how to make a virgo like you ?

Hi this is my first post on this site so please tell me if i posted this question in the wrong place .

Alight i am a Taurus girl and i am interested in this Virgo
guy problem is i think he just want's to have sex But i can't be sure . He is weird and quiet for example he will sit and stare at and say ask me a crazy sexual or weird question .

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him :you want to freak
Me: no not at the moment but thank you for asking
Him: okay (Then he pokes me )
I would also like to point out when he ask me these weird questions his face is so serious. And how i answer him is how i usually respond and talk to him. He acts like he is so sweet he always says hi and always wants to look like the good guy. He also points out all my dang flaws i take that as a insult.

We are acquaintances he is friends with my best friends brother and apparently he always asks about me to my friend. He confuses me to the fullest degree I feel like he just try's to see how far i will go . This was long but any advice would be appreciated and if it matters we're 18 .

virgos are perfectionists. I should know, I am a virgo (woman)! The need to look perfect on the surface to the outside world is different than when he is with you alone when it is just the two of you. When he knows you more and is more comfortable around you, he will show more of himself to you and allow himself to be more vulnerable to you. This takes time and happens as trust is built between the two.

Can you give me more background? How long have you known this guy? Are you dating? Just friends? Not meaning to intrude on your privacy, but if you gave me more information maybe I can try to give better advice. My brother is a virgo and he is a sweetheart and was very romantic and loyal to his wife, until she cheated on him and then he divorced her. Virgo's don't normally go for sex only type of relationships, they invest their time and emotion into someone and try and try until they exhaust every avenue of a relationship. Don't rush anything, take your time to get to know your virgo. It all depends on what you are looking for too. It sounds like you want a relationship and if you do, do NOT have sex with this man until you know HIS intention for you.

Virgos are also very critical of others, but are even more critical to themselves so mentioning a virgo's flaws in return is not a wise move because the virgo already knows very well his/her flaws and weaknesses and trust me, the virgo is constantly working towards perfection even though it does not exist. Still, doesn't stop them from critiquing the entire world and how they can improve you as well. It can be a form of caring. Try to keep in mind that virgo's aren't always great communicators, more times than not, the way a message is delivered to you sucks and can really hurt especially when said in anger or in an emotional moment. The virgo tongue can be like a sword going straight for the heart to kill. Not nice, but still, we all have weaknesses.

What I've read in past, the taurus and virgo are a great pair.

Your first mistake is thinking that you can "make" a Virgo do anything. I have to ask why you feel compelled to attract this guy if he makes you feel insulted when you talk? This is already on the long road to nowhere.

Posted by charliebears
only virgos reply to the taurean line of questioning lololol!!!!

oh damn it's the other way around. nvm!

Lol yes not that day not that week but he will ask again it's just he makes me confused like how am i supposed to answer this weird ass question. Lol it's funny because my capricorn friend would just be a freak right back .

Posted by TMV
Your first mistake is thinking that you can "make" a Virgo do anything. I have to ask why you feel compelled to attract this guy if he makes you feel insulted when you talk? This is already on the long road to nowhere.

Honestly is just something about him idk but yeah i don't know if his criticism is meant to be taken seriously maybe I'm just sensitive idk .

yes he wants to fuck
no the criticisms arent meant to be personal

Posted by aquavirgo
virgos are perfectionists. I should know, I am a virgo (woman)! The need to look perfect on the surface to the outside world is different than when he is with you alone when it is just the two of you. When he knows you more and is more comfortable around you, he will show more of himself to you and allow himself to be more vulnerable to you. This takes time and happens as trust is built between the two.

Can you give me more background? How long have you known this guy? Are you dating? Just friends? Not meaning to intrude on your privacy, but if you gave me more information maybe I can try to give better advice. My brother is a virgo and he is a sweetheart and was very romantic and loyal to his wife, until she cheated on him and then he divorced her. Virgo's don't normally go for sex only type of relationships, they invest their time and emotion into someone and try and try until they exhaust every avenue of a relationship. Don't rush anything, take your time to get to know your virgo. It all depends on what you are looking for too. It sounds like you want a relationship and if you do, do NOT have sex with this man until you know HIS intention for you.

Virgos are also very critical of others, but are even more critical to themselves so mentioning a virgo's flaws in return is not a wise move because the virgo already knows very well his/her flaws and weaknesses and trust me, the virgo is constantly working towards perfection even though it does not exist. Still, doesn't stop them from critiquing the entire world and how they can improve you as well. It can be a form of caring. Try to keep in mind that virgo's aren't always great communicators, more times than not, the way a message is delivered to you sucks and can really hurt especially when said in anger or in an emotional moment. The virgo tongue can be like a sword going straight for the heart to kill. Not nice, but still, we all have weaknesses.

What I've read in past, the taurus and virgo are a great pair.

We are friends but not friends he's my best friends brothers friend . We have never dated kissed or did anything else . We hung out sometime my friend try's to say we would make a nice couple but idk .

