@LilYanga11
9 Years
Why You Always Hatin?
Why Are Virgos Often Misunderstood and Hated
Virgos are sometimes disliked due to jealousy or misunderstandings about their personality. They are logical, hardworking, and caring but face stereotypes that ignore their struggles. Recognizing Virgos' true qualities reveals they are valuable and unique, often misunderstood because of societal biases and misconceptions.
You are more loved than Taurus as far as the thread that is going around in the astrology forum. So yup .
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Food and nap sounds good.
I. Just. Can't.
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I. Just. Can't.
Yes you can.
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I. Just. Can't.Yes you can.
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Virgals? Nope
Posted by LilYanga11
It's hard being Virgo. I'm tired of dealing with my stomache issues every day and being paranoid and being accused of being cold cuz I'm a logical person in a world that has no intention of even trying to listen to reason.
lol
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I. Just. Can't.Yes you can.
Virgals? Nope
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Oh shush.
i think people hate virgos because we don't let people into our minds?
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I. Just. Can't.Yes you can.
Virgals? Nope
Oh shush.
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The stomach issues are real, i've convinced my coworkers that I have a monster in there and it hates me specially when I worry 😢 Its interesting to see what issues ppl w/ different signs go to the doctor for (insurance) most of the Virgos seem to go for stomach issues, depression, etc.
Posted by LilYanga11
We one of the baddest signs. This is according to science. And if science says otherwise, then science is wrong.
Get over yourself.
I will agree life through a Virgo lens isn't easy at all compared to other mindsets because we're liable to get lost in our minds wihout external reality pulling us out...and yadda yadda..but all people deal with it. Just a matter of playing to your strengths.
But I don't understand these "we're hated" rants. Other than being self-defeatist...I don't see it. Comes down to what system you apply to your life...if you apply one where you purposefully strive to feel unappreciated..then that's what you get. I find that mindset highly disrespectful to people who care about us, friends or otherwise. Also people are allowed and most often are...largely indifferent to what's outside of themselves...so a person not falling over in admiration with a Virgo does not make them a hater just because. Maybe they just don't care/don't relate to this mindset.
I see the same topics on the Pisces board and it's just cringeworthy. No one sets out in life with a daily mission to screw over this axis. I can't count on my fingers how many kind and caring people there are out there and how many grace my life with their presence, as far as people go I've been blessed.
Damnata do you know what baddest means in that sense? I mean like we're bad mfers. I say hella good stuff and some bad stuff... it's not completely one or the other. This ish not self defeating, I'm just talking about my perspective and how I love myself and my life. It would make my post more shallow if I only mentioned good stuff. A good movie has to have conflict and drama.
You be twistin my words into something they're not, then attacking the words you put in my mouth rather than what I'm actually saying. And are you really trippin over the fact that I complain? If Virgos can't complain then let's tell birds they can't fly and fish they can't swim lol. It's okay to not have a fake smile plastered on your face all the time. That makes your smile more beautiful and authentic when you do smile.
SensitiveBlues and the other haters here proving my point lol
SensitiveBlues your posts sure show thought and intelligence lol... could you even read Pedagogy of the Oppressed? Can you read Hegel's works? I seriously doubt you could understand that stuff. All that was written by Virgos and the fact that you call us dumb just shows you don't know what you're talking about and the fact that you obsessively hate us and can't get over us just shows we're bad af. People gon hate then yo boo leave you for a Virgo.
You must secretly worship us Sensitive... why you so obsessed with us lol... and when you gon make a post with some intellectual content lol
Blah blah blah... you still on our nuts tho
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Damnata do you know what baddest means in that sense? I mean like we're bad mfers. I say hella good stuff and some bad stuff... it's not completely one or the other. This ish not self defeating, I'm just talking about my perspective and how I love myself and my life. It would make my post more shallow if I only mentioned good stuff. A good movie has to have conflict and drama.You be twistin my words into something they're not, then attacking the words you put in my mouth rather than what I'm actually saying. And are you really trippin over the fact that I complain? If Virgos can't complain then let's tell birds they can't fly and fish they can't swim lol. It's okay to not have a fake smile plastered on your face all the time. That makes your smile more beautiful and authentic when you do smile.
