I'd like your opinion about this Virgo gentleman

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Caprecious
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Hey guys, new here! 😄

I signed up because I'm dealing with a Virgo man for the first time, I am a Capricorn woman!

So the thing is, we met through Facebook, apparently we had mutual friends and he sent me a friend request which I accepted and after a while he messaged me in order to congratulate me for something and we started talking. It went pretty well, I am always very polite etc and he messaged me again a few weeks after saying that he would like to meet me. We live a few hours away and due to his very demanding job it's kinda hard for us to meet in person (as for now). However, this whole time (a month + now) we talk a lot and he has started to become gradually more and more expressive and interested. I am extremely flattered and everything, but I also have to admit that he kind "scares me off" sometimes. He's older than me and seems sure and straight-forward, which my Cap-Scorpio self appreciates, but at the same time scares me.

He's Virgo everything, expect his moon which is in Capricorn. I set my boundaries and he got the message that sometimes he comes off strong, when it comes to his approach and he told me that he doesn't wanna scare me off or anything, but it's how he feels.

How should I play it from this point on? No lie, I can't wait to meet him.

Thank you and cheers!
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Caprecious
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Posted by capitalism2020

When are Capricorns scared off by straight-forwardness.

Would you rather him play games?


Thank you capitalism2020 (cool nickname), I'm not scared off so much by his straight-forwardness, but merely by the fact that we haven't met yet and my past relationships were ALL Leos, I've been burned a lot by grand words and little action or flakiness. That's why his approach scares me, in a good way. I don't want to show him anything, I try to be as cool and collected as I am generally.
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Caprecious
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Posted by LadyNeptune

How are you communicating atm.

FB messages? Texts? Facetime/skye?


Hey LadyNeptune, through FB messages (sometimes voice messages, I guess to warm up on each other). He may send me pics of himself (not sexual of course), but I am more hesitant. I need to meet him in order to open up! We have a good communication, but we haven't really talked for important subjects yet, as we want to keep that for when we meet in person. And I prefer that I say I am not that fond of texting.
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pisceanloves
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The same story - different man LOL

That's how I met my Virgo. He's all virgo as well except sag moon. He found me on FB 2 years ago, we hit it off right away and started talking almost all day everyday. We were off for some time and reconnected again in January. But I could tell something had shifted, we got very close gradually, lots of video chats and I just met him on 16th for the first time. I'll never forget the minute I first saw him IRL. Little awkwardness accompanied with the greeting, my goodness lol even though we've become so close way prior to meeting, still it was awkward. Can't tell if we shook hands or not, I don't quite remember but I know we didn't hug, I told him I would and to be prepared but oh girl it was awkward and I just couldn't do it. I asked for it later and he gave me a tight teddy bear hug lol

I flew to South and he picked me up at the airport and we spent an amazing weekend together. We went out to see the town, nice dinner, drinks and lots of talking. He is amazing, he is everything a woman (I) would want to. I don't have any expectations to be honest, I'm taking it slow but truth to be told I want this man, I always wanted him once I got to know him, we made it that far tho and I know he won't give up on me and I won't on him. The rest doesn't matter, we will figure it out lol