JSagittarius707
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I need a Virgo Man's Opinion Please :)
also... I suppose I'm more of a now or never type of person... and I rarely slow down for anybody, esp. a man, so I also wanna know if waiting for a Virgo male is worth it or not? thanks again lols
Posted by JSagittarius707
1) how long until a virgo male feels you're "good enough" to be his gf? lols!!!
It varies naturally, but I would average 3 months.
2) do virgo males play a lot of games?
Depends on the Virgo, I believe Decan 1 Virgos (August 23rd through September 3rd are most playful.
Which decan is he?
3) how do you get a virgo to be more open?
We gradually get this way in time, hence the 3 months.
4) is it hard for you guys to be open and how long does it take for you to get there?
We are open once we are confident you will listen to what we say and not take it the wrong way.
3 months once more.
5) also... bonus question (haha)... do you guys always say what you mean when you give rare compliments? lols
We usually say what we mean and mean what we say, even oft in jest.
also... I suppose I'm more of a now or never type of person... and I rarely slow down for anybody, esp. a man, so I also wanna know if waiting for a Virgo male is worth it or not? thanks again lolsclick to expand
Depends on whether or not he is serious about you.
I have mixed memories of the Sag sun/Virgo moon females Ive met 🙂
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by JSagittarius707
1) how long until a virgo male feels you're "good enough" to be his gf? lols!!!
It varies naturally, but I would average 3 months.
2) do virgo males play a lot of games?
Depends on the Virgo, I believe Decan 1 Virgos (August 23rd through September 3rd are most playful.
Which decan is he?
3) how do you get a virgo to be more open?
We gradually get this way in time, hence the 3 months.
4) is it hard for you guys to be open and how long does it take for you to get there?
We are open once we are confident you will listen to what we say and not take it the wrong way.
3 months once more.
5) also... bonus question (haha)... do you guys always say what you mean when you give rare compliments? lols
We usually say what we mean and mean what we say, even oft in jest.
also... I suppose I'm more of a now or never type of person... and I rarely slow down for anybody, esp. a man, so I also wanna know if waiting for a Virgo male is worth it or not? thanks again lols
Depends on whether or not he is serious about you.click to expand
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Thank you for replying and his bday is Sept. 11th lols I saw him last night as a matter of fact haha but I think I can wait a few more months... HOPEFULLY lols
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I have mixed memories of the Sag sun/Virgo moon females Ive met 🙂
>>>>> Please share them with me 🙂
Posted by 25thDecan
Moonman..I agree...however...she thinks his emotional-ness is "gay". This is a HUGE problem. She is sexually attracted to the guy but emotionally, she is abusive towards him and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
If you're sleeping with a man who is homosexual then you and he are either delusional(both) or should own up to being quite happy to experiment, dig? Gay does not = show of emotion.
Cmon, now. There are robots if you don't want a human.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE IS NOT GAY!! Here in the bay we use the word gay loosely, kind of like another word for "lame." ahahhahaha!! so STFU!!! Reread your shit, you're only focusing on one negative word than the whole message. You must be a negative sign if not a virgo yourself.
Posted by MoonMan
I'm not a Virgo (obviously), but...my gut feeling, based purely on your comment is:
You two are not compatible in a serious long term relationship.
I'm thinking you like the guy and can probably see admirable
qualities in him but he's not the one for you.
You need a strong independant man who is confident within himself
and able to feel secure letting you have the freedom you seem to need.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
You're right 🙂 I'm too strong of a person to walk around with someone hella weak... lols but I wanna give him a chance just because he seems to bring out a side of me that I lack and that is an emotional side. These people seem to think that just because I'm a Sagi that I'm very insensitive but I was also raised by a man so an emotional side to me is very lacking lmao... but yeah nuff said 🙂 thank you for responding
Posted by JSagittarius707
AND SO I KNEW VIRGOS WOULD FOCUS ON ONE FUCKING WORD AND NOT THE WHOLE MESSAGE *rolls eyes* lemme give you guys a background check with FACTS so you know where the fuck I'm coming from. Lols... first of all read the whole message and don't focus on just ONE THING. Okay lets begin: yes I'm not that emotional because I was raised by a man... yeah yeah my mom wasn't around and my upbringing was like living permanently in military barracks; gay is a word that is used loosely where I'm from and can be compared to the word lame; and so he is NOT gay nor is he bisexual... clearly straight, unless virgos are known to be always gay then please share your thoughts and your FACTS lmao!! so lets focus on just the questions ... obviously I am giving this VIRGO a chance though we are NOT compatible, so we should all stay positive about it and not turn this into something absolutely negative... *sighs all I wanna know are the answers to my questions and if you guys can't see that I'm trying to RESEARCH more about YOUR SIGN, then you guys are just as lame and oblivious as he is and therefore your actions have given me more reason NOT to give him a chance if ALL virgos are answering the same lols thank you...
