Scorpio Anyone?

How do you Virgos generally feel about Scorpios? Is there an immediate attraction? Do you proceed with caution?

Oh yea, and do you guys prefer to make the first move romantically?

Why are their two men in your picture?

Scorpio guys, I find annoying and single minded. They can be cool but I generally dislike their random and lewd behaviour and jokes. I am not attracted to men so I can not say anything about that.

With Scorpio females, yes there is an instant attraction. It is powerful and captivating. Their cute looks, feminine behaviour and alluring eyes definitely pierce deep into me. Their passionate love and possessiveness are often very liked by the Virgo.

However... their obsessive and jealous behaviour is annoying. There try to control the Virgo man and this is oft met with concrete rebuttal. Their love of gossip and like for being trendy is aggravating. Their love of secrecy and inability to trust, pisses me off. They too are single minded and their reliance on their "gut" feeling often leads them to be extremely judgmental, narrow minded and intolerant. They miss out so much in life and out of people.

A Virgo who does not proceed with caution is either drunk, over confident or could care less what goes on.

I can only speak for myself when it comes to moving romantically, I personally prefer the girl to show interest first.
However, I have noticed other Virguys doing the chasing, not my style .

All my statements reflect my experiences, they are my opinions and do not reflect necessarily affect the overall picture.

Personally, I think I am an expert on Scorpio women, having dated and interacted with so many.

OK. I know a Virgo and he just seems kind of overall neutral towards me.

I mean, he jokes alot, and is always teasing. Which is cool. But, when were alone, he seems nervous in my company.

I thought maybe there might be a reason for the nervousness when were alone. Especially since he's a smooth operator with everyone else.

Lol at shack i agree on this never had a strong urge to be with a scorpio and they do seem like u have to be carful abou what u say. even the stupid little stuff piss them off. if i meet up with one it will happen im not that exited about it really.

At first yes being careful is advised but only because we are still insecure about where the relationship is going. But I have a goofy side that surprises everyone if I'm secure. My Aries still gets surprised when I goof around with him because I was SO rigid with him at first. Now I sing goofy songs to him, dance around, make dorky jokes. I'm actually quite funny when I want to be 😛 I crack myself up anyway.

It's the getting to know you period when we are rigid. With a Scorp it gets better as long as you show them you are trustworthy and wont hurt them. Then they'll losen up and show the real side of them. We're normal people who like to be happy and joke around 🙂

Besides you Virgos tend to have a rigid judgmental side yourselves and we pick that up from you. There is nothing worse for a Scorpio to make a fool out of themselves in front of someone they like. So we tend to hang back and make sure you aren't going to scorn us for acting like a human.

I say it alot. Trust is earned not given... then it's a big maybe 🙂

I completely agree Ginger. I am also a firm believer that trust is earned and not given. My heart is delicate and needs to be guarded. And I am SUPER SUPER goofy when that trust has been earned and I can relax around a person.

BTW, why do you guys walk on eggshells around your scorps? Did they ask you to? It seems as though YOU are the ones altering your normal behavior (and maybe coming off as fake) and the scorps are just being themselves.

If you say something that pisses them off, so what? I can respect a person more for saying how they feel/what they want, rather than get the impression they are holding back or tiptoeing around me. Are we that damn intimidating?

Shaks, but whose to say your way of viewing this is the right way? And that scorpios should be pitied for having a different viewpoint?

And Humans would have made contact carefully and with a general respect which cultivates trust.

Many people have missed out on opportunities because they were less than trusting. Oh well, that person lived another day to get another opportunity.

IMO, easily trusting basically equals naivety. I've seen too many people get seriously, sometimes irrevocably, burned because they trusted the wrong person.

Keep your pity.

""How do you Virgos generally feel about Scorpios?""

- Mine tells me, shows me, and reassures me that he is in love with me daily.


""Is there an immediate attraction?""

- Yup. The first time I met him I knew we were going to be together, I swear. He says he knew it too.


""Do you proceed with caution?""

- We both did. Although, I was the more cautious of the two. He came on pretty strong after about a month or so.


""Oh yea, and do you guys prefer to make the first move romantically?""

- He pursued me. I don't pursue men or make any sort of advances during the initial courtship. Call me old-fashioned.