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Posted by TMV
Your first mistake is thinking that you can "make" a Virgo do anything. I have to ask why you feel compelled to attract this guy if he makes you feel insulted when you talk? This is already on the long road to nowhere.

That's the first thing that came to mind when I read the title of the OP. Only time will tell what his true intentions are but I have to say this, it doesn't sound like he respects you much by the way he speaks to you. If a guy asked me "you want to freak" and we have not been in a committed relationship or at least been having regular sex....He would get the crucial cuss out from me. How DARE he speak to you like that!! The next time he says something like that just say "Go F yourself".

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Lol i don't like to curse and i honestly don't know if he's being a A-hole or that's just him and when i say no thanx he moves on and just go in his own world

Posted by HungVirgo
yes he wants to fuck
no the criticisms arent meant to be personal

lol he's 18 i think they all want to treetrunk but i guess the question would be is that all,he wants i say yes my best friend says no .

idk i guess it's weird because i usually can read ppl in a couple hours it sounds weird but i can just sense if your a jack ass or if i will like you but this Virgo i just can't pin him he makes no sense .

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Posted by juniper

Posted by HungVirgo
yes he wants to fuck
no the criticisms arent meant to be personal

lol he's 18 i think they all want to treetrunk but i guess the question would be is that all,he wants i say yes my best friend says no .

WHAT!!!!!

well of course he does!

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Lol yeah we're young but you think all he wants to do is treetrunk if that's the case i don't think he's very good at it .

Posted by aquavirgo
virgos are perfectionists. I should know, I am a virgo (woman)! The need to look perfect on the surface to the outside world is different than when he is with you alone when it is just the two of you. When he knows you more and is more comfortable around you, he will show more of himself to you and allow himself to be more vulnerable to you. This takes time and happens as trust is built between the two.

Can you give me more background? How long have you known this guy? Are you dating? Just friends? Not meaning to intrude on your privacy, but if you gave me more information maybe I can try to give better advice. My brother is a virgo and he is a sweetheart and was very romantic and loyal to his wife, until she cheated on him and then he divorced her. Virgo's don't normally go for sex only type of relationships, they invest their time and emotion into someone and try and try until they exhaust every avenue of a relationship. Don't rush anything, take your time to get to know your virgo. It all depends on what you are looking for too. It sounds like you want a relationship and if you do, do NOT have sex with this man until you know HIS intention for you.

Virgos are also very critical of others, but are even more critical to themselves so mentioning a virgo's flaws in return is not a wise move because the virgo already knows very well his/her flaws and weaknesses and trust me, the virgo is constantly working towards perfection even though it does not exist. Still, doesn't stop them from critiquing the entire world and how they can improve you as well. It can be a form of caring. Try to keep in mind that virgo's aren't always great communicators, more times than not, the way a message is delivered to you sucks and can really hurt especially when said in anger or in an emotional moment. The virgo tongue can be like a sword going straight for the heart to kill. Not nice, but still, we all have weaknesses.

What I've read in past, the taurus and virgo are a great pair.

I just re read your post it was very informative so thank you and he is judgmental i am not trying to have sex with him or anyone for that matter but yeah i would like a relationship i feel like a fine line with him and i never know what he is thinking.

if your best friend is a male then he'd know, if its a woman her opinion is irrelevant.
he could just be saying outlandish things to gauge how youll respond, you wont know if all he wants is to fuck till you start talking to him more.

Posted by HungVirgo
if your best friend is a male then he'd know, if its a woman her opinion is irrelevant.
he could just be saying outlandish things to gauge how youll respond, you wont know if all he wants is to fuck till you start talking to him more.

Yeah my friend is a women lol but why is he trying to gauge my reaction and i think your right but i don't like wasting,my time and i just like to be sure before i get my feelings involved.

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Posted by HungVirgo
if your best friend is a male then he'd know, if its a woman her opinion is irrelevant.
he could just be saying outlandish things to gauge how youll respond, you wont know if all he wants is to fuck till you start talking to him more.

+1

Just male sure you maintain a level of respect for yourself (something you'll be doing for the rest of your life)

That sad part about it is, I've read about grown ass men talking to women like this when they are past 30. Don't think it get any better.

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Well i try to have respect and i hope men don't do that lol idk how i would deal with that but this year i am trying to gain confidence take chances and just not be so self conscious : ) .

Posted by juniper

Honestly is just something about him idk but yeah i don't know if his criticism is meant to be taken seriously maybe I'm just sensitive idk .

Posted by juniper
...i think your right but i don't like wasting,my time and i just like to be sure before i get my feelings involved.

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I can tell you right now that you're probably going to be wasting your time in the long run. If you're already "sensitive" before a relationship has even been established things are only going to get harder for you. Read some of the other hundreds of "Virgo Man X" and "Virguy douched up this or that" threads around here and save yourself the heartache.

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Posted by juniper

Honestly is just something about him idk but yeah i don't know if his criticism is meant to be taken seriously maybe I'm just sensitive idk .

