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Could some virgo men please help me understand why a virgo male(Aug. 24th) tell one woman that he is attracted to a woman who is independent,honest,strong and loyal but end up choosing a woman who is a DRAMA QUEEN , dishonest,vindictive,loud and not loyal?

Posted by ladyvirgo
Could some virgo men please help me understand why a virgo male(Aug. 24th) tell one woman that he is attracted to a woman who is independent,honest,strong and loyal but end up choosing a woman who is a DRAMA QUEEN , dishonest,vindictive,loud and not loyal?

this virgo is a august virgo aka a cusp baby leo sign ends on the 23 of august but since hes born on the 24 he must have lots of leo influence in him smh hence he attract females like that.

are u a sept virgo by the way?

Yes, I am a September virgo,Why?

Posted by sortilege85
"this virgo is a august virgo aka a cusp baby leo sign ends on the 23 of august but since hes born on the 24 he must have lots of leo influence in him smh hence he attract females like that." ~LV

I hate to agree, but you are right on this one...

i dont wanna be right dude we august virgos already have a bad rep we dont need no more trouble "bob marley" owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. lmao

Posted by ladyvirgo
Yes, I am a September virgo,Why?

there has been past threads i talk about the major differences between the 2 i was born on august 29 so i dont count as a cusp virgo.

its nice 2 meet you tho.

Legendary, I don't think all August virgos are bad. I am just trying to make sense of one I know. I would appreciate any help you can give me.

Posted by ladyvirgo
Legendary, I don't think all August virgos are bad. I am just trying to make sense of one I know. I would appreciate any help you can give me.

i know we aint bad but they say august virgos are trouble souls sept virgos on here say we are im trying 2 understand y is the case.


a member by tha name of dy said august virgos have leos ego but virgos doubts but trouble souls
and its trouble.

Posted by sortilege85

Posted by ladyvirgo
Legendary, I don't think all August virgos are bad. I am just trying to make sense of one I know. I would appreciate any help you can give me.

Many august virgos are kind of stupid at the certain lovers they want. They are usually very interesting people that have the personality to gather whatever person it is that they want due to their outward personality, but they always go after the struggling, the bitch, or the pathetic because they themselves feel that those people can better understand them which will in return only hurts them.

My sag pals aries wife told me that she had a huge crush on an august virgo born on the 26th, and he was the class clown that got everyone on his good side. She's a good looking gal, but he overlooked her because he felt the need to get something "better" and choose a whore that she knew.

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so right my virgo best friend with pisces moon has a libra girl friend i told him wtf i said we will see how long that will last and yes my august friend is a august virgo born the 27.

sigh august virgo do make dumb choices.

Why would a virgo male hold one woman to such high standards and not expect any thing from the other? The virgo male I am talking about is making me crazy,so I would really appreciate it if you guys could please try to shed some light on this guy.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by ladyvirgo
Why would a virgo male hold one woman to such high standards and not expect any thing from the other? The virgo male I am talking about is making me crazy,so I would really appreciate it if you guys could please try to shed some light on this guy.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh yea i forgot 2 tell you august virgo are double mercury decan meaning we are double nervous august virgos are 2 damn bubbly at times i think if we learn how 2 calm down and think we are better of getting things that work for us and being happy.

Make a long long story short, this has been going on for a few years. He is a virgo with Sag moon and I am a virgo with sag moon and we always hit it off in every way. he confessed to me that he had been seeing a sag woman (Crazy I must say) who was Director of Human Resources at his job. The only reason he confessed is because she found out he was seeing someone else by sneaking into his house and going through his drawers and threatened to call me(which she did)after he called me. I called it off with him but he kept calling me and telling me he was done with her.I gave him another chance but once again found out he was back to seeing her. She has tried to ruin his custody case by calling his ex,harrassed me forever,made scenes and placed spy ware on his computer and much more. The final straw came when they went away and she got jealous over his relationship with his young daughter and did not feel she was getting enough of his attention so she told him she thought next he would be f--- his daughter. He confided that in me and said he was done with her but again he took her back. He refuses to say he loves her or that he is in a committed relationship. He tells me he does not trust her but does not know why he continues to go back with her. I told him he needs a shrink. He tells me when he knows she goes away for good and i am not in a relationship maybe we can work things out. He says he isn't happy and doesn't care if she comes or goes.I told him they are both nuts and Karma is a bitch. I am crazy if I keep believing his crap.
It is driving me crazy because i can't figure it out. Why would a man choose to put up with all the craziness especially if he doesn't love her?

Posted by Jason2213
Would it be the same for a september virgo with a lot of leo influence?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i cant say but no matter what sept virgos are more calmer member ur under the Capricorn influence Capricorn influence tones anything down.

all i can say dont get into all tha drama stress is not worth nowadays just move on and be happy if he really wants you he will drop all the drama and says he wants you point blank.

Is that what is meant by some August virgos are lost souls?

Posted by ladyvirgo
Is that what is meant by some August virgos are lost souls?

our sept counter parts say we are not serious minded and we dont know what we want sigh its true to a point for me even tho im not a cusp virgo.

sept virgos are serious noe what they want and are better go getters then we are.

Thanks to both of you for answering my ? and taking the time!