You asked for their opinion and now you are ranting on about the answers and insight you were given? Frankly, you sound like some psycho chick.
Posted by 25thDecan
Moonman..I agree...however...she thinks his emotional-ness is "gay". This is a HUGE problem. She is sexually attracted to the guy but emotionally, she is abusive towards him and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
If you're sleeping with a man who is homosexual then you and he are either delusional(both) or should own up to being quite happy to experiment, dig? Gay does not = show of emotion.
Cmon, now. There are robots if you don't want a human.
Ur misunderstanding her. The dudes not actually homosexual lol. She means gay (no offense) as in he get all sensitive & mushy sometimes which contradicts his statements where he doesn't want to get serious. It could just b tht virgo hypocracy u guys r known for though who knows lol
anyways I said all those things because i saw that someone else had made a topic about me as if I was crazy for what I said... just wanted to know the answers to my questions that's all 🙂 and if you think i am psycho because I think feelings are gay then okay 🙂
Posted by aquarius21Posted by 25thDecan
Moonman..I agree...however...she thinks his emotional-ness is "gay". This is a HUGE problem. She is sexually attracted to the guy but emotionally, she is abusive towards him and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
If you're sleeping with a man who is homosexual then you and he are either delusional(both) or should own up to being quite happy to experiment, dig? Gay does not = show of emotion.
Cmon, now. There are robots if you don't want a human.
Ur misunderstanding her. The dudes not actually homosexual lol. She means gay (no offense) as in he get all sensitive & mushy sometimes which contradicts his statements where he doesn't want to get serious. It could just b tht virgo hypocracy u guys r known for though who knows lolclick to expand
>>>>>>>.. THANK YOU BIFF lols
I have a virgo friend, to hear him tell it he is MADLY in love with a female companion of his. He WONT be with her because he has a lot of messes in his life that he wants to straighten up. He'll call me talking nonstop about how much he loves her and loves doing for her and hes already got her Valentine's gifts ordered, awaiting delievery. But he WONT be with her, saying with all belief, that he has nothing to offer her. I of course think hes completely insane and keep urging him to be with her....and now Im starting to think that he is using his not so perfect life as an excuse for his insecurity....this guy might be the same way, so maybe you'll have to take the lead if you DO want to be with him....but I kinda agree that if you cant respect his emotions it might not be worth it.
I think Virgos fall hard and fast, and until they get a chance to think it through logically they will send mixed messages and go back and forth. And even then when the logic and emotion battle it out, you might just be caught in the middle. truely sucks
I think Virgos fall hard and fast, and until they get a chance to think it through logically they will send mixed messages and go back and forth. And even then when the logic and emotion battle it out, you might just be caught in the middle. truely sucks
Posted by 25thDecan
Yes Fatale, you're correct. Which is why...like a true earth sign I also said this: and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
But the young one, LV, gave me a good quip. Fudge it. No advice to give. *shrug
lol well thanks just being honest.
i got new blackberry phone torch 9850 El fuego lmao.
Posted by TheLadySagittariusPosted by JSagittarius707
AND SO I KNEW VIRGOS WOULD FOCUS ON ONE FUCKING WORD AND NOT THE WHOLE MESSAGE *rolls eyes* lemme give you guys a background check with FACTS so you know where the fuck I'm coming from. Lols... first of all read the whole message and don't focus on just ONE THING. Okay lets begin: yes I'm not that emotional because I was raised by a man... yeah yeah my mom wasn't around and my upbringing was like living permanently in military barracks; gay is a word that is used loosely where I'm from and can be compared to the word lame; and so he is NOT gay nor is he bisexual... clearly straight, unless virgos are known to be always gay then please share your thoughts and your FACTS lmao!! so lets focus on just the questions ... obviously I am giving this VIRGO a chance though we are NOT compatible, so we should all stay positive about it and not turn this into something absolutely negative... *sighs all I wanna know are the answers to my questions and if you guys can't see that I'm trying to RESEARCH more about YOUR SIGN, then you guys are just as lame and oblivious as he is and therefore your actions have given me more reason NOT to give him a chance if ALL virgos are answering the same lols thank you...