Yeah I know what that means and I disagree. We're soft hearted and sensitive so I really don't see the need for the bad mfers facade. It's infantile. Literally rolling my eyes at Virgo badassery. Now Virgo insecurity is another thing altogether.
The problem is you don't seem to mention good stuff...you run on negative energy.
Not twisting your words but if you feel the need to feel persecuted....proceed. It's not reality btw. I didn't see any mention of people caring for Virgos and if you feel Virgos as a sign are so hated...then all those people in your life who care are metaphorically slapped in the face by your comments.
No one says Virgos can't complain, it's the degree they take it. Someone doesn't like a Virgo...omg the whole world hates Virgos! It's grossly exagerated. Even people who are jaded with Virgos..are they jaded because it's their life mission to have issues with Virgos? No, they cared and it didn't work out. Some had a rude awakening and they can't cope with themselves, others were screwed over by Virgos. If they didn't care, they wouldn't comment. And even then their true target is one specific Virgo so to get from this that Virgos are universally hated? lmao at that flaw in logic from a logical sign.
Posted by Earthboundfeline
The stomach issues are real, i've convinced my coworkers that I have a monster in there and it hates me specially when I worry 😢 Its interesting to see what issues ppl w/ different signs go to the doctor for (insurance) most of the Virgos seem to go for stomach issues, depression, etc.
omg that's a funny way to deal with it lol my bf has crohns disease so I'm convinced the tummy thing is real for most if not all of you guys.
He also has a cyst in his leg... he'll say things like "what if when they lance it there's a bunch of bugs in it that got there from when I blah blah blah" or something lol I try not to take it too seriously and at the same time not too lightly lol
Posted by Earthboundfeline
The stomach issues are real, i've convinced my coworkers that I have a monster in there and it hates me specially when I worry 😢 Its interesting to see what issues ppl w/ different signs go to the doctor for (insurance) most of the Virgos seem to go for stomach issues, depression, etc.omg that's a funny way to deal with it lol my bf has crohns disease so I'm convinced the tummy thing is real for most if not all of you guys.
He also has a cyst in his leg... he'll say things like "what if when they lance it there's a bunch of bugs in it that got there from when I blah blah blah" or something lol I try not to take it too seriously and at the same time not too lightly lol
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My family and old doctor told me to stay off of Web MD lmao, im pretty sure im not crying wolf this time even though I tend to over exaggerate with my health sometimes, but try not to bother others at the same time. I recommend that we virgos never watch the shows about crazy er stories bc we will swear that we should be on there. 😄
Posted by LilYanga11
You must secretly worship us Sensitive... why you so obsessed with us lol... and when you gon make a post with some intellectual content lolNo I seriously don't like virgos. I stay away from you. Been burnt too much.
So I don't even try to get close. You're not ride or die. You're me me me me entities and that's not what I value.
I like salt of the earth ppl, not those who blow to the wind
And virgo women are the worst. They're desperate and disgusting almost as bad as Pisces women
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I thought you tolerated my existence 😭
@Damnata We have fundamental philosophic differences. I guess you're about positivity. That's umm... okay... to be honest I wasn't raised like that. I live in a housing project and I'm a dualist. People done accused me of being demonic. I know a Pisces dude from my old hood who criticized me cuz he's on a "positive" tip and I don't care about that. I don't define myself as strictly positive. I'm from the streets and I was born with my back against the wall. If someone run up on me in the streets, I'mma leave them on their back- I'm not bout to turn the other cheek. That Pisces dude doesn't even seem to be holding on to his sanity. My light is cut with darkness. But I'm maintaining. I don't think "positive" people can really survive that well in my environment- they would get treated like punks imo. Plus you have to consider the social expectations placed on me as a man- not tryna say women dont have to deal with social expectations but it's socially acceptable and even encouraged for a woman to be "soft"... it's the opposite for me. My Pisces friend just barely lost his virginity and he gets treated awful... If you really know about that type of environment, maybe you might disagree with my mentality but the older people here respect me and say I'm smart. If you really knew about my background, I think you'd understand. Anyways, I'm trying to attack your ideas and not you as a person so I don't think I'm all that bad. We can have a civil philosophical debate and exchange of ideas but if you try to lower this to a level of exchanging personal attacks then I'm not the one being negative.
