I'm probably not going to like this...

I commented something about keeping him forever... he in turn said he would allow no other woman to 'keep him' again, he did that once. (although) I can be with him forever... I was like, "isn't the that the same thing", "sorta" he says "but, not the same". WHAT? Guys, put a spin on this for me... please 🙂

Sounds like a control issue. You still get what you want, but only on his terms. Maybe he felt out of control of his emotions with the other woman. We all know the Virgo man hates to be out of control of those emotions now don't we?

it's like the difference between being with someone because you have to vs being with them because you want to.

in other words, if you let yourself go and start treating him like shit, he's not gonna stick around out of some sense of duty. he'll move on to greener pastures.

Posted by curious visitor.

in other words, if you let yourself go and start treating him like shit, he's not gonna stick around out of some sense of duty. he'll move on to greener pastures.

I like that interpretation.