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Is he backing off?
i would ask
Posted by yupvirgo
You should ask him.
I've been thinking about it and yes, I would ask him as soon as we go back to texting more often as we used to and maybe also after we have 2 months talking, so far what we have is like 6 weeks.
What I did was text him, we chatted normal and I told him I felt him a bit aloof. He said 'he has just been busy 🙂 and he was sorry he made feel that way (more emojis of flowers).
Was wondering if everything was ok cause he normally texts, this would be first time :-/
Posted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
Posted by Teteim afraid virgos are no good for anything. sorry thats what they allPosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
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say you know.
LDR are a big no no for me , I dated a Gemini guy , and in the beginning it was good because we lived in the same town , once I moved out to a new place , I was only able to keep the relationship for a few months. It's just not for me . But by your description of this guy's behaviour it seems that he cares about you. Hope that everything goes well with you guys x
Posted by OneJupiterWayThis statement is not true at all. Many of us might not be the greatest when it comes to romantic relationships , however we have got many other valuable qualities!Posted by Teteim afraid virgos are no good for anything. sorry thats what they allPosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
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Posted by VirgoscentThanks for your comment 🙂. It make sense, tho this was the deal since day one and that's way I wanted to visit as soon as possible, which is dec.... then see how things go and make a plan. My Virgo moon, and many others Virgo placement makes me super practical too, so a LDR without a plan would last for me just for a few months as well.
LDR are a big no no for me , I dated a Gemini guy , and in the beginning it was good because we lived in the same town , once I moved out to a new place , I was only able to keep the relationship for a few months. It's just not for me . But by your description of this guy's behaviour it seems that he cares about you. Hope that everything goes well with you guys x
Even tho he has replied nicely, he is not initiating as usual and he is getting online. So I don't understand, is this the typical pull/push virgos treat?
Posted by ChantillyThanks Chantilly 🙂. I've never nag at him.... yet.... I did asked him about his aloofness, as he said he was just busy, now I will back off and give him space.
I wanted to add that he must like you a good deal to stick around for this long. Don't I've him a reason to not like you eg. nag at him about how often texting etccc. Because in his mind long distance might not be a big deal until you turn it to a negative for him.
Posted by TetePosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
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In your expirience with virgos, should I just be normal when he decides to reach out again? Or be distant?
He has never played the pull and push thing, he is not the most expressive dude, but he has never gone ignoring me.
Could it be that he met someone?
Posted by ChantillyThe talk about relocating would be to soon to have, we only spent 12 days together and have been talking for over 6 weeks....
I think it's a possibility that he might be wandering off to other people. Because you and I both know if there's only one person he's talking to... well then there's no reason to ignore you.
With that said, December is coming up. If you'd still like to see him, when he reaches out to you, I would respond with usual nice demeanour. The point is to observe what's happening and trust your guts. He might be putting you on the back burner while still out hunting on the market.
I have to say though, it might be a more of a fun mutual attraction you share at the moment. Otherwise, he should have initiated the talk for you to relocate already. But I also think, if you make it to December, you and him will know where each other stand for sure.Posted by TetePosted by ChantillyThanks Chantilly 🙂. I've never nag at him.... yet.... I did asked him about his aloofness, as he said he was just busy, now I will back off and give him space.
I wanted to add that he must like you a good deal to stick around for this long. Don't I've him a reason to not like you eg. nag at him about how often texting etccc. Because in his mind long distance might not be a big deal until you turn it to a negative for him.
Posted by TetePosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
In your expirience with virgos, should I just be normal when he decides to reach out again? Or be distant?
He has never played the pull and push thing, he is not the most expressive dude, but he has never gone ignoring me.
Could it be that he met someone?
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My guts are telling me that he is wandering off 😢 so play it nice and still keep my hopes up for dec its going to be not possible for me.
But hey, whether i like it or not he has every right to keep finding someone, im just not one to stay around while he does.
Not sure if i should address it with him, after all, and even when i like to imagine it, we are not a couple 😢
Posted by VirgoscentI know we do.Posted by OneJupiterWayThis statement is not true at all. Many of us might not be the greatest when it comes to romantic relationships , however we have got many other valuable qualities!Posted by Teteim afraid virgos are no good for anything. sorry thats what they allPosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
say you know.
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Posted by OneJupiterWayYes you do, virgos have many nice qualities!Posted by VirgoscentI know we do.Posted by OneJupiterWayThis statement is not true at all. Many of us might not be the greatest when it comes to romantic relationships , however we have got many other valuable qualities!Posted by Teteim afraid virgos are no good for anything. sorry thats what they allPosted by ChantillyI was afraid virgos would be no good for LDR 😢. I can not see him until Dec.... also why I wonder why he stayed around for this long :-/
Honestly I think he likes you and you're right that virgos are very practical and therefore not good for long distance relationship. I think closing in the distance will be good for a chance to become exclusive. Otherwise I think Virgo can only keep up the texting for so long. They do enjoy their own space and can seem like " disappearing " but really just enjoying own time.
say you know.
