Is this normal or typical?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by beebee1073 on Thursday, July 25, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@Nala13
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

I dated a Virgo for 10 years. He would be grossed out with a FWB arrangement. Not to mention he needed a clear understanding of the facts at all times. Most of the Virpeeps I know are either in relationships or are single. My sister has not been single since she was 5. I'm serious. She has always had a boyfriend. Your Virgo must have some Air in his chart.

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by beebee1073
So I'm in a FWB with a virgo. We haven't known each other long, maybe six months?

Anyways, when we first met, he approached me and introduced himself and we started to get to talking. Now I have to say, in my defense, I did not in any event, do anything to make him think that I was a loose girl or someone who was open to the idea of FWB.

But anyways, while having our FWB relationship, we always talk before anything and we enjoy each other's company.

Nope...even a disclaimer/defense of the mind doesn't work. If you laid down with him on a whim you reciprocated, you made the choice, and you don't get to blame him (should try down the road). There are rules for FWB. One of them is you don't get to ask questions AFTER you make the choice. That's how it works.

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@sv
14 YearsVirgo

I agree with leejt, feelings and sex can't be completely separated. It definitely sounds like he thinks of you as more than just FWB, perhaps he doesn't want to define the relationship yet.
And Virgos can have FWB arrangements, it's not just as common with us.

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@Bubbaguz258
12 Years

Stop having sex and see if he sticks around if he don't theres your answer and move on you mest up by giving him the goods !! But u could have saved it by after giving him the goods u act like u don't care then he would be confused that's when u flirt n be lovey then cut him off again and hold on sex n bam he's gunna chase u