I do feel some emotional changes, but it doesn't mean I need to show it to outside world. For example, I feel irritated with myself, then I will think/analyze what makes me feel this way, but it doesn't mean I will stop talking to my friends for time being if they initiate conversation (unless it's really frustrating emotion). I do hide my feeling sometimes, there is no need for others to know my real feeling that time. My emotional side is really ugly and I don't want to show it to others.
With regards about others, I do put myself on their shoes (80% of the time), try to feel what they feel, but when it comes to which reaction I should do/show, we do think about it first, which reaction is the best for given situation. For me, I will never know your feeling, therefore, I rather make observation of you and then think logically which course of action is the best for one situation.
By saying that, this is why in love matter, a slight form of rejection make me thinking over and over, what did I do wrong, what should I do next, etc. This is where my friends comes into picture, they usually calm me down, telling that it's fine, there is nothing wrong with that reaction.
Hmm, you can put it this way, whenever something is wrong, I tend to ask myself "what did I do wrong" then moves to thinking cave. It is a bad habit of mine, since when things goes wrong, it could because anything (the woman's having a bad day, etc). But why I keep doing that? Because to analyze my own emotion (since I know my own emotion well, not hers) is more doable/precise than to analyze her emotion.
I'm not sure if I answer your question, SensingTaurus. It's kinda broad question for me 🙂
i definitly think virgos put logic before feeling, my virgo even used those words! "I love you but it's not logical to stay together i cant make you happy because you dont want to move to london and you cant move here just for me". So as a tauras i was gobsmacked. He but logic before his heart and we are both feeling pretty miserable now.. Well i can only assume he is, he seems to have cut off all contact with his friends and family and gone into his cave for a bit, he didnt even celebrate his brithday. To me virgos dont make sense it seems like self-torture?