In new relationships it seems the more intense it gets the more I take and need.. Like I've heard a lot of men say "the more I give the more you take." To me... Idk what my deal is.. Insecurities, and negative thoughts and worried just flood my mind. I started a LDR with an Aries man and I am currently doing this and about to lose him... Idk what to do. Is anyone else like this— Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance??
I am impossible to please I feel like

I think it's fucking hilarious that you put the little blurb in your profile, "Virgonian goddess" .... and then the presentation of yourself is an immature, attention whoring useless female who can't get past her own insecurities to actually be someone of value to another.

That's right up there with all of the Geminis who claim everyone is jealous of them ... and then they act like pit bulls on the attack if people don't honor and agree with them.
lol
How people view themselves is obviously not even close to who they really are.
Ha I just put that cuz it sounded good whatever thanks for wasting my time lol
Posted by Ixion120Posted by ZetaroseAre you just curious if others share the same disposition as you ? Or are you looking for
In new relationships it seems the more intense it gets the more I take and need.. Like I've heard a lot of men say "the more I give the more you take." To me... Idk what my deal is.. Insecurities, and negative thoughts and worried just flood my mind. I started a LDR with an Aries man and I am currently doing this and about to lose him... Idk what to do. Is an yone else like this— Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance??click to expand
Both...🙂!
Posted by FloYa no longer now my target is Aries I thought I changed it.. I know I did idk why it's showing up Aquarius still
Hmm... Quest to figure out the Aquarian mind.
That probably won't happen, we're like a paradox..

Do you play the ukulele? You strongly remind me of a poster from a few years ago.

lol ... also, have you graduated from third grade yet?
Posted by DamnataHa! No I wish lol
Do you play the ukulele? You strongly remind me of a poster from a few years ago.
Posted by P-AngelHa! Awesome come back
lol ... also, have you graduated from third grade yet?
At least I'm not 56 and wasting someone's time by just putting them down lol.. Yea that's where I wanna be when I'm in my 50s

Not talking about YOU .. talking about the person who plays the ukulele ..... lol, what a dumbass.
Since you're that dense ... you must be Uker
Oops sorry.. Totally missed that. I really thought you were talking to me; misunderstanding. I apologize.
Posted by tizianiWell what should I do??
coupled with your other thread it actually sounds like you're a giver actually, just maybe not in relationships.

Posted by Zetarose
Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance
You can start by having a more realistic self view ...
The universe always answers you.
Nothing is enough, and constant reassurance is needed because you are believing that people are serving a "goddess" .... you believe you deserve more than you are.
So, since you have no awareness of this ... how is it that you're a god?

Or, was that suppose to be sexual?
And so you're presentation of yourself in using that word was to show everyone that you're a good piece of ass?
I AM NOT SAYING I AM A GOD!! Lol.. It just sounded good..!!! It's not to be taken serious

So are you still accusing him of cheating? I think it was you who made a thread about worrying he's gonna cheat and kept bringing it up. .

Posted by FloThe aquarius is another guy she ran off with her insecurities.
Hmm... Quest to figure out the Aquarian mind.
That probably won't happen, we're like a paradox..

Posted by P-AngelHey now!! NOT every Gemini, that's just silly. I don't think anyone is jealous of me nor am I jealous of them.
That's right up there with all of the Geminis who claim everyone is jealous of them ... and then they act like pit bulls on the attack if people don't honor and agree with them.
lol
How people view themselves is obviously not even close to who they really are.
I am much to flawed to have people thinking that I'm so great that others are jealous. LOL I don't get that mentality at all, in fact, I hate when women say "they are just jealous of you". I heard my ex say that to my daughter and had to stop him. I don't want her to walk around thinking that. :/ Just want her to love herself and not put other women down.
lol Anyways, that was my side note off the OP topic. 😛

Posted by GreenteaSounds like a self fulfilling prophecy kind of worry?
So are you still accusing him of cheating? I think it was you who made a thread about worrying he's gonna cheat and kept bringing it up. .

OP, you first have to find happiness in yourself before you can find it with someone else. I think you should do some things to work on your self esteem and learn to become confident and secure in who you are before you can be secure in a relationship. A man isn't going to do this for you. No one's going to like you until you like you.

Posted by P-AngelP is right, if you believe nothing is enough, it will never be enough. You have to adjust your thoughts and see things in a different light. What we think is what we will see and live.Posted by Zetarose
Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance
You can start by having a more realistic self view ...
The universe always answers you.
Nothing is enough, and constant reassurance is needed because you are believing that people are serving a "goddess" .... you believe you deserve more than you are.
So, since you have no awareness of this ... how is it that you're a god?
click to expand
PAngel, you're just a nasty human being, I would never take whatever you have to say at face value ...never , I can see how you kick people when they're down .....sign of a proper troll
Posted by KitMoonThank you...!!!!🙌🻊ðŸ‘
PAngel, you're just a nasty human being, I would never take whatever you have to say at face value ...never , I can see how you kick people when they're down .....sign of a proper troll
Can't agree.... not my cup of tea! Not nice, that's all, to each its own and yes life does teach us the best lesson! :*
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