I met this virgo back in January we were talking on and off for 6 months. When we first met we talked for a few days and made plans to meet up. He Stood me up and dissapeared for a month! He came back at the beginning of march and said he missed our convos and he went MIA because he got a new phone and deleted the app we used to talk on. We started talking again. We met up finally about 2 weeks later and spent some time together. We instantly clicked watched tv talked cuddled and made out and it got intimate (raunchy) in his dorm lol. After that night he got distant but still initiated contact. We were talking to other people as well which was cool. Then he disappeared and came back on and off for about a month which was so annoying. I asked if we could hangout again on a date he said yes but he had a meet and stood me up again so we just chilled in his dorm again. We got intimate again and we were really into each other. I spent the night in his dorm. he told me he wanted me to meet his friends and w/e and he kept thinking about me.I thought things were about to kick off for us. Then he got wrapped up in someone else and got distant with me again. I wrote a letter telling him how i felt about him and he barely gave me a response. I brushed it off and cut him off. 2 weeks later out of nowhere he tells me he loves me. We start talking again, i meet his friends. Then i back off a bit to analyze things. He asks me where ive been after 3 days, i ask him out and we start dating and i meet his parents and family . It was beautiful until he got a job at a bank. He's a busy guy , and so am i. Things started to get boring and he got distant again started ignoring me for no reason . He stopped putting in effort for our relationship and made me feel like shit. I told him he was being rude and id give him space and he dumps me the next day through texts saying he cares for me but he needs to work on "his self". i told him to take care of himself and that i was hurt and angry but i forgive him. a few days later he tells me "im stupid for leaving u.." i ask "y did u?" and he said "because im stupid" i said i miss him and he needed to make up his mind if he really wanted to be with me or not and stop toying with me. he doesnt respond. its been a week and a half since the break up. I deleted his number , deleted him off FB and every social network we shared. threw out his belongings the day he broke it off. but my curiosity told me to check something. turns out he has a