It is real. I done started a thing a while back where I'll meet random Virgos and I'll be like "do you have the stomache issues too?" and so far they be like "yup" and there's this sort of bond created cuz we understand each other. I'm not saying all Virgos have the stomache problems but I think it's most of us like you say.
Posted by Earthboundfeline
The stomach issues are real, i've convinced my coworkers that I have a monster in there and it hates me specially when I worry 😢 Its interesting to see what issues ppl w/ different signs go to the doctor for (insurance) most of the Virgos seem to go for stomach issues, depression, etc.omg that's a funny way to deal with it lol my bf has crohns disease so I'm convinced the tummy thing is real for most if not all of you guys.
He also has a cyst in his leg... he'll say things like "what if when they lance it there's a bunch of bugs in it that got there from when I blah blah blah" or something lol I try not to take it too seriously and at the same time not too lightly lol
My family and old doctor told me to stay off of Web MD lmao, im pretty sure im not crying wolf this time even though I tend to over exaggerate with my health sometimes, but try not to bother others at the same time. I recommend that we virgos never watch the shows about crazy er stories bc we will swear that we should be on there. 😄
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BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! I'm constantly reassuring my bf that what he's going thru is probably normal and that if he isn't sure I'd be happy to take him to the doctor. I think he has more fun speculating lol and driving me up the wall .. I don't ignore his complaints but I certainly take most of them with a grain of salt. recently I was worried he really did have his appendix rupturing like he thought last week then.....
You wouldn't believe/better appreciate all the dog fart videos I had to surf thru to find this lol :-P
my Virgo bf's greatest strength and toughest obstacle has been his positivity. He must have it in me or he has a hard time holding on to it himself. He is very sensitive and analytical almost an oxymoron. we are both good at keeping it positive but it does take work and it is worth it. makes life so much more enjoyable.
I guess there's a linguistic confusion- for me at least, being positive can mean two different things. There's positive as in helping an old lady cross the street or helping drug addicts overcome their addictions. Then there's positive as an overall philosophy, of which I suppose there's a lot of different forms.
I was raised to stand up for myself and not to turn the other cheek. Sometimes that's the best approach and sometimes maybe it's better to let it slide. If positive means being unrealistic, passive, unwilling to stand up for myself and avoiding and being unwilling to deal with harsh realities, things like that then I'm totally against that. If positive means helping the old lady cross the street, respecting women, helping people, etc. then I'm for it.
Virgos deep down we want to be positive people not in the sense of being "punks" but in the sense of helping humanity but it can be hard for us to maintain our idealism in a cold world. We can become broken and cynical and I really appreciate the people in my life who help keep me from sinking to that level and Abby I appreciate that you help your bf with that- we as Virgos need that. It's hard to maintain your idealism as a realist.
Posted by LilYanga11
Virgos deep down we want to be positive people not in the sense of being "punks" but in the sense of helping humanity but it can be hard for us to maintain our idealism in a cold world. We can become broken and cynical and I really appreciate the people in my life who help keep me from sinking to that level
Now you're speaking my language, man.
Let me show you an extract from the Virgo shadow (maybe you can relate, I'll get back to the message you addressed me later):
"[..]There's another type of Virgo shadow you sometimes see, and this happens when Virgo's sensitivity has been bruised too badly. We might call it the Hustler. The Hustler is a face of Virgo which appears when reality and its difficulties weigh too heavily on the scale, while hope and faith and trust weigh too light. Then the Hustler appears. He uses Virgo's naturally canny commercial nose and twists it so that everything must be bargained for. The Hustler makes everything into a deal. He's also prepared to sell anything, at a price. In some ways the ancient mythical image of the Great Harlot has here become the mean hooker. Translated, it means, sure, I'll sell that, what's it worth to you? Anything to get a little salted away. Any individual is a potential customer, a potential soak. And this is perhaps the most tragic side of Virgo's shadow, because this happens only when Virgo has become so disillusioned or so frightened that he must put up barriers against everything. Even love is for sale then, and the 'suitable' marriage must include the right amount of money in the bank account. It isn't beyond this side of Virgo's shadow to check your credentials before that first date is accepted. It's also sometimes called as psychological usury.