You asked for their opinion and now you are ranting on about the answers and insight you were given? Frankly, you sound like some psycho chick.click to expand
hey she's not psycho. your psycho!
Posted by 25thDecan
Yes Fatale, you're correct. Which is why...like a true earth sign I also said this: and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
But the young one, LV, gave me a good quip. Fudge it. No advice to give. *shrug
no there is advice to give! it was just a misunderstanding before w/ the "gay" n homosexual thing. so if n e one has thoughts and suggestions about the virgo guy's actiongs pls share. fatale's comment was helpful.
Posted by SweetestFatale
I have a virgo friend, to hear him tell it he is MADLY in love with a female companion of his. He WONT be with her because he has a lot of messes in his life that he wants to straighten up. He'll call me talking nonstop about how much he loves her and loves doing for her and hes already got her Valentine's gifts ordered, awaiting delievery. But he WONT be with her, saying with all belief, that he has nothing to offer her. I of course think hes completely insane and keep urging him to be with her....and now Im starting to think that he is using his not so perfect life as an excuse for his insecurity....this guy might be the same way, so maybe you'll have to take the lead if you DO want to be with him....but I kinda agree that if you cant respect his emotions it might not be worth it.
I think Virgos fall hard and fast, and until they get a chance to think it through logically they will send mixed messages and go back and forth. And even then when the logic and emotion battle it out, you might just be caught in the middle. truely sucks
>>>> thank you SOOO MUCH for your input that's all i wanted 🙂 and you could be right he's mentioned that he's not where he wants to be right now but never opens up about it. I want to respect where he's coming from but he's somewhat secretive which I can understand because it's still fresh and new, I'm just wondering how long will it be like this until he really opens up and only then I can respect him more for it you know??
Posted by 25thDecanPosted by LeGendary ViRGoPosted by 25thDecan
Yes Fatale, you're correct. Which is why...like a true earth sign I also said this: and he needs to get a grip and own up to this relationship. That's worse than incompatible.
But the young one, LV, gave me a good quip. Fudge it. No advice to give. *shrug
lol well thanks just being honest.
i got new blackberry phone torch 9850 El fuego lmao.
Man...I let the colombiana at a tmobile store get in my head and took a free upgrade to a 4gslide. Every two days tmobile and droid have a glitched baby..my phone OS...lol. I....I just don't want an iPhone. I saw that southpark episode and don't read contracts fast.click to expand
i hate iphones never will follow that trend iphones are for kids i love blackberrys they are the way to go very stable and very good battery life.
Just come clean and let him know that you would appreciate him opening up about it, giving you some constancy, and call him on the mixed messages. If he really wants to continue getting to know you, then he will try to clear things up, whatever they may be.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
i hate iphones never will follow that trend iphones are for kids i love blackberrys they are the way to go very stable and very good battery life.
same here. love my blackberry 🙂 i have an itouch so i kind of get the best of both worlds. but for my cell, i prefer buttons =/
Posted by MoonManPosted by JSagittarius707
Reading some more about your upbringing sheds more light on who you are. Being raised by a single father and living permanently with a military style routine and not being able to express emotion would have a profound affect on how you process the world around you, combined with not having your mother's female energy to balance things out.
I think it is awesome that you are aware and can acknowledge how this Virgo guy brings out your sensitive/emotional side.
And how you have acknowledged within yourself that you have trouble expressing this side of you.
Whether or not the two of you hook up and get serious is completely up to you both, as well as your life circumstances at the time, regardless of your astrological sun signs, we also all have free will.
My life experience has shown me that people come into our lives for a whole range of differant reasons, we are not meant to have deep, long and enduring relationships with everyone that we meet. Sometimes we meet people because we have something to learn from them or they from us or a combination of both, then move on.
You can use the positive aspects of your hard disciplined upbringing to help you achieve what ever you want to do with your life but now the Universe is offering up a chance for you to balance this out and learn to feel some emotion & sensitivity and get in touch with your true feminine side.