Scorpiosity,

I'm a Virgo Man married to a Scorpio Woman. It's the second marriage for both of us.

How do you Virgos generally feel about Scorpios?

My younger brother is a Scorp, and so is my Daughter from my first marriage. Honestly, I don't get Scorpio Males. In my brother's case, I couldn't stand all the potential he wasted - he could've gotten a baseball scholarship to any university in the South, and yet chose not to go to college at all...

On the other hand, Scorpio Women captivate me. They can be so Virgo at times! And yet, they are definitely not Virgos most of the time...

Is there an immediate attraction? Do you proceed with caution?

Yes, and yes. I couldn't believe this beautiful, smart, & sexy woman was interested in me; so, yes, I moved with extreme caution. Scorpio women knock Virgo men off balance, and we don't like that state of mind...

do you guys prefer to make the first move romantically?

I don't. I like to know the woman is interested in me first, before I take a chance on approaching her.

In my experience, S+V can be a life-changing relationship for both Signs.

hikoro: Once Dyarstrabe mentioned that it takes a very mature virgo to handle a scorpio. The intensity can be too much for the younger ones.

I still stand by that opinion. I could not have handled my Scorp back in my 20's - and she would not have been attracted to me at that age, either. I would've bored her to tears. To simplify: I had to loosen up, and she had to grow up.

Scorpiosity, Shaks has a point.

If you people thought Virgos were judgmental, clearly you ain't never dealt with a Scorpio.

Scorpios write off people without even knowing them, hell without even TALKING to them!

Always so uptight and caught up in their own views and "gut" feelings. Giving no one a chance, unless you prove to them time and time again.

I totally agree with the joking around thing. Make a Scorpio the butt end of your joke and expect hell.
They will get defensive and hurl the most abusive thing you have heard all year, just to cut at you. WAAAY too oversensitive.

I do feel sad, when I see the raw and passionate distaste Scorpios protrude to those they have deemed "unworthy" of their time with nothing to accredit it.

Cajun: Make a Scorpio the butt end of your joke and expect hell.
They will get defensive and hurl the most abusive thing you have heard all year, just to cut at you. WAAAY too oversensitive.

True. But... the reason for it is that they have the same core of insecurity as Virgo. They deal with it differently, that's all.

Let's be honest: How do we react when someone catches us making a mistake??

With regards to the insecurity....

No one knows more about a Scorpios insecurity than that particular Scorpio. We are well aware of our shortcomings. And often, those shortcomings cause us pain. So when someone tries to make light of or joke about something that has caused us pain, it hurts and is definitely NOT a laughing matter.

I'm not sure about any other Scorpios, but I, personally, don't make fun of other people's shortcomings. If anything, I empathize because of my own. So I won't make jokes at another's expense, because I know how it would feel if someone did it to me. I treat others how I would want to be treated. If you paid attention, you probably notice that these Scorps don't joke with others in that manner. We have a sense of humor that isn't at the expense of others.

So yes, we will say things that might sting, but only after you've already hurt us, sometimes unknowingly.

Dyar, Virgos STILL give people a chance.

We are still open and trusting. Not so with the Scor-P-O!
We don't lash out either, like we've been cornered and severely wounded.

9/10 times I did not know I hurt a Scorpio. Hence why the eggshell method is effective.

Scorpios also give people chances. You must be dealing with some really young Scorps.

Cajun, instead of the eggshell method, how about not making your jokes personal with a person you know has a problem with it? Common courtesy?

Is your sense of humor strictly limited to personal jabs?

"Let's be honest: How do we react when someone catches us making a mistake??"
Ah ha! That is an excellent question Dyr.
The Virgos I've dealt with like to dish it out but can't take it when it's hurled back at them. That includes Virgo women.

"And no, youre not intimidating at all, in fact its pretty much the other way round, its the kind of turn-off that makes you feel pity for the other person, the kind of turn-off that kills the good vibe that was built till that point."

Ha! Such arrogance Shaks! Perhaps that is the reason right there that makes us not want to open up right away. Such perfection you are! God forbid that anyone has a different approach to life and relationships or we envoke your pity?! Please darlin. Keep it.

