although most of us are modest, i can admit i'm selfish. i think we're too engulfed in being "perfect" to be truly concerned with others' needs. actually, an interest we have regarding other people is their perceptions of us and the prevention of negative criticism.
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What I don't like - with such abilities wouldn't a small amount of altruism help ?