I noticed she have some difficulties to express her emotions. Much a introvert. She's damn nervous and a BIG worrier. I would like to soothe her worries, my intuition tells me she possess a good heart, so she deserves to get all love. So yes, I would fuckin' love to make her happy.

But that's where my issue with her arise. As Scorpio, it scares me when I notice she's also trying to analyze me. When she wants to know mrore about me, I'm sort of dodging her. Not fair for her, I guess. But hey, I'm a Scorpio. And I must admit it, I find it hard to deal with her cold side, like she's devoid of any emotion. I know this is not really true, b/c like me she's also good in hiding her emotions. I understand this is part of Virgo's nature.

Unfortunately, this aspect bothers me because I want to read her emotions like an open book. I felt irritated when I'm trying to express my emotions, while she cannot do the same in return. While she says not much about her emotiones, I have noticed she is amazed how I'm able to express myself.

She's not aware of my struggle with her hardship to express her emotions. I have a good reason to not tell her why I have a problem with that. Why would I criticize her for something she cannot fix? She is just a Virgo, as they are.

Such critism would only make her feel more unsure about herself. So it's better to avoid such points of criticism. She is already hard for herself.

That's where my dilemma begins.

If I find it hard to deal with her cold/aloof side, it would be better to avoid her. But on the other side, I have a strong feeling that my words have a real value with her, I connect well with her, hardly what I'd call. With the others I have not felt the same feeling in the same way. In that regard I consider the most people as more superficial/shallow. She is one of the exceptions on this point.

So I'm craving to get in touch with her again. But she is using her cold side towards me, to protect herself by nature. It hurts me. But I cannot help anymore, I'm already emotionally obsessed about her. Oh, such a waste of thoughts.

I know I will see her again on a party somewhere. So I'm thinking about how to deal with her further.

I wonder if any Virgo's here could give me some piece of advice, regarding to how I could deal with her cold/aloof side?

And sorry for my poor English by the way, it's not my native language (Dutch here).

No thoughts on this?