leo who cant figure out virgo II

hello again fellas !! you Virgos are driving me crazy !!

i have wrote before about a story between a Leo and Virgo and i had some interesting replays which helped me a lot. thank you people.

the new story is this i had a thing with a Virgo were suddenly he became on a relationship and i fall in love with him and then he doesn't wants to lose and want me as friends without leaving his GF which

here the link if you want to follow up the story
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/leo-who-cant-figure-out-virgo-3414642/#3415516

the new situation is i kept my distance and we left each-other and send a goodbye massage as closure we finished and i was hurt and i had my share in misery and crying over him as i loved him a lot. then i heard that he is resigned from work and will get back to his town after a while he text me saying "dear this life is not worth it we shouldn't be apart. my father is died and i cant believe it" he had the biggest meltdown ever crying. you know me a Leo stupid i went running back to him because he was in need and called me to come over as he needs me now and i felt like i had too you know death and i cant just turn my back. i met he cried his eyes out and was talking about him even things people think it's hard to say it to strangers. i helped him i took him to cut the ticket to fly back home to be with his family we went home to pack while we are there he intimate hugging crying and talking and wanted to take a rest before the flight he pulled me in the bed and hugged me while he was sleeping and taking rest. it was an amazing hour very connected to each-other and broke my heart seeing how much he was sad. i drop him to the airport hugged me goodbye give me his car key and apartment key and parked the car near my home just in-case something happened i thought something new will happen as i know Virgos just don't get along and trust just any one and .

he traveled to his family called me again that he needs my help to ship his car to him as he needs it very much and i didn't say no BTW i don't know what we are GF/BF or just friends which friends i don't approve. i shipped the car took me three hours to ship had a hard time then replaying "thank you very very much i don't know what to say to thank you" i said no problem and that's it. then again became cold and distance i don't hear from him or calling and when i call sometimes answer sometimes don't. i had my share of the sorrow again like before same hurt i kept my d

i d'did't call agine even when he calls which is very little times i don't answer cause i don't want to get attcahed agian.

after a while he came back clearing his appartment to move back to the town as i heard then one day he sent this massage.

"From my experience in this life, most of the good things happen in our lives in the wrong place and at the wrong time. We rarely get the right things or what we really want at wright time and in the right place.
When I first met you, I realized how different you are from typical girls we meet everyday or we know. I liked you much and when I knew you more I really wanted to be with you and share my life with you. But the thing is that I met you in the wrong time coz I was already involved in a relationship with someone. Yes, it's my mistake that I met someone and cheated on my girlfriend but when I decided to be a good person and be loyal to my girlfriend, it was hard to keep it up with you as it started between us and thought to have you as a friend for life coz I really can't say how much I like you and proud to have you as a friend for life ..

I'm now writing to you to say few things to you only..

You have to know that you are the most priceless person I ever met in my life and if I was single, I would never let you go, but I had to.

You have to know that I will do whatever it takes to keep you as a friend for life... I'll be no longer in here and a relationship is no longer an option between us .. However, we still can be the 2 best friends ever and forever ..

I'm writing this to you from the bottom of my heart and I mean every single word .. I like you very much , I love you very much and I am pretty sure that I will never get a better caring, adorable, warm hearted person than yourself.

You are always in my mind and when I read something from you on twitter or Facebook I panic but I pretend if there's nothing .. I'm not selfish and I think about you also .. If I was selfish I could have told you that I love you and we could have been together for few months then left you in here and get back to the town, but it's not me... I care about you and your feelings , that's why I wasn't in touch with you for quite long time .. It's quite hard and tough but I did it for the sake of both of us..

You have to know that I will never say goodbye to you , even if you decided to cut it off between us , you will still be Meo the best person I ever known in my life.

All my best wishes to you in your entire life and all the best of luck with your career .. You are a very good, decent, polite, dedicated person and you deserve the best in everything ..

I will be there for you anytime you need me .. I'll be more than happy to serve you, help you, support you, listen to you, stand by you, advise you, or anything else .. I'll be there for you I promise .. I promise .. I promise ..

Yours, with love,"

and i have replayed "welcome back in the city and don't forget to collect your stuff" which he left his iphone and sunglasses.

then after two days texted me saying "hey. how r u? i need to tell u that i went back to the town bcoz i was sick for two days but i will comeback soon then i want to meet u. plz take care of yourself and i wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart. and plz dont to cut me off.. you are very precious and dear to me."

here the question you have read the whole drama
why he called me again why didn't call his GF? why he didn't give the car keys and all the shipment to her? is he just using me? is he loves or just playing or just loves me as a friend? do i comebck to him as friend or stick to my own as a lover or nothing? tell me what you would do if you were me ?
please analyize everything relive me from my misery i need to know !!

i'm sorry that i made you read all this it's a lot but i really need this.

I didn't read everything but...

He's making it very clear that he only wants to be friends w/ you, so make sure you understand that. From what I read, he seems to you really depend on you ( which a Virgo only does to someone that means the world to them - friend, lover, parent, etc ), so you need to make that decision. If you can't be just friends, let him know the truth, he will need about 2-3 days to make a decision. Since he cares a lot about you, you'll receive an honest answer. Good-luck Leo, I hope everything works out for the best.

Posted by 25thDecan
These guys these women pick and need advice on...so many guys are living, breathing waffles. It baffles my mind how these guys make sexual and relationship limbo and beat even the greatest players at routinely getting a woman to even give them the time of day.

ITA. you have no obligations to him. He used you because no one else would do it. there is motive for everything a virgo does.

Posted by Vcharm
I didn't read everything but...

He's making it very clear that he only wants to be friends w/ you, so make sure you understand that. From what I read, he seems to you really depend on you ( which a Virgo only does to someone that means the world to them - friend, lover, parent, etc ), so you need to make that decision. If you can't be just friends, let him know the truth, he will need about 2-3 days to make a decision. Since he cares a lot about you, you'll receive an honest answer. Good-luck Leo, I hope everything works out for the best.

thanks a lot you are the only one who i got a benefit from. i spent hours writing and no one cared. I've made my decision that i will friend because a lover is impossible now he is in another city. i can use someone like him someone who i have with a mutual care. my only hope is that he will be honest and cares and just playing games.