Sadly, this side of the Virgo shadow appears most frequently in male Virgos. I have come to the conclusion that it's because society makes it a little difficult for the Virgo man. This is a sensitive and receptive sign, not naturally ambitious, and often very aware of subtle undercurrents and intuitive interchanges which elude the thicker-skinned signs. It's also a sign naturally inclined to flow rather than lead. These aren't part of the conventional macho image men are supposed to carry in our culture. The Virgo man often has a hard time being himself in a world which requires him to be more insensitive than compassionate, more successful than skillful, more leader than craftsman, more money-maker than lover of nature. So the Hustler side of the Virgo shadow appears, and it isn't a very lovable one.
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All shadows dissolve when light is brought to bear on them. This one is no exception. For a Virgo seeing himself in the light - complete with what he's really afraid of - is a great healer. For him to try, just once, to trust himself and others and life rather than demanding that everything be named and guaranteed is also a great healer. And for him to recognize that life has mysteries he'll never understand or explain, and chaos that maybe shouldn't ever be ordered, and pockets of mistakes, and slips and messiness that perhaps don't really need tidying, is the greatest healer of all. In other words, Virgo, the realist, isn't really very realistic. The reality he sees is only the tangible one. It's the other one he needs to find, and to trust. Then he can become what the myth portrays: the one who can heal and nurture and bring life, whether to people or ideas or his art, because he's made peace with the unknown.
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@Damnata That excerpt is from Sun Signs(or was it Love Signs?) by Linda Goodman if I remember right... I read the book a while back and I actually read that passage and it was in the back of my mind this whole time- that was why I specifically mentioned the issues of being a male Virgo- not saying Virgo women don't have issues too.
In any case, though, my persona is icier than my heart. I seem colder than I actually am. That's just part of how I get through life and avoid being victimized in this society that is what it is. Beneath the surface, I really am a warm, passionate and loving person and I genuinely do care even if that doesn't always come across in the exterior that I present to others.
Also this thread title is a reference to a YG song with the same name, in case people didnt catch that.
I've seen some of the best and worst aspects of Virgos and have come to really appreciate them. A lot of what has been posted in the thread makes sense, good sense.
Naturally we've all had our own experiences with each sign and our opinions may vastly differ from one another.
Posted by LilYanga11
You must secretly worship us Sensitive... why you so obsessed with us lol... and when you gon make a post with some intellectual content lol
I can understand CC's position. She met a bad apple and it is actually quite fun hearing her rant and bantering about it. That said, Lilyang or whatever your name is, your arguments are really weak. Booksmarts do not account as much as EQ and other examples CC had quoted. Quit with the personal attacks and deal with things properly. Your posts are TL;DR
Get to know why CC hates virgos personally and you will likely choose to temper your words. You sound like a really young chum who hasn't seen enough of the word yet.
You mean this kind of hating?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/full-of-hate-and-need-to-rant-6851185/
Because, I agree .... why are Virgos always absorbed in hatred.
In fact, there are numerous Virgos who only post when they have hate to talk about and honor.
And numerous Virgos who made their dxp debute to memorialize how much they hate someone/something.
So, I want to ask the same question .... why are you Virgos always absorbed in hatred?
Same old people throwing their weight and hate around this thread :/
Just because we are born under the same sun sign as people who have hurt / pissed you off it doesn't mean we all have them traits . Here's a good example , i know a girl who was born just 24 little hours behind me and we are polar opposites , im clean living and have my priorities in line and she's a filthy mess .
Shit if i hated on every sign that had ever got my back up I'd hate everyone , i choose to not hate on anything or anyone , total waste of energy .
Posted by LilYanga11
We one of the baddest signs. This is according to science. And if science says otherwise, then science is wrong.
What science, specifically, supports virgos as the baddest signs. Please expand further on this claim.
I'm a logical person in a world that has no intention of even trying to listen to reason.
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I'm listening.
They hate what they don't understand. I'm Virgo moon and I absolutely adore Virgos.