And that right there is the reason why Scorps are wary of Virgos and doesn't go fluttering into a relationship batting our little eye lashes and making google eyes at you... your damn critical arrogance. We don't work like that and thank goodness for that or there would be more silly females tee heeing over you "perfect males" like damn fools. And that's why you like us/hate us 😉

Give a Scorp female a "I pity you" look and I'm sure you'll be picking yourself up off the floor because she's knocked you on your ass.

Scorpiosity, that would be asking me to change as a person. Which I will not do.

It ain't about common courtesy, if you know me, you know I joke around. So when you CHOOSE to take offense, you only have yourself to blame.

Yeah, I have mostly dealt with Scorpios within a 10 year span of my age. 15-25

My sense of humor is not limited to jabs, but jabs are the fastest to pull off.

Gingerscorp
Scorpios don't open up right away because you all have serious trust issues. That's why my Scorp is all alone and friendless in her new University. Constantly pushing people away with her psychotic behaviour and intolerance for the smallest of things.

If you knew ANYTHING about a Virgo, you would know we are not arrogant when we criticise. All our criticisms are meant to help people. We know our own flaws better than anyone else.

Knock me on my ass? hahahaha, that's hilarious.

The only person who ever got hurt, cried, savagely attacked out of desperation with me and Scorpios, WERE Scorpios.

The honest truth is Virgo is the only sign that puts SCORPIO in their place. Everyone else either gives up or succumbs.

"Scorpiosity, that would be asking me to change as a person. Which I will not do."

It's interesting that you say that Cajun and then turn around and say that Scorps are intolerant. Being a fixed sign WE also will not change who we are. It takes TIME for us to trust someone. It's not impossible. If you show us that you can be trusted we won't cling to the rigid behavior you all seem to have such scorn for.
As I said before... I'm guilty of that type of behavior. I'm very wary and rigid at first but the more I see a person is trustworthy the more I loosen up. Then I get to the point of joking and goofing around. It just takes longer then others. My friends will actually describe me as one of the funniest goofball off the wall type person they know. It surprises the hell out of people who don't know me very well.
"Her?!?! Joking around?!?!"
Yep... you just have to get to know me and I have to become comfortable around you before I can let loose and let my hair down.
So yes Scorps ARE flexable and able to change.... only when we become comfortable and secure in our surroundings.

Cajun: The honest truth is Virgo is the only sign that puts SCORPIO in their place. Everyone else either gives up or succumbs.

Damn straight!

Virgo has a rock-solid core, but can compromise when he needs to - when she needs him to. Virgo also has the patience to learn Scorpio, and the honesty, integrity, & loyalty to earn her trust. A smart Scorpio values this enough to put up with some of his nit-picky shit. A perfect pair? Hell, no! But I think it succeeds more often than it fails.

If you knew ANYTHING about a Virgo, you would know we are not arrogant when we criticise.

Ignorant people find us to be arrogant know-it-alls. Those who know and love us best get irritated with the analysis and criticism, but learn to laugh it off - and to remind us of those occasions when we've royally screwed-up something...

sagigoat is awesome. 🙂

Posted by sagigoat

"Cajun: The honest truth is Virgo is the only sign that puts SCORPIO in their place. Everyone else either gives up or succumbs."

sorry i'm not interested in a meaningless debate but this is simply from your own limited experiences (everyone's experiences are limited) and from my expriences it is simply not true.

i can tell you, ppl with strong self not just scorps, would not bother to open up to someone coming from a place wanting to PUT OTHERS IN THEIR PLACE. what makes you think you you are any better. you are not coming from a humble place seeing others as equals.

You really need to step off with this attitude. I never said I came from a place to "put others in their place"
I never said I am better. I never said I don't see others as equals. All your assumptions are exactly that, assumptions.

You really think Virgos walk around with their nose in the clouds to go and put people in their place?
I am simply illustrating my point. The point being Virgo is not subject to being controlled and give into the Scorpion ways. They may be able to take advantage of our naivety and lie there way through for awhile, but the Virgo is always looking to clear things up.

Scorpios are known to manipulate people and use whatever they can find against you. A Virgo can see straight through all of this and remain steadfast, whilst other "strong selves" do not have the patience to deal with it, Virgos do.

We are not better people, we are just more suited to winning arguments and calling people out on their farces. And you can trust me, Scorpios can run the hell out of a farce. Turning molehills into mountains and tripping off for no logical reason. Virgo tolerates and puts the facts on the table. We earth signs STABILISE the other signs. Scorpios are NO different.

