Capricorn men please help.—?

Im a Virgo woman and i met this Capricorn man. He flirted with me as soon as we met. We would see each other 3 to 4 days a week but very briefly. However he continued to flirt so i finally responded to his flirting (he is very attractive btw). He backed off. Things went cold for awhile. But with us seeing each other so frequently when other guys would approach me he would run them off (staking claim??). Ive met his brother and the brother asked me out. I immediately let him know i was interested in the other. His response when asked "oh yeah this babe" while wrapping his arms around me. He is always just a phone call away when i need a friend or hug. But at times, he has this ignoring me mechanism (that gives me doubt) that throws me off.
We dont talk much on the phone. Text convos are very straight to the point and done fast. However in person, i get his undivided attention. He gives me little thoughtful friendly gifts outta the blue. And in these moments he shows me interest, tells me im beautiful, tells me "you make it hard for me to focus. You throw me off my game sitting here talking to me. Ive never had a woman do that to me."
Now, he never gives me this. He is always so calm and seem unbothered by me. We talk laugh and joke like old friends all the time, we just flirt on the side. He has asked me about having his children i didnt aggree but i didnt oppose. Its so much but so little because we dont go out together or do the dating thing. Im really interested in him. The way he carries himself, he is laid back, the way he makes me feel safe when he is around has got my attention. But we have been doing this (testing phase thing as i call it) for a bit to long i think. 8months or more.
Is this normal? Finally last week he told me he thinks of us very often and its coming soon but he has been cold as ice every since. I just dont seem to understand this style of "getting to know someone" or this way of doing things. Im so confused. If he wants to move things along why does he say it then become unresponsive? I wont tell him how i feel toward him until i know he is serious. Ive been hurt before. Its all a game to me until i know he is being sincere. And then theres that thought of i could just move on, right?

Better if you out this on the Cap board

Good idea ty.

He probably wants to run a train with his brother on you.

Basically, he thinks you're easy and simple minded.

Posted by Damnata
He probably wants to run a train with his brother on you.

Basically, he thinks you're easy and simple minded.

Thanks i thought the same thing. ‚‚‚‚. Not.

Posted by sassylady176

Posted by Damnata
He probably wants to run a train with his brother on you.

Basically, he thinks you're easy and simple minded.

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Thanks i thought the same thing. ‚‚‚‚. Not.

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Well, I do hope I am wrong. Best of luck.

Its safe to say ur wrong. His brother dates my cousin. And we would have to be sexually active to determine the "easy" part of your view and we are not. After 8months no sex "easy" doesnt apply.