Sex, how do you like it?

Is it important to love the one you with? Will a lust accross the office do it? A quick one after a few beers? Hey I'm curious

Posted by seadream
Is it important to love the one you with? Will a lust accross the office do it? A quick one after a few beers? Hey I'm curious

It's important for me to love the one I'm with. If I never love him, he will irritate me & I would have to end it.

Oh, I thought you were going to ask how I get down in bed... lol.

Well, I generally have to have an emotional/mental connection with my lover. I've done the causal thing before, and I just wasn't that into it. Being close to someone allows me to open up, which allows me to be a better lover. I don't like doing anything if I can't trust the person I'm with.

Posted by Candeh15
Oh, I thought you were going to ask how I get down in bed... lol.

Well, I generally have to have an emotional/mental connection with my lover. I've done the causal thing before, and I just wasn't that into it. Being close to someone allows me to open up, which allows me to be a better lover. I don't like doing anything if I can't trust the person I'm with.

this is where Gemini's and Virgo's connect: the need to have an emotional/mental connection with our chosen one. when i was dating in my younger years, i found it an instant turn off if the guy i was with couldn't connect with me on a mental front first....without the meeting of minds, I found zero emotional connection. and of course, i got bored and never developed an attraction. on the contrary, the two most special men in my life, one whom i married, both hit it off with me in the mental stimulation dept. it was almost electric, you could feel it. and it made me feel energized; probably did for each of them as well. once that link was reached, it opened the door for the emotional bonding to commence.

when i was younger, i never understood why i was so bored with so many guys on dates; and honestly, it had nothing to do with looks. and it wasn't always that they weren't intelligent. it's just that they couldn't express it. in the end, it was always about the mental connection. it was either there or it wasn't. i don't know how two people marry and live together who don't have this connection. but then again, not everyone is influenced as we are by mercury.

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Posted by Candeh15
Oh, I thought you were going to ask how I get down in bed... lol.

Well, I generally have to have an emotional/mental connection with my lover. I've done the causal thing before, and I just wasn't that into it. Being close to someone allows me to open up, which allows me to be a better lover. I don't like doing anything if I can't trust the person I'm with.

this is where Gemini's and Virgo's connect: the need to have an emotional/mental connection with our chosen one. when i was dating in my younger years, i found it an instant turn off if the guy i was with couldn't connect with me on a mental front first....without the meeting of minds, I found zero emotional connection. and of course, i got bored and never developed an attraction. on the contrary, the two most special men in my life, one whom i married, both hit it off with me in the mental stimulation dept. it was almost electric, you could feel it. and it made me feel energized; probably did for each of them as well. once that link was reached, it opened the door for the emotional bonding to commence.

when i was younger, i never understood why i was so bored with so many guys on dates; and honestly, it had nothing to do with looks. and it wasn't always that they weren't intelligent. it's just that they couldn't express it. in the end, it was always about the mental connection. it was either there or it wasn't. i don't know how two people marry and live together who don't have this connection. but then again, not everyone is influenced as we are by mercury.

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I concur...that mental connection IS really important. I know what you mean by electric! It's like you can feel the current at the pit of your stomach. You do just know it when you encounter it and someone could be drop dead gorgeous & have the IQ of Einstein, if I don't "feel it", it won't ever progress.

^^^Interesting and nice that a connection is important... Cerabal can equal sexy. Candeh & RealTalk yep trust and that feeling from the gut and mind. 69 you're telling me anything will do —? Hey superficial don't do a Virgo justice so be real, kinda being playful but....

Rough... 😛

Moon and Venus in Leo, can't separate love from sex.

No office lusts, no quickies, no one night stands.

Posted by Beergo85
Rough... 😛

This

Posted by Cajunspirit
Moon and Venus in Leo, can't separate love from sex.

No office lusts, no quickies, no one night stands.

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And this. Although, my moon is in scorpio, but same difference.

I've only enjoyed sex with one person out of my entire life. I can't enjoy sex unless I have an emotionally, physically and spiritial connection with someone.

Posted by Beergo85
Rough... 😛

LMAO...nice!

Got to have a connection for it to be good. Rough!!! Hell yeah!!! If there's not some kind of connection it sucks, I may have to fake it. LMAO!

Posted by Candeh15
Oh, I thought you were going to ask how I get down in bed... lol.

Well, I generally have to have an emotional/mental connection with my lover. I've done the causal thing before, and I just wasn't that into it. Being close to someone allows me to open up, which allows me to be a better lover. I don't like doing anything if I can't trust the person I'm with.

thats how my virgo man is...when we have sex it is really passionate ... we will sit for hours talkin and it is such a turn on to me...i guess that is how cap/virgo works to ...both need that understandin to have a connection,patients, and then their better lovers....i enjoy my virgo cause i dont have to worry about him always tramplin on me for sex....he is sooo sweet but then thuggish too

sensitive thug passion lmfao

Deeply emotional but also a little rough and kinky. Lucky im dating a leo! They're the bomb 😉

When my boyfriend(virgo) and i first met he went on and on about a mental connection and how sex isnt everything to him and I apparently "stimulate" him mentally. This is very important for him andi've noticed that with other virgo's, its just not the same without it... when we are having a rough period or mentally not connecting it kinda messes up the sex life. His venus is in leo though, mine is in aries. so we are pretty much fine 🙂

How do you guys believe the leo influence in venus can affect the way a virgo man will view sex?

Sex is always good. But yes its that much better when you care about who is underneath you.
Nothing ignites my passion and body like me imagining a sex so deep that its no longer bodies but souls doing it.

When there is a connection, I want to inhale her during the session then there is nothing like looking in her eyes.
When its just sex, all you see when you look in her eyes is the color of her iris'.

Body chemistry and a connection.....cannot beat that!!! It puts my body on auto-pilot.

Posted by ariesbabie
When my boyfriend(virgo) and i first met he went on and on about a mental connection and how sex isnt everything to him and I apparently "stimulate" him mentally. This is very important for him andi've noticed that with other virgo's, its just not the same without it... when we are having a rough period or mentally not connecting it kinda messes up the sex life. His venus is in leo though, mine is in aries. so we are pretty much fine 🙂

How do you guys believe the leo influence in venus can affect the way a virgo man will view sex?

Virgo and Aries........thats a sexual explosion waiting to happen. I would know.
What is it about the aries female that just speaks to my virgo soul??