Scorps are bitches...sometimes

It's probably just the ones I know, but they have a tendency of being bitches most of the time. They're always so dominate and forceful, always wanting it their way. They appear to like making others feel useless, pathetic and that they're aren't worth anything. They're hardheaded and contradicting. They're bossy and spend most of the day giving orders and expect them to be finished by the end of the day.

I don't have anything against scorps, but sometimes they're just too much.

So what's the problem here? You say that like it's a bad thing. A Scorpio looks out for number one...rule number one in the animal kingdom, those that don't become extinct. The world is rough and cruel, deal with it or die.

It's a facade .. it masks thier fear of having emotions out of control.

Water People

Cancer = feels insecure about how it feels and so demands that others care for feelings for them and will guilt trip if others don't walk on ice around their feelings.

Scorpio = is terrified that it might lose control of how it's suppose to feel, problem is, it doesn't know how it's suppose to feel, so how can it control what it does not know? So, to feel like it's controlling something .... it attempts to control how others feel, to gain this satisfaction that feelings are under control.

Pisces = couldn't care a less what other people feel, only cares about how it feels, which is the epitome of selfish .. it will even go as far as to throw how others feel back in their face for a laugh at the pions that will self-destruct if faced with the reality of how something feels.

I didn't do anything to them. They just want me to not be so calm and ignore the things people tell me. Basically they want me to react like they would react in the situation and since I don't they get pissed. Haven't they heard that patience is a virtue?

d you say to make him cry?

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Posted by Angiemima
I didn't do anything to them. They just want me to not be so calm and ignore the things people tell me. Basically they want me to react like they would react in the situation and since I don't they get pissed. Haven't they heard that patience is a virtue?

I dont understnad the situation can you be more specific?

I think you have a right to your own reactions..... are these scorpios really looking out for you ?

Do they think you are being maltreated?

I suppose we all have the right to our own feelings on things.

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Nah, the scorps think I'm a push over 'cause I tend to walk away from problems instead of facing them head on. I also refuse to fight and when mad I tend to keep quiet and cry of rage and it annoys them. I don't get it...

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So what's the problem here? You say that like it's a bad thing. A Scorpio looks out for number one...rule number one in the animal kingdom, those that don't become extinct. The world is rough and cruel, deal with it or die.

The world has been cruel to you?

IT is a walk in the park for me!:-)

Posted by Angiemima
Wow, what did you say to make him cry?

Posted by lou.m

Posted by Angiemima
I didn't do anything to them. They just want me to not be so calm and ignore the things people tell me. Basically they want me to react like they would react in the situation and since I don't they get pissed. Haven't they heard that patience is a virtue?

I dont understnad the situation can you be more specific?

I think you have a right to your own reactions..... are these scorpios really looking out for you ?

Do they think you are being maltreated?

I suppose we all have the right to our own feelings on things.

Nah, the scorps think I'm a push over 'cause I tend to walk away from problems instead of facing them head on. I also refuse to fight and when mad I tend to keep quiet and cry of rage and it annoys them. I don't get it...

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Just ignore them.

Real scorps dont pick on the placid they pick on teh strong it is the only battle worth winning.

You live differently so be it.

Walking away from problems is not an admirable quality though SORT IT or will sort you.

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Posted by TORQUED
So what's the problem here? You say that like it's a bad thing. A Scorpio looks out for number one...rule number one in the animal kingdom, those that don't become extinct. The world is rough and cruel, deal with it or die.

The world has been cruel to you?

IT is a walk in the park for me!:-)

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No, I haven't even faced the world...I'm going to die, are't I? lol

Walking away from problems is not an admirable quality though SORT IT or will sort you.

I like to keep my life at ease and peaceful. If I stood up for whatever pathetic reason they wanted to pick a fight for I'll just be giving them what they want; me getting pissed, something no one outside my family has ever seen. Then they'll just come at me more.

There are many ways to fight or stand up for yourself not all of them involve dragging you knuckles against the ground with a club in one hand.

And expressing anger is healthy.

You should try it once even if it is just to see what it is like.

Be clever with your anger.

I must say though those who see the world as tough have no idea what they are talking about the world is a breeze modern life is easy.

If you see the world as tough it is you who needs to toughen up.

Posted by Angiemima

Walking away from problems is not an admirable quality though SORT IT or will sort you.

I like to keep my life at ease and peaceful. If I stood up for whatever pathetic reason they wanted to pick a fight for I'll just be giving them what they want; me getting pissed, something no one outside my family has ever seen. Then they'll just come at me more.

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TO a point thats fine ............. pick your battles.

And no one is saying you have to become Xena or anything.

But it might be a handy tool to have.

I bet the scorps are on the young side no—

As we get older we start to realize true mastery is being secure enough not to constantly fight.

WHen i was younger i was very aggressive now i realize fighting oppenants who are beneath me is not challenge and degrading.

Yeah it's true...I do kinda tend to piss them off when I'm right though.
Just out of curiosity, do you know what kind of breed that spider pic of yours is?

YES!:-)

Does she keep them herself?

I keep spiders and snakes.

They make good pets .....although i used to travel a great deal and finding people to look after them was hard.

People like cute kittens to mind......... tarantulas no!

They can be kept as pets?

Lucky, I wanted snakes, mice, and spiders, but they won't let me. All I have are dogs 😢

Posted by Angiemima
They can be kept as pets?

Yes they are great pets very undemanding.

For a first spider they are a good pet and they are not considered to be posionous.

Well.... you're obviously bothered by it or you wouldn't post about it right? Scorps can pick up on that and if they smell weakness they'll attack. I'm not saying that's right but that's what they do if they are ass holes.
Try not to let it get to you or avoid them.

it annoys me when i have a problem and my scorp doesn't want to be involved when i vent to him. but he always vents to me. and i'm there for him just to listen. i have a work situation and he knows what the issue is and he still took the other girls side.

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it annoys me when i have a problem and my scorp doesn't want to be involved when i vent to him. but he always vents to me. and i'm there for him just to listen. i have a work situation and he knows what the issue is and he still took the other girls side.

My scorp brother gets annoyed when girls are upset or start crying on him. He just hangs up, or walks away, on them pissed off. I think they just don't know how to handle the situation.

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