Annoying virgo ex....

so...dated him for 2.5 years. I am a bull. .. I want to move on with my life as i am in love with someone else now as well...

I can't get him out of my life.. he's constantly texting/calling/facebooking to hang out...

I don't see myself being with him again ..i made that very very very clear ! but he's not getting it.

changing my number is the last thing i want to do but what am i supposed to do ..please advise

I had a very troubled two-year relationship with a Sag, whose moon and ascendant are in Virgo. He was a messed up individual, and I believe I was with him for the learning experience. When I finally did stop taking his calls for good, I didn't get a last contact from him until one full year later. Even one time of picking up, or such, means that there's hope. It's got to be a total freeze out like Ixion said.

Posted by Sagtastic1

I wonder why he keeps coming around?

The Virgos I know are very proud people, and will NOT be somewhere they aren't wanted ... my husband would rather clean a toilet than disturb/bother a person who doesn't want his company.

If he is a typical Virgo, he is still sniffing around because the door is still open.

I'm in the same position. I told him to lose my number and for 2 yrs. he called from unknown numbers. I new it was him. He did this despite having a girlfriend. We had no FB connection, but he continued to play on my phone. After 2 yrs. he finally called from his number and I accepted the call. I was dumb enough to think if he did this for 2 yrs. it was love. Its been 8 months and I wished I never picked up the call..

Same experience, for 2 yrs he played on my phone. Calling from unknown numbers. I never answered then one day he called from his number and I answered. I was dumb enough to think his behavior was a sign of love.... Its been 8 mos. and I wished I never let him back in my life.

yup, have to freeze us out completely. Or get so vitriolic with your words that our pride wont allow any further communication. The only way to always beat a virgo is if you use his pride against him, doesnt work on the virgo women though since they dont have pride.

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Posted by Sagtastic1

I wonder why he keeps coming around?

The Virgos I know are very proud people, and will NOT be somewhere they aren't wanted ... my husband would rather clean a toilet than disturb/bother a person who doesn't want his company.

If he is a typical Virgo, he is still sniffing around because the door is still open.

and if we are in the background its because we are receiving some sort of signal of acceptance from the person in question, whether knowingly, or otherwise.

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definitely. if its not a strong no fuck off, its a yes as far as im concerned. and for the most part the only thing I'll accept as a strong enough no is being frozen out completely.

I was speaking for the real men. Not whatever you are.

Thanks all for the input. What he's not getting is the way he still talks to me like we were together ! - that tone of voices... Words he was using etc!!! I can't be any clearer ! I was a total bitch to him on the phone ( he called me from a block number) I knew I shouldn't have picked up! *sigh* he facebooked me n I stopped replying then he wud call !!! Asking why I don't respond etc. I am going to freeze him out completely. I told him he was a good friend. It's like he's heartless! I told him I don't want anything to do with him again as I don't maintain contacts with my exs untill he's moved on with another girl or something ( I meant it) . How does one not feel hurt n was so persistent??!?!?! He said he likes being with me and talking to me. Fair enough but I can't keep contacts if he feels more for me than I do for him . I don't like hurting people n sometimes freezing him out is probably the best option . He was a good friend to have .. Thats about it. I didn't realise he was such a boy !!( 29 years old!!) no offense Virgo males:p

Posted by Sagtastic1
wanting him back? Stalk him and watch him run for this hills. When you do come into contact with him, be the trashiest, low class, in educated flip flop you can be. Question him about his every move......beg him to talk to you.....be needy......cry about everything.....tell him you stopped bathing and have no need for soap. Lol that should work because he WILL Still contacting you the more you stop. It's weird AF but true.

Oh yeah, talk shit about his family and people close to him. That's the icing on the cake.

LMAAAAOOO

I think this would work.

@ Sag that's a lot of effort just to get him out of my life!!! It's funny though ! Loved it !!!! Funny how our mind work hey! I might have to change my number if he doesn't stop ! I just want to be a friend... You know casually talking once every 5 months or something..! Why can't he just be cool and leave me the hell alone ! ?!?!

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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Thanks all for the input. What he's not getting is the way he still talks to me like we were together ! - that tone of voices... Words he was using etc!!! I can't be any clearer ! I was a total bitch to him on the phone ( he called me from a block number) I knew I shouldn't have picked up! *sigh* he facebooked me n I stopped replying then he wud call !!! Asking why I don't respond etc. I am going to freeze him out completely. I told him he was a good friend. It's like he's heartless! I told him I don't want anything to do with him again as I don't maintain contacts with my exs untill he's moved on with another girl or something ( I meant it) . How does one not feel hurt n was so persistent??!?!?! He said he likes being with me and talking to me. Fair enough but I can't keep contacts if he feels more for me than I do for him . I don't like hurting people n sometimes freezing him out is probably the best option . He was a good friend to have .. Thats about it. I didn't realise he was such a boy !!( 29 years old!!) no offense Virgo males:p??

have you tried being overly aggressive about wanting him back? Stalk him and watch him run for this hills. When you do come into contact with him, be the trashiest, low class, in educated flip flop you can be. Question him about his every move......beg him to talk to you.....be needy......cry about everything.....tell him you stopped bathing and have no need for soap. Lol that should work because he WILL Still contacting you the more you stop. It's weird AF but true.

Oh yeah, talk shit about his family and people close to him. That's the icing on the cake.

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That's a hilarious post. You really do know the Virgos incredibly well, amazing.