However, I still stand by my comment that long term (marriage etc) you will need a strong respectfull man who is confidant within himself.
click to expand
>>> Thank you I appreciate your input 🙂
Posted by SweetestFatale
Just come clean and let him know that you would appreciate him opening up about it, giving you some constancy, and call him on the mixed messages. If he really wants to continue getting to know you, then he will try to clear things up, whatever they may be.
>>>>> Thank you 🙂 I'll take your advice into consideration
Posted by VirgoDeVille
And for the record not all of the bay area is as ignorant as to use the word "gay" loosely.
>>> Thank you for your opinion 🙂
Posted by thehealerPosted by JSagittarius707
also... I suppose I'm more of a now or never type of person... and I rarely slow down for anybody, esp. a man, so I also wanna know if waiting for a Virgo male is worth it or not? thanks again lols
u are a virgo moon. with sag sun.
i dont know i think its the only sun/virgo moon combo that is not nice lol, apart from capricorn sun/virgo moon.
i can write down what my book says about it:
sun sagittarius/moon virgo: organized thorough and often profound. Dogmatic and pompous, though somewhat afraid of strong emotion, finding heart-to-hearts threatening. tend to hide behind a mask.
virgo moons are really hard to understand, they come across as arrogant, but when you get to know them, only then you understand they are very gentle and kind hearted. the apparent arrogance comes because we tend to be analytical. so we come off as cold as we are just intellectual observers of situations, we like to make the right choice. when we get angry stay away from us, we have all the rights to be, we only raise our voice a little, so we are quite controlled individuals, (we would never harm someone when angry). however sagittarius sun is arrogant by nature. now i could expect a flexible moon like a pisces moon, to be more relaxed than a flexible analytical moon.
as a virgo moon ive never been into virgo suns, i only get v good friends with them and this happens with the males. i cant be friends with the female virgo suns. i might even like them, but they disappoint me, the sun is egocentric and the moon is eccentric. i dont know what to say to you, u dont have to slow down for anybody, this is weird because i wouldnt care less about waiting, i guess its because am an aquarius. see i cannot help you sorry lol.
i dont know sagittarius at all, we seem to be really the opposites.click to expand
>>>> this was actually very helpful, thank you. I don't see myself as arrogant at all, but all the rest I can agree with. My bff is an aquarius, we are opps, but we are very much alike in a sense maybe because I have an aquarius Mars. Hmmm... I don't plan on waiting for him afterall. Not after seeing that they only focus on one thing and not everything as a whole. It's okay though, I'm not surprised at all. Just extra confirmation.
If he want to be with you he will, he he doesn't he won't. You want a commitment & he want sex! He is sending you mixed messages on purpose. If you don't like being toyed, call him out on it! Better yet distance yourself from the mixed messages. If he come back apologizing, he know what he is doing. Just keep your options open to let him know you aren't tolerating or settling with his BS!
IMO, you will have to take charge but not initially. Let him make up his mind about being official first. Virgo men stay bottled up but listen to him, don't interupt him & be attentive. Don't respond while he is talking just let him talk. When he is done, respond bluntly.
I his own words/actions, it sound like he is letting you know he want sex without a commitment. It is your call but for me a few mixed signals will make me stop everything (sex, calling, texting) and tell him I don't have room for no male friends in my life. You either want me or you don't & I cannot sit on hold waiting around for you. I can move on, let what has happened stand "as is" & give my time and energy to a man who want me. I don't want to be with no man who don't want to be with me. I would put him on the back burner & let him chase until he start talking commitment!
He can hear those words loud & clear. Add it with distance & no contact, he wil start talking right!
IMO, you will have to take charge but not initially. Let him make up his mind about being official first. Virgo men stay bottled up but listen to him, don't interupt him & be attentive. Don't respond while he is talking just let him talk. When he is done, respond bluntly.
I his own words/actions, it sound like he is letting you know he want sex without a commitment. It is your call but for me a few mixed signals will make me stop everything (sex, calling, texting) and tell him I don't have room for no male friends in my life. You either want me or you don't & I cannot sit on hold waiting around for you. I can move on, let what has happened stand "as is" & give my time and energy to a man who want me. I don't want to be with no man who don't want to be with me. I would put him on the back burner & let him chase until he start talking commitment!
He can hear those words loud & clear. Add it with distance & no contact, he wil start talking right!