Ugh I couldn't get past the first sentence. Take some freaking grammar classes. 😆
Skipping in I don't hate Virgos. Last night I celebrated my Virgo bestie's birthday with grilling out, boozing, grapico cupcakes and talking all night outside. That's my sister. Even the derpy Adderall Virgo ex was there for his birthday. I was civil. We're all adults here.
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In fact, there are numerous Virgos who only post when they have hate to talk about and honor.And numerous Virgos who made their dxp debute to memorialize how much they hate someone/something.
So, I want to ask the same question .... why are you Virgos always absorbed in hatred?
because a virgo ends up being a wall flower then they're projecting happy vibes. Nobody notices when virgos are happy if you want to play starsigns.
You mean this kind of hating?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/full-of-hate-and-need-to-rant-6851185/
Because, I agree .... why are Virgos always absorbed in hatred.
Do you post when everything is good and happy? no because you want to enjoy every moment of it. Happiness doesn't come by easy and people eventually realizes it. They'd rather bask in every moment of it than to spend time posting about it unless its something really joyous like how gentlemanly your husband is and how much you see the good in him. Why stay in a bad situation instead of moving away from it?
Posted by LilYanga11
Blah blah blah... you still on our nuts tho
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Virgo chicks are weird ——??
Yup. And it's awesome.
Some ppl love me, some ppl hate me, both times I was probably thinking about food
Posted by LilYanga11
You must secretly worship us Sensitive... why you so obsessed with us lol... and when you gon make a post with some intellectual content lolNo I seriously don't like virgos. I stay away from you. Been burnt too much.
So I don't even try to get close. You're not ride or die. You're me me me me entities and that's not what I value.
I like salt of the earth ppl, not those who blow to the wind
And virgo women are the worst. They're desperate and disgusting almost as bad as Pisces women
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Pisces women have successful relationships with Virgo men.
I guess Virgo men are not as emotionally unware as you assumed they were. 😉
Posted by LilYanga11
Virgos are so hated... I understand. Your boo left you for a Virgo. You in love with a Virgo but we mysterious. Whatever it is. We one of the baddest signs. This is according to science. And if science says otherwise, then science is wrong.It's crazy cuz people hate us outta jealousy or whatever it is but if they was us, they'd realize it ain't even easy being Virgo. Virgos have hard lives and you wouldn't understand unless you were Virgo yourself. It's hard being Virgo. I'm tired of dealing with my stomache issues every day and being paranoid and being accused of being cold cuz I'm a logical person in a world that has no intention of even trying to listen to reason. We're natural-born philosophers but society is not tryna investigate the truths of life- it has too much to hide so it would rather repress rational thought and natural human curiosity.
All that being said, every zodiac sign has something unique to offer. I know I must bring something special and unique to the table and God must have gave me something to offer people and I love my life and I love who I am. My shift just started, I'm tired, I'm bout to go through the motions for a few hours and I'mma go home and take a nap y'all. (and before you call me irresponsible, my job don't care if I goof off on my phone or do whatever- that's why I love my job lol.)
I had a headache after reading a virgo type this "cuz I'm a logical person..."
but I love love love virgos. And one day a virgo will love me as much as I love them. =D
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Virgos are so hated... I understand. Your boo left you for a Virgo. You in love with a Virgo but we mysterious. Whatever it is. We one of the baddest signs. This is according to science. And if science says otherwise, then science is wrong.
It's crazy cuz people hate us outta jealousy or whatever it is but if they was us, they'd realize it ain't even easy being Virgo. Virgos have hard lives and you wouldn't understand unless you were Virgo yourself. It's hard being Virgo. I'm tired of dealing with my stomache issues every day and being paranoid and being accused of being cold cuz I'm a logical person in a world that has no intention of even trying to listen to reason. We're natural-born philosophers but society is not tryna investigate the truths of life- it has too much to hide so it would rather repress rational thought and natural human curiosity.
All that being said, every zodiac sign has something unique to offer. I know I must bring something special and unique to the table and God must have gave me something to offer people and I love my life and I love who I am. My shift just started, I'm tired, I'm bout to go through the motions for a few hours and I'mma go home and take a nap y'all. (and before you call me irresponsible, my job don't care if I goof off on my phone or do whatever- that's why I love my job lol.)