UGH! it has nothing to do with the month he was born in.

very rational people are capable of losing their minds when in lust. sexual attraction can be a powerful thing when it's done right.

while with my leo i lost myself...not to the point of stalking and spyware...so maybe this woman's insane jealousy makes him feel alive. she's doing this crazy stuff but you didn't mention what he was doing in return? maybe they feed off of one anothers drama?

he could be telling you any and everything about her just as he could be telling her any and everything about you. he has an ex-wife, he has the sag, he has you. any other women we need to know about?

on a basic level, it sounds like you need to take a shot in the ego, accept that he doesn't want to be with you exclusively....for whatever reason, and move on.

sometimes us women stay in a bad situation only because we want the validation of being the "winner." we want him to choose us because we know we're the best option. well, choose yourself and realize that you're a winner just by leaving him alone. he's clearly not in a good place right now.

Posted by ladyvirgo
Thanks to both of you for answering my ? and taking the time!

no prob ur a fellow virgo i love helping my virgo people cuz i kno being a virgo is a truth not being 2 emotional at times but good im sure u will find a man that will not play mind games with u and be straight forward.

also they say immature virgos love playing mind games with people.

Early August Virgos are headaches, The End. 🙂

hi,tubbyscubby! Let me clear some things up. I understand when people get jealous they can do some things that are out of character but this Sag's jealousy has gone way past normal. She has done some really crazy and hurtful things to people not only on a personal level but professional too. Just because some one lies to you does not give a person the right to do what ever they want.
Yes, I do believe he has been very dishonest, in fact I believe Karma will bite them both where it will hurt. I believe they will destroy any thing decent about one another. I have had times with this situation that I have been jealous but never did I try to hurt any one not even her for all the nasty things she did to me. I certainly understand the entire sex concept and maybe that is what I was not understanding and is driving me crazy. We enjoyed each other in that aspect also.

I like who I am and that is why i did not change my character and act like the other woman. I know who I am but it drives me crazy why some one would continue to allow some one to invade their privacy and say the horrible things they do and continue to choose to go back. I could understand it if he said he knows she's crazy and mean but he loves her but he denies that he loves her or is in a committed relationship. I guess they are both screwed up and enjoy the drama from one another. I don't get off on it so that is why I am completely out. Just curious on what makes men tick.

It seems that way,Cajun! It has been a huge headache but I took a strong dose of anti BS medicine and extra tylenol! lol

Posted by ladyvirgo
I could understand it if he said he knows she's crazy and mean but he loves her but he denies that he loves her or is in a committed relationship. I guess they are both screwed up and enjoy the drama from one another. I don't get off on it so that is why I am completely out. Just curious on what makes men tick.

i get where you're coming from but men are honestly pretty basic when you're not the one putting up with their crap. i've learned this from hanging around a lot of guys and at the end of the day, sometimes they do "x" because they can...because they can.

maybe he's just denying his feelings about her to you? did you think of that? maybe given the fact that you two were involved he can't be 100% honest with you?

maybe he can see that you still care and as a result, he's not ready to cut ties with you completely so he's doing what men typically do in this situation...paint the other woman as a complete wack job. and the tactic worked because you're questioning her behavior...you loathe her and her stupidity. but hey, it takes two to tango right?

some virgos can be pretty psychotic in love too and normally, unless a person is being stalked or in fear of someone they've dated, chances are, the behavior they're getting is the behavior they're encouraging or giving. either the sag is insane or she's found someone who's just as "off" as she is...your VM.

so here's the way i see it. i know i can curse out my aries male when he gets on my nerves. why? because i can. but my leo ex...sure, i can raise my voice and throw a tantrum but the moment i descend into throwing cursies at him, he's out the door...permanently.

also all this stuff about august virgos... 😛 there are books that break up signs like this and i find it very odd that people are lumping all aug virgos together and all sept virgos together. if you're going to talk about the differences within the sign it's far more accurate when you do it accurately and that doesn't appear to be the case here. in fact, it just sounds like another instance of virgos believing they're unique and special even when compared to other virgos. how do you do the *yawn* smiley?

I have come to believe that both the virgo guy and the Sag are really meant for one another becuse they are both liars and enjoy unhealthy drama. He was seeing me first and then started with her while she was married. When I started thinking with a sane mind I realized they are one in the same! I just can't understand why when he had every opportunity given to him by me he would not nor has he ever been able to say he loves her so he wants to work things out. He had more then enogh chances to be honest with me and never took them. I know I am the winner in the whole situation because I am no longer in the lying relationship but it does drive me crazy not knowing why he just can't be honest. I guess that is the September virgo in me.Thanks all you guys for giving me your opinions!

no, it's not the september virgo in you. it's your being a woman who had the sense enough to get out while she could. i'm sure an august VF who is in a similar situation is capable of a similar decision but hey, y'all like to poo on one another for nonsensical reasons 😛

why didn't he tell you the truth? simple. why should he? look at the results of his lie. he got to mess with the crazy sag and it delayed your departure right? as my virgo friend once told me, "maybe he's just telling you what you want to hear."

men lie because they can.

men lie because it produces the desired result.

it really isn't rocket science...although it feels that way at the time. we've all been there but i think the lesson is, if you ever find yourself asking "why he won't he tell the truth?" the answer is, "because you don't want him to."