I'm a virgo born on the same date as your SO (or should I just O, lol).
We do not have "just relationships" as many others seem to have. If I've been with someone for a few weeks, I start to already think of the way long term, as in marriage and children. The insecurity stems from the fact that we are unsure the partner is the one. I was in a relationship with a Taurus for 2 years and I wasn't sure that she is the one, obviously it ended. It ended because I didn't see spending the rest of my life with her, not because there was something seriously wrong with us.
We virgos should really try to loosen up and go with the flow, have fun. It's close to impossible to do that but should do it anyway. Anyway, I dislike most virgos myself. We are not meant for relationships, it's probably because the geminis are meant to have 2 wives and 0 for us virgos, so it's all mathematically sound 🙂
We do not have "just relationships" as many others seem to have. If I've been with someone for a few weeks, I start to already think of the way long term, as in marriage and children. The insecurity stems from the fact that we are unsure the partner is the one. I was in a relationship with a Taurus for 2 years and I wasn't sure that she is the one, obviously it ended. It ended because I didn't see spending the rest of my life with her, not because there was something seriously wrong with us.
We virgos should really try to loosen up and go with the flow, have fun. It's close to impossible to do that but should do it anyway. Anyway, I dislike most virgos myself. We are not meant for relationships, it's probably because the geminis are meant to have 2 wives and 0 for us virgos, so it's all mathematically sound 🙂
If you don't want an emotional guy, keep away from him. We don't get emotional, open up all that easily and if we feel that we got a cold reception, we will distance ourselves.
Virgos are soft as guys if we care about someone, some like it and most don't.
Virgos are soft as guys if we care about someone, some like it and most don't.
My babydad is born on sept 11th I'm also a saggi we got along well, he was always honest with me. We were always together and we still talk like good friends now! Most my relationships long term have been with virgos . I jus attract them I suppose lol
"my babydad"? Why can't people speak like they at least have a high school education - unless, of course, they don't...
Posted by sv
I'm a virgo born on the same date as your SO (or should I just O, lol).
We virgos should really try to loosen up and go with the flow, have fun. It's close to impossible to do that but should do it anyway.
Impossible? Are you serious? What stick up the ass Virgos have you been dealing with...fun is my middle name. 😄
I'm currently in uni studying to become a psychologist thank you for that comment though, glad to know we still have ignorant people who like to comment on people they know nothing about
Posted by RealTalkPosted by sv
I'm a virgo born on the same date as your SO (or should I just O, lol).
We virgos should really try to loosen up and go with the flow, have fun. It's close to impossible to do that but should do it anyway.
Impossible? Are you serious? What stick up the ass Virgos have you been dealing with...fun is my middle name. 😄click to expand
REAL TALK————? is your message thingy working? I been sending you messages....*clears throat* oops sorry i didn't mean to derail this thread...Continue with your post. Bye
Posted by sv
If you don't want an emotional guy, keep away from him. We don't get emotional, open up all that easily and if we feel that we got a cold reception, we will distance ourselves.
Virgos are soft as guys if we care about someone, some like it and most don't.
I think you are dead wrong about Virgos.....oh yeah...dead wrong...*smh*
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*shrugs* lols but every time I try to stop seeing him -- because lets face it Sagi's have no patience and I'm not one to stick around if you're telln me you want nothing more than what we're doing now -- he keeps coming back like a sad puppy dog full of affection and lots of staring and all emotional and whatnot telln' me that he doesn't want to stop seeing me lols then turns around and says he wants a gf in the future but not now. And so once again I've found myself giving him another chance because I feel there may be potential here... but patience is something I lack... soOoOOo....
So I guess this might be a stupid question, but how long does it take for a Virgo to figure out if he wants you to be his gf or not? It's not like I want it all right now, but I don't like games either... do Virgo's play a lot of games? What I feel is lacking in this "friendship" is good conversation, I like to talk and I get bored easily if a person isn't as open as I am... Yes I know it's only been a lil over a month, but just curious as to what exactly I'm getting in to...so here are the following questions I would like answered:
1) how long until a virgo male feels you're "good enough" to be his gf? lols!!!
2) do virgo males play a lot of games?
3) how do you get a virgo to be more open?
4) is it hard for you guys to be open and how long does it take for you to get there?
5) also... bonus question (haha)... do you guys always say what you mean when you give rare compliments? lols
Thank you in advance 🙂