How to maintain Virguy's love interest ..

21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

As with all good things...always in moderation.

@TenaciousVirgo

16 Years

I agree with Let*It*Be...

@P-Angel

Posted by onix

...like texting him 'missing you' several times a day, being bit clingy etc .... and he said 'gimme a break baby'... then again doing his disappearing acts !

So before I do anymore mistake I would like to know -

Stupid people just grate on my very last nerve .. seriously.

He tells you to give him a break, and you obviously know this break entails you suffocating him with clinging because you stated this as the reason why he tells you to give him some room.

So, are you ignoring that on purpose because you like drama?

Or, are you really this ignorant?

You come here to say you don't want to make this mistake again .. knowing full well what mistake was.

fuck ..... I'm hoping like hell you are just having a brain fart, and not really that fucking stupid .. seriously

@TheLadySagittarius

Posted by onix
Hello friends! Hope you all had an wonderful Christmas 🙂

All your suggestions, opinions, info's & explanations have helped me a lot in getting back to good terms with my virguy.... so a big Thank U !

But I think am behaving too excited after getting back his love ...like texting him 'missing you' several times a day, being bit clingy etc .... and he said 'gimme a break baby'... then again doing his disappearing acts !

So before I do anymore mistake I would like to know -

if being too mushy or lovey-dovey would turn him off ?
and how to maintain a Virgo's love interest for long ?

Find a guy who loves you being "clingy" and wants you for yourself. The fact that he "disappears" is not good. You deserve better.

@lildol

16 Years5,000+ Posts

Onix, you have been being rather needy all along and the only purpose that serves is to push the Virgo away. Your need for constant reassurance and attention is not likely to change anytime soon. Part ways with the Virgo and find yourself a Leo who will be more attentive and will be more apt to embrace your doting.

@onix

Thanks friends for your opinions ... I think I need to be more patient ...

Posted by onix

But I think am behaving too excited after getting back his love ...like texting him 'missing you' several times a day, being bit clingy etc .... and he said 'gimme a break baby'... then again doing his disappearing acts !

STOP. IT. NOW. If a guy texted me "missing you" several times a day...I'd think he was a fucking lunatic. Even if I were head over heels in love with him, that would irritate the shit out of me. It's like, get a life already! Don't ever do that again, please. You're projecting neediness onto him & I can assure you he's not a fan.

If things are going smoothly again, don't screw it up by being too "in his face". Not literally, but you get the gist of what I mean. Stop giving too much & start getting much.

*much

Oh & BTW, just because most Virgos disappear, it doesn't mean we don't care or we're not thinking of you. Hell, I can speak for myself. Sometimes I'm guilty of that but it doesn't mean I don't love the person I'm with any less.

You have to understand that people have lives. Work, school, children, social, errands, hobbies, time to yourself, whatever. Time apart really helps the relationship in the long run. Who the hell wants to be with someone ALL the damn time...seriously?

@lindavi20

Anytime a virgo feels pushed, they will back away from the person. We are hard to truly catch, but love unconditionally once caught.

Posted by lindavi20
Anytime a virgo feels pushed, they will back away from the person. We are hard to truly catch, but love unconditionally once caught.

This here. Indeed.

Posted by onix
Thanks friends for your opinions ... I think I need to be more patient ...

Yes you do. Mine can be that way and i give it to him without hesitation. But the minute *I* need space, he's all over it. LOL Mine is more clingy now. Needy in his own way and its ok.

And you will know if he truly CARES what you think and how you feelbecause he will show it. One night I was not in a particular good mood and called him out on something and then ignored his ass. He could have said, "FU" and had a big fight later. But instead he showed up at my house, hugged me, made love to me and said, "I love you" and that was the end of that. He knew i needed him and he was there.

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by lindavi20
Anytime a virgo feels pushed, they will back away from the person. We are hard to truly catch, but love unconditionally once caught.

This here. Indeed.

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Agree!

@brianodom

simply let him know periodically you value him.

Posted by DeadRingerr
You're the ignorant one,,inablitiy to be mutable, you ain't no Pisces😉

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! No she's a fish, but it's fried. 😉

Posted by capbaby

Posted by onix
Thanks friends for your opinions ... I think I need to be more patient ...

Yes you do. Mine can be that way and i give it to him without hesitation. But the minute *I* need space, he's all over it. LOL Mine is more clingy now. Needy in his own way and its ok.

And you will know if he truly CARES what you think and how you feelbecause he will show it. One night I was not in a particular good mood and called him out on something and then ignored his ass. He could have said, "FU" and had a big fight later. But instead he showed up at my house, hugged me, made love to me and said, "I love you" and that was the end of that. He knew i needed him and he was there.

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Awwwwwwww!!!

@onix

@RealTalk : Thanks dear, I understand that patience is very important. Actually since its the festive sesaon I was expecting to spend a li'l more time with him ... may be I was unknowingly pushing him ... now I have to slow down.
I really dont want to push him away again in this process ....

@ lindavi20 : Right dear

@capbaby : Thanks dear, your Virguy sounds sweet ! I love this caring nature of Virgo.

@DeadRingerr : Thanks friend .... you know why.... Lol

and thanks to everyone here.... to help me understand 🙂

@risphoenix

Hi everybody im a newbie...but I learned that a man if he really cares and loves u for u then he will accept your ways... no matter if you are a lil clingy at times..to me that just shows just like how u said that your excited and happy that he is around...he should appreciate that at all times ..just my thought

IB..mine said that the other day after a long talk about..stuff. LOL

I rarely text first either..I'm a Cap and we dont cling..usually.

Yes but many can't handle them. *I* think other earth signs can understand them the best.

Mine went from the push-pull, doing his own thing, etc to cling, asking me if this and that was ok, etc. IMO, that comes with trust and eventually love and respect that takes time for them, especially if they have been hurt or used by others in the past.

@PlanetMercuryGirl

I know that I'm way late but if you are a little too clingy it might make your Virgo guy feel like your desperate. Virgos are not known for being mushy. Well at least not all of the time. My question is, why would you text him all day telling him that you miss him over and over again? He's probably thinking, "You're my woman, I will see you soon. What's the big deal?" Although we're not mushy, Virgos can sometimes be overly interested in someone BUT they know how to balance themselves so that they don't smother the other. Your guy disappears because he is annoyed. It's happened to me before. I was dating a guy once and he texted me from the moment I gave him my number. After about ten texts I became annoyed. It was constant. He kept saying the same things. It got to a point that I would look at my phone, see that it was him, roll my eyes and put my phone back in my pocket. I just wouldn't answer until way later. (Shrugs shoulders) Could be what your guy is doing.