Posted by juniper
...i think your right but i don't like wasting,my time and i just like to be sure before i get my feelings involved.

I can tell you right now that you're probably going to be wasting your time in the long run. If you're already "sensitive" before a relationship has even been established things are only going to get harder for you. Read some of the other hundreds of "Virgo Man X" and "Virguy douched up this or that" threads around here and save yourself the heartache.

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I'm not sensitive as in a cry baby and i don't show my emotions i just take things personally .

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Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by HungVirgo

Well i try to have respect and i hope men don't do that lol idk how i would deal with that but this year i am trying to gain confidence take chances and just not be so self conscious : ) .

Good job! The more you invest in yourself, the more you attract the right kind of guy.

Don't let what TMV said bother you. Every woman on this planet is sensative about something. Some just control their emotions better than others.

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thank you : )

Posted by juniper
i don't show my emotions i just take things personally.

I know what you meant. Not everyone is meant to be with a Virgo--even if they think they're cute, smart, funny, charming, their soul mate, blah, blah, blah. The confusing hard-to-read exterior and the cold critiques aren't going to change or fade. If anything, it can get a hell of a lot worse before it begins to get better.

If I sound like a jerk right now by telling you this, it's because you're seeing an example of Virgo kindness by being offered some blunt honesty instead of candy sugar coated BS.

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Posted by HungVirgo
if your best friend is a male then he'd know, if its a woman her opinion is irrelevant.
he could just be saying outlandish things to gauge how youll respond, you wont know if all he wants is to fuck till you start talking to him more.

Yeah my friend is a women lol but why is he trying to gauge my reaction and i think your right but i don't like wasting,my time and i just like to be sure before i get my feelings involved.

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Why would feelings be involved, you two havent really had any real conversation or anything yet. You should be able to talk and see what he's about before feelings get activated. But If I put myself in his shoes I'd be gauging your reactions in order to get a quick survey of the type of girl you are and how I should proceed. If you dont check me at the initial boundary I cross verbally I'll keep going until either I get stopped, I get enough information about you, or I get bored.

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Posted by juniper
i don't show my emotions i just take things personally.

I know what you meant. Not everyone is meant to be with a Virgo--even if they think they're cute, smart, funny, charming, their soul mate, blah, blah, blah. The confusing hard-to-read exterior and the cold critiques aren't going to change or fade. If anything, it can get a hell of a lot worse before it begins to get better.

If I sound like a jerk right now by telling you this, it's because you're seeing an example of Virgo kindness by being offered some blunt honesty instead of candy sugar coated BS.

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I get it i do the same thing just to see how far i can get but I'm persistent he just stops but thanx i think your right.

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Posted by juniper
i don't show my emotions i just take things personally.

I know what you meant. Not everyone is meant to be with a Virgo--even if they think they're cute, smart, funny, charming, their soul mate, blah, blah, blah. The confusing hard-to-read exterior and the cold critiques aren't going to change or fade. If anything, it can get a hell of a lot worse before it begins to get better.

If I sound like a jerk right now by telling you this, it's because you're seeing an example of Virgo kindness by being offered some blunt honesty instead of candy sugar coated BS.

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Well thanx for your honesty i will take what you say into consideration .

For what it's worth from a Virgo gal I'm thinking the critiquing of you is because he wants you to be your best (if he likes you). Here's how I would play it...1) next sexual comment like that respond "I'm not some hussy you met at a bar looking for a one night stand - I'm a woman who you should respect if you think I'm going to give you the time of day" then follow with "so if you are crushing on me I suggest you pick a different means of letting me know". 2) on the next critique comment I would say "I hear what you're saying but are you trying to just hurt my feelings or because right now your doing a great job at it".

Finally, I think he does like you & is testing you but he's 18 so he really hasn't learned how to go about it correctly. And I've dated my fare share of Tauraus to say they do work together very well in realtionships. If you do like him & want to ultimately date him stand your ground for respect, build a friendship by hanging out & talking a bunch, and lastly make him want you like there's no tomorrow before you jump in. Good luck! Keep us posted!

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
For what it's worth from a Virgo gal I'm thinking the critiquing of you is because he wants you to be your best (if he likes you). Here's how I would play it...1) next sexual comment like that respond "I'm not some hussy you met at a bar looking for a one night stand - I'm a woman who you should respect if you think I'm going to give you the time of day" then follow with "so if you are crushing on me I suggest you pick a different means of letting me know". 2) on the next critique comment I would say "I hear what you're saying but are you trying to just hurt my feelings or because right now your doing a great job at it".

Finally, I think he does like you & is testing you but he's 18 so he really hasn't learned how to go about it correctly. And I've dated my fare share of Tauraus to say they do work together very well in realtionships. If you do like him & want to ultimately date him stand your ground for respect, build a friendship by hanging out & talking a bunch, and lastly make him want you like there's no tomorrow before you jump in. Good luck! Keep us posted!

Thanx i appreciate your advice and i will try to be more assertive : )