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This one seem really nice, I'm quiet puzzled about him stopping contact out of the blue.... he was sweet as usual few days ago.... he has been distant, but never stopped contact.
Question, could it be that he was just texting for my attention? And just playing around with me?
How long did he stop contact?
Did he let you know ahead of time he would not be talking to you?
Did he let you know ahead of time he would not be talking to you?
Well you say he has been distant but still keep in touch. So if he did then I would not worry.
Virgos can do ldr so dont believe all the bad stuff.
Whats this dudes chart look like?
Virgos can do ldr so dont believe all the bad stuff.
Whats this dudes chart look like?
If your going to need to be unavailable for a day or so, let him know.
Dont play that stupid game of waiting on him to contact you. No need for that childish stuff.
You as a gem girl are hesitant until your sure but don't procrastinate.
I send more texts and emails than ten virgos together can per
day.
Dont play that stupid game of waiting on him to contact you. No need for that childish stuff.
You as a gem girl are hesitant until your sure but don't procrastinate.
I send more texts and emails than ten virgos together can per
day.
Posted by OneJupiterWayHi onewayjupiter thanks for your inputs! I appreciate them very much.
Well you say he has been distant but still keep in touch. So if he did then I would not worry.
Virgos can do ldr so dont believe all the bad stuff.
Whats this dudes chart look like?
Ok, So about his chart, if I have all the info correct he is Virgo sun, Scorpio rising (me too), Scorpio Venus and libra moon.
That's right, this would be his first time going a full day without contact, he has been online tho, and yesterday it was me initiating. And no, he didn't mention he was going to get busy this time.
Im doing my best to not get into any games, yet I don't want to start chasing him neither. In case he is busy he can sort his things out and I'll be here, If he is into his head, same thing.
Oh and we have been talking for 6/7 weeks now.
The talk about relocating would be to soon to have, we only spent 12 days together and have been talking for over 6 weeks....
My guts are telling me that he is wandering off 😢 so play it nice and still keep my hopes up for dec its going to be not possible for me.
But hey, whether i like it or not he has every right to keep finding someone, im just not one to stay around while he does.
Not sure if i should address it with him, after all, and even when i like to imagine it, we are not a couple 😢
Your gut is right. He is wandering off. LDR is hard and Virgo's are nothing if not practical, why wait until December to see someone, when you can find someone closer??
But don't worry if you're happy to wait he will start initiating after a couple of months if you don't contact him. Then it's like a repetitive cycle all over again...this was what happen to me.
I would move on, honestly it's not worth the time.
Posted by TeteA virgo that really likes you will let you know whats going on with him. When he want be able to talk to you he will let you know. That would apply ifPosted by OneJupiterWayHi onewayjupiter thanks for your inputs! I appreciate them very much.
Well you say he has been distant but still keep in touch. So if he did then I would not worry.
Virgos can do ldr so dont believe all the bad stuff.
Whats this dudes chart look like?
Ok, So about his chart, if I have all the info correct he is Virgo sun, Scorpio rising (me too), Scorpio Venus and libra moon.
That's right, this would be his first time going a full day without contact, he has been online tho, and yesterday it was me initiating. And no, he didn't mention he was going to get busy this time.
Im doing my best to not get into any games, yet I don't want to start chasing him neither. In case he is busy he can sort his things out and I'll be here, If he is into his head, same thing.
Oh and we have been talking for 6/7 weeks now.
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he is only wanting to see you and said that. So if you want him in that way, speak up now.
Posted by TeteSorry - it's a definite red flag when someone goes online and not making contact.Posted by OneJupiterWayHi onewayjupiter thanks for your inputs! I appreciate them very much.
Well you say he has been distant but still keep in touch. So if he did then I would not worry.
Virgos can do ldr so dont believe all the bad stuff.
Whats this dudes chart look like?
Ok, So about his chart, if I have all the info correct he is Virgo sun, Scorpio rising (me too), Scorpio Venus and libra moon.
That's right, this would be his first time going a full day without contact, he has been online tho, and yesterday it was me initiating. And no, he didn't mention he was going to get busy this time.
Im doing my best to not get into any games, yet I don't want to start chasing him neither. In case he is busy he can sort his things out and I'll be here, If he is into his head, same thing.
Oh and we have been talking for 6/7 weeks now.
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If you're initiating now, you'll always be doing it.
Try it.. don't make any more contact and see if comes back, bear in mind that if he does, it will be a repetitive cycle of contact/no contact.