"If you knew ANYTHING about a Virgo, you would know we are not arrogant when we criticise."

it does not matter if others know whether you are truly arrogant. perception is everything. if you fail to project good karma in other's eyes, you fail. it's as simpl as that. i do know that virgos are actually very sensitive so you preying on others' senstivies, intentionally or not, in fact shows your lack of self awareness and empathy.

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Again, you just don't know or understand the Virgo.
All you people hear is the criticism and see it as a pe

Again, you just don't know or understand the Virgo.
All you people hear is the criticism and see it as a personal attack. We criticise those we CARE about. We want people to improve themselves, to perfect things. If we did not care about you, we would not think of you for more than a second. We would not take the time to analyse the issue and provide GOOD advice. Our criticisms are more often than not, intended as harmless.

We do NOT prey on others' sensitivities! SCORPIOS do that!

I will admit, empathy is something I don't have much of. But that has to do with the fact I am an emotional baby. I always brushed my emotions aside after feeling them briefly. That's how Virgos ARE.

Thats true caj people hate our criticism but i notice this is bc most of the time we say it so cold that they miss the helpful info we are giving them. i notice if i say it in a compastionate tone people will do what i say. i hope other virgos are reading this.

sagi: it does not matter if others know whether you are truly arrogant. perception is everything.

No, to a Virgo, substance is everything - and it's worth getting past people's superficial crap to find out if they have substance, because we do. Virgo is Earth. We're solid, we're real, and we expect those we know to be real, too. If perception is all you are, then you are nothing. If no real heart, mind, and soul animates you, you are a shell of a person...

I meet so many people who mouth what's popular, what they hear on Oprah, what they see on Sex In The City, because they have no genuine thoughts or feelings of their own. They are hollow.

Scorpios may be irritating as hell sometimes, but all the ones I know are REAL. I respect that quality, and I respond to it in kind.

Cajun, I got your point. Your experiences with Scorps has been different from mine, but that's cool, too.

The Scorpios I know are not manipulators, but I can imagine an immature & insecure one being manipulative. The Virgo Player I know at work is a Master Manipulator - you know how Virgo likes to hone his craft! It's ironic, people trust and respect me, but I think in a popularity contest, he'd win - he's a Prince Charming...

Of all the Signs, I think Pisces & Scorpio have the greatest potential to manipulate - they see into others in ways most can't. But I've never met a Pisces or Scorpio manipulator - maybe I've been lucky!

sagigoat, you effectively called me an arrogant bigot, who goes around putting people in their place. You say I prey on others' sensitivities and call my debate meaningless.
You put words in my mouth by asserting such.

I have not called anyone a bigot or put words in their mouths. I simply stated Scorpios get out of line and Virgo is the only sign who can see through what they are doing and put them in their place, or bring them down to earth for better wording.

You just don't know how to argue a point.

Posted by sagigoat
i can tell you, ppl with strong self not just scorps, would not bother to open up to someone coming from a place wanting to PUT OTHERS IN THEIR PLACE. what makes you think you you are any better. you are not coming from a humble place seeing others as equals.

it does not matter if others know whether you are truly arrogant.

If that is not you calling me an arrogant bigot, then I don't know what is. I used the word effectively as my adjective, hence referencing an implied meaning.

All you saw was the face value, nothing underneath.

sagigoat: i'm open to change my opinion if there are examples of true humanitarians who are known to be critical/sarcastic/nit-picking.

Okay. I'm one. I'll verbally jack-slap you one minute, and then loan you $ 1000 to keep you from bouncing a check.

THAT is the Virgo Way.

Again: Virgo word play is at the surface of who we are. Unfortunately, many non-Virgos never look too deep.

Mmmmmm.... Scorpio & Virgo! I am dating a scorp right now. His love is so deep. Most S&V relationships seem to be male virgo with female scorp. How about the other way around? We really seem to "get" each other and the attraction was instant.

Well sagigoat, it is clear to me you got what you wanted.

I don't believe your wording was fair.

The complaints made by Virgos are about things Scorpios do, that just don't make sense to us or logic on the whole.
We don't ask for change, we just ask for better choice making.