How to get closer to this Virgo?

Well, I'm in love with this woman that I've been friends with for a while now. We have a lot in common. She's really chill and calm and smart..until we start playing videogames, then she gets aggressive ( that turns me on ). She's quirky and has this dark sense of humor, but I find that cute in a way. Really artistic, goofy, and talented. Think the biggest thing that's caught me is that she's always been there for emotional support. There's just a lot of small things I love about her. I've never fallen so fast this hard even though that's normal for Leos(?)...lol. I want to move our relationship to the next step, but I don't know how... The thing I hate about her is that she's distant and jokes around the subject or tries to change the topic to something else. We've talked about our past relationships before at one point and she's told me that her time was wasted with the other guys she's been with. Is that why she's being cold to me? :/

These are her personal planets.

Asc: Libra

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Scorpio

Mercury: Virgo

Venus: Libra

Mars: Scorpio

Her birthday is September 8, 1997 and her Juno is in Leo, so I guess that's an advantage for me?? Idk I'm new to astrology.

My birthday: August 11 1998

Thought it was me being described hahaha Well as a virgo girl my best advice would be to be honest and say what you feel about her (but not in away you're dumping your feeling onto her and forces her to leave because she's suffocated by it) That you're serious about her and you want to take a risk with her and want to have a future with her. 🙂 Good luck bud!