Like others are saying, just ask.
But do it in person when you see him in December. I'd wait until the end of your trip, see how things go. See if it's as you remembered.
But do it in person when you see him in December. I'd wait until the end of your trip, see how things go. See if it's as you remembered.
You like him. But you don't really know him. December is a month and a half away. Utilize this time to get to know him a little better. Schedule a time to skype so you can talk everyday, even if it's only 30mins. Grow your friendship with him.
When you see each other in December you can decide whether you want to pursue an exclusive relationship long distance.
When you see each other in December you can decide whether you want to pursue an exclusive relationship long distance.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy bother? Go with your gut instinct. Don't go there in December just so you can ask him, unless you have a reason to be there.
Like others are saying, just ask.
But do it in person when you see him in December. I'd wait until the end of your trip, see how things go. See if it's as you remembered.
If he's not making any effort now then waiting until December isn't going to help.
But that's my experience with a LDR with the ex Virgo. He would keep a cycle of contact/no contact.. then come visit each December declaring his love and his intentions, marriage etc.. Christmas last year he was stalking me everytime I took my dog for a walk and keeps sending me messages and saying it was my fault that I didn't take more of a risk for us to be together etc..
I told him I've got a boyfriend and I'm off limits and he was like my new boyfriend is my second choice that he was my first choice and that I wont have the same connection with my new guy that I've had with him .. etc.. and if I change my mind to to let him know. LMAO
I don't want to sound negative but wish you luck with your Virgo and hope that you're experience is nothing like mine xx
Based upon what your saying he already confirmed he has been distracted (aka busy). However, without knowing all the details (who, what, and why) it's unfair to you or him to assume there is another woman.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
Posted by Loubrahere you go gem. nothing wrong with asking when you guys talk.
Based upon what your saying he already confirmed he has been distracted (aka busy). However, without knowing all the details (who, what, and why) it's unfair to you or him to assume there is another woman.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
smart women above.
Posted by Pisces1803Your situation is ENTIRELY different than the Op's. She hasn't spent that much time with him. Several amazing days isn't enough for anyone to commit.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy bother? Go with your gut instinct. Don't go there in December just so you can ask him, unless you have a reason to be there.
Like others are saying, just ask.
But do it in person when you see him in December. I'd wait until the end of your trip, see how things go. See if it's as you remembered.
If he's not making any effort now then waiting until December isn't going to help.
But that's my experience with a LDR with the ex Virgo. He would keep a cycle of contact/no contact.. then come visit each December declaring his love and his intentions, marriage etc.. Christmas last year he was stalking me everytime I took my dog for a walk and keeps sending me messages and saying it was my fault that I didn't take more of a risk for us to be together etc..
I told him I've got a boyfriend and I'm off limits and he was like my new boyfriend is my second choice that he was my first choice and that I wont have the same connection with my new guy that I've had with him .. etc.. and if I change my mind to to let him know. LMAO
I don't want to sound negative but wish you luck with your Virgo and hope that you're experience is nothing like mine xx
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So advising her to give up on what could be, eventually, a promising relationship because he went from texting her every day to every few days seems premature on your part.
Posted by OneJupiterWayWow, thank you guys for your helpful and rational advise, I think it is a good idea to address this as soon as we chat. As I was the one who initiated last couple of times and he said he was busy I'll try to be patient and wait for him to contact, he is supposed to start his work week today, that hasn't stopped him from contacting me before, but if he doesn't in the next couple of days I will reach out and speak up my mind.Posted by Loubrahere you go gem. nothing wrong with asking when you guys talk.
Based upon what your saying he already confirmed he has been distracted (aka busy). However, without knowing all the details (who, what, and why) it's unfair to you or him to assume there is another woman.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
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Still, he being online and not reaching out has me worried as that means he is deciding not to Contact, and that is way I don't feel like chasing him.
And yes, is not fair that I accuse him about anything, and my guts has been wrong before. Hope this is the case.
Could this be the so much mentioned before Virgo pull?
Posted by TeteNo such thing as this push and pull ot hot n cold. Its either on / off.Posted by OneJupiterWayWow, thank you guys for your helpful and rational advise, I think it is a good idea to address this as soon as we chat. As I was the one who initiated last couple of times and he said he was busy I'll try to be patient and wait for him to contact, he is supposed to start his work week today, that hasn't stopped him from contacting me before, but if he doesn't in the next couple of days I will reach out and speak up my mind.Posted by Loubrahere you go gem. nothing wrong with asking when you guys talk.
Based upon what your saying he already confirmed he has been distracted (aka busy). However, without knowing all the details (who, what, and why) it's unfair to you or him to assume there is another woman.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
smart women above.
Still, he being online and not reaching out has me worried as that means he is deciding not to Contact, and that is way I don't feel like chasing him.
