other signs break themselves on virgos

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And no I dont believe that, its down to the individual, I have managed to keep my cool while a virgo lost control every time, he could not handle it.



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1) dishonesty, I had a better memory and he didnt like it when i didnt buy what he was saying and i would back up what i was saying with facts so then he would go stupid about it and start raging, dishonesty is not an act of strength, neither is losing your temper.

2) Ego, being the one ending it then calling me up when i left him to it, he wanted to remain friends just so he didnt feel bad about himself because he couldnt handle the douche title, i didnt give him that title he gave it himself, i asked why he phoned me and why would he see any value in being friends when he valued me so little when it appeared we got on well whilst seeing each other and to really think about the real reason why he wanted friendship, i kinda asked if he was phoning for an ego feed.. he stewed about it until he phoned back next day and said he felt like punching me in the face.. nice! i didnt lose my temper once and it was him who did the dirty... I can be friends with people, just for the right reasons.

3)He said that we better forget about what we had because I was feeling something for him, i said ok i will then, i will do fast, he went crazy and screamed down the phone OK I WILL FORGET ABOUT YOU THEN!! and slammed the phone down.. he said after i was being spiteful but i wasnt, i actually meant it because what am i supposed to do? cry for a year—

He would get spiteful, I didnt need to act spiteful towards him to feel in control, to me thats losing control if you have to resort to spite.

Kinda lots of things like that O_o .. shame really, i quite liked his false self 🙂

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3)He said that we better forget about what we had because I was feeling something for him, i said ok i will then, i will do fast, he went crazy and screamed down the phone OK I WILL FORGET ABOUT YOU THEN!! and slammed the phone down.. he said after i was being spiteful but i wasnt, i actually meant it because what am i supposed to do? cry for a year—


Kinda lots of things like that O_o .. shame really, i quite liked his false self 🙂



LMAO @ #3...
I don't know why I find the good old projection tactic/defense mechanism humorous
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Lol.. I was also moaned at for being able to remove my emotions when discussing a any issues, would that not be considered strength of character— O_o.. I think maybe he wanted me to scream and shout at him for acting a douche, ya know to feel punished— .. hell if i had realised earlier I would have gone all out S&M 😄..

I guess I rest my case.. So dunno about stronger, a touch of narcassism maybe a bit like the opening line O_o
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3)He said that we better forget about what we had because I was feeling something for him, i said ok i will then, i will do fast, he went crazy and screamed down the phone OK I WILL FORGET ABOUT YOU THEN!! and slammed the phone down.. he said after i was being spiteful but i wasnt, i actually meant it because what am i supposed to do? cry for a year—


Kinda lots of things like that O_o .. shame really, i quite liked his false self 🙂



LMAO @ #3...
I don't know why I find the good old projection tactic/defense mechanism humorous



Lol.. I was also moaned at for being able to remove my emotions when discussing a any issues, would that not be considered strength of character— O_o.. I think maybe he wanted me to scream and shout at him for acting a douche, ya know to feel punished— .. hell if i had realised earlier I would have gone all out S&M 😄..

I guess I rest my case.. So dunno about stronger, a touch of narcassism maybe a bit like the opening line O_o
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Agreed. Given that we are all human beings, there is no such things as one sign bring the strongest. Also, if we're honest with ourselves, our strengths/weaknesses are interchangeable. While pride is a good thing, there are plenty of instances where pride can get you into trouble. Same for ego.
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Posted by dimitri
i always give
i enjoy giving pleasure
and i'm learning not to waste the others time
people are full of motive
and they hurt themselves
lately its just
one on one
don't want to know your past
if you're selfish and cruel
it will reveal itself
greedy people
suffer



Why do Virgos stick around even if the person around them gives them a headache sometimes. 🙂
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Posted by kindleberry
Posted by dimitri
i always give
i enjoy giving pleasure
and i'm learning not to waste the others time
people are full of motive
and they hurt themselves
lately its just
one on one
don't want to know your past
if you're selfish and cruel
it will reveal itself
greedy people
suffer



Why do Virgos stick around even if the person around them gives them a headache sometimes. 🙂
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i don't that's for sure
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@kindleberry
one can never be certain about anything
one can never know the other completely
there's always a motive in most people.
Call it self interest, or,
a dream that we fill for one another.
But, that is not love.
Just as beauty, is not love.

I think that, in order to love, truly,
one should have a very light hold on life.

As far as Virgo's go,
in this respect,
they may be too duty bound, to
break with reason and purpose, in order,
to allow for spontaneity.
so they will always find a reason to be with you.


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Posted by Loveorlust
I have a virgo lover who is much younger than me. We are both in agreement that our relationship is a no strings attached sexual and emotional relationship- this has been going on for months now- I have no one to talk to about this- neither of us wants to ruin our home lived, we both have spouses and children. I feel we are both Using each other but are in agreement abut what we each expect! I would love to hear from some Virgo men. The woman on here have blasted me as a home wrecker etc. this has been going on for months now, I really care and respect him and I feel he does the same for me- is it wrong for two adults to make each other happy with no expectations of anything more??



As long as this relation works for you both.

As dimitri wrote,

"there's always a motive in most people.
Call it self interest, or,
a dream that we fill for one another."