And yes, is not fair that I accuse him about anything, and my guts has been wrong before. Hope this is the case.
Could this be the so much mentioned before Virgo pull?
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A virgo that likes you will always let you know whats going on. He will always share everything with you. He will always go everywhere with you and you him.
even @p-angel would agree to that.
@cheekyfaerie @somewhatofamermaid also. a few more here too.
sometimes they are a bit shy to respond. they like to keep tthe virgo secrets.
sometimes they are a bit shy to respond. they like to keep tthe virgo secrets.
opps i spelled the pisces name wrong sorry
Posted by OneJupiterWayWell, apparently he went MIA... not even online today... so that means off I believe.Posted by TeteNo such thing as this push and pull ot hot n cold. Its either on / off.Posted by OneJupiterWayWow, thank you guys for your helpful and rational advise, I think it is a good idea to address this as soon as we chat. As I was the one who initiated last couple of times and he said he was busy I'll try to be patient and wait for him to contact, he is supposed to start his work week today, that hasn't stopped him from contacting me before, but if he doesn't in the next couple of days I will reach out and speak up my mind.Posted by Loubrahere you go gem. nothing wrong with asking when you guys talk.
Based upon what your saying he already confirmed he has been distracted (aka busy). However, without knowing all the details (who, what, and why) it's unfair to you or him to assume there is another woman.
If it concerns you, then bring it to his attention. Virgo's appreciate directness as long as it doesn't come across as accusatory or threatening. There is nothing wrong with asking him what his thoughts are about LDRs and whether he considers you two to be in an LDR with an exclusive commitment.
Personally, I would bring it up as a general conversation to understand his thought process because you two have just met and still need time to learn each other before setting relationship boundaries. At least this way you can gain an understanding of what is ahead of you.
smart women above.
Still, he being online and not reaching out has me worried as that means he is deciding not to Contact, and that is way I don't feel like chasing him.
And yes, is not fair that I accuse him about anything, and my guts has been wrong before. Hope this is the case.
Could this be the so much mentioned before Virgo pull?
A virgo that likes you will always let you know whats going on. He will always share everything with you. He will always go everywhere with you and you him.
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Anyways I sent him a message letting him know I miss hearing from him and that I hope everything is ok. I'm not playing games with him, my interest is honest.
Now it is up to him to come back, I hope he does with all my heart... but if he doesn't, there is nothing I can do other to wish him the best and that he finds all the happiness he deserves.
So Mr.V texted 🙂
He explained his week has been hell/busy working long hrs, and apologized for no making time to text and said he will try harder to do so. And asking about how was I doing 🙂
It was so nice to hear from him and I appreciate very much his explanation.
Anyways, I hope everything goes back to normal after his busy time slows down 🙂
He explained his week has been hell/busy working long hrs, and apologized for no making time to text and said he will try harder to do so. And asking about how was I doing 🙂
It was so nice to hear from him and I appreciate very much his explanation.
Anyways, I hope everything goes back to normal after his busy time slows down 🙂
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So i met this Virgo last august on a trip i made. I met him online the day i got there and we saw each other everyday until my last day around, He was really nice, and he took me everywhere and showed me around. He would pick me up everytime, 20 mins drive, and then go take me back. He did that also on his work days, he work 12hrs straight.Even tho he is the shyest guy ive ever met, he made sure to let me know he liked me lots, that im awesome and that it was just his luck, met an amazing girl who was going to go away. still he said he was going to make the best out of the time we have together. So we did. He is also slow moving, as ive read about virgos, so we kissed after the 3rd day and got intimate after the 5th, I liked that, cause im always rushing stuff and ruining them.
In our last day together i asked him what was going to happened between us and he said he will def stay in touch and i told him i would go back visiting in Dec if he was ok with it, He was happy about it. So after i left he has texted everyday, he is normally the one to initiate (no word from him today tho, and he has been texting less since last sunday).Yesterday he wished me a good day, calling me Beautiful as he normally does,he also calls me Hun and Babe sometimes. He tells me that he misses me lots, send me pics of him, of his son, and landscapes (he is very outdoorsy), asked me about my things and project, compliment me, etc. We talk about my visit, he says he is trying to take time off work cause otherwise we will only be off for one week, i thought he was bailing me out, but he said that he REALLY (he used caption in the text) wants to see me.
I have the impression tho that he might be still dating (when we met he said he was looking for someone to share his life with), which i can understand even if thats a red flag for me, cause we are not exclusive and he sure could have doubts about me and us due long distance. Would it be a good idea to ask him?
I have Virgo Moon, so i can understand how analytical virgo can get, and practical, so i thought about hearing some options before i run and back off myself. And in case i do, what would be the best way to do it? Should i talk to him or just leave things like this?