Should I give this virgo another chance cuz im ignoring him?!

Im a taurus girl and Im ignoring this virgo guy that Im attracted to becuase he acted like a complete idiot. First of all I was going out to see my girls to chill and he kept nagging on and on to see me. I don't know him that well but I love making new friends plus I think he's handsome and fit. So I set a date but because hes nagging he said he wants to see me sooner so I suggested he join me the next day with my friends to chill.
GUESS WHAT? He didn't show up! we were supposed to meet at 9:00PM and at 11:00PM i called him and said where are you? he said I am coming on my way...I said your late but ok ill wait for you...and at 12:30 I realised its too late and I really had to leave and my friends were leaving too...so I texted him and he didn't reply.
So i went home and to be honest i was worried that something happened to him. I was expecting to wake up and find a message from him saying something happened to him and he couldn't make it. but instead he didnt

Next day at night he texts "im sorry about last night" I was too mad to reply so I didn't reply. Then he called me like twice and I didn't pick up. Then again before I sleep I found like 3 missed calls from him and a message saying "why are you acting this way?"
REALLY?? REALLY? WHY AM I ACTING THIS WAY? Anyways I texted him saying that I dont care if he came or not, And i wont sit and cry over it...ive moved on. And I really disrespect people that would set a date and not even apologise for not coming. He should have called and said listen I cant make it instaed of just leaving me waiting. He then kept on apologising over and over again and eventually said oh my car broke thats y...which i beleive is a lie. because if it was true he would have said his car broke earlier but he didnt. and even if it did he still needed to inform me earlier.

He talked to me after we closed this argument and said Are you feeling ok today? i said yes and since then I didnt contact him again. i am ignoring him because he gave a horrible irresponsible disrespectful impression of himself.

I dunno if i should give him another chance and speak to him again? I feel grossed out by his behaviour though.
BTW we don't have long conversations or anything intimate. We complimented each others looks only. we actually have short and cold conversations. Unlike my sag friend we clicked instantly and we have more fiery exciting conversations...but my sag friend is not good enough to be more than a friend though.
so who says give him another chance and who says forget it?

this virgo guy is born on 28/08/1992 and I am a taurus born on 18/05/1992

Any man who can't keep the simplest promise isn't worth a woman's effort and time. Its women who forgive men like this who doesn't force the world to become a better place.

Just a thought that I want to share here.

Pardon if I seem a little extreme for people who feel that way about my words.

to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

Posted by Nouran20

I don't know him that well ....

I suggested he join me the next day with my friends to chill

Is this some kind of stupid Bullshit joke?

You have made all this excessive drama over a dude you don't even fucking know?

You knew goddam well that when you invited him to hang out with your friends, that that was putting him in weird territory. Common sense should have told you not to do something like that, and the way you have it worded, in where you say he was nagging you ... you knew full well that you only made a date at that time to make him feel inadequate, and small.

And here you are going on like you're so special of a person that you deserve to be honored by a guy you were gaming.

I guess that's the real issue with you here, isn't it? ... you tried to play games with him, and he blew it up in your face ... so now you have to come here and pretend like you were considered to more than you are to him, and so now how dare him treating you any less than royalty.

Omg P-Angel is sooo coo-coo! I can't.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Nouran20

I don't know him that well ....

I suggested he join me the next day with my friends to chill

Is this some kind of stupid Bullshit joke?

You have made all this excessive drama over a dude you don't even fucking know?

You knew goddam well that when you invited him to hang out with your friends, that that was putting him in weird territory. Common sense should have told you not to do something like that, and the way you have it worded, in where you say he was nagging you ... you knew full well that you only made a date at that time to make him feel inadequate, and small.

And here you are going on like you're so special of a person that you deserve to be honored by a guy you were gaming.

I guess that's the real issue with you here, isn't it? ... you tried to play games with him, and he blew it up in your face ... so now you have to come here and pretend like you were considered to more than you are to him, and so now how dare him treating you any less than royalty.

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With all the respect since your the age of my mom but I don't think u fully understand what I mean by my post. He was in my uni but we never spoke until he reached out when he knew I'm in the same city for a visit but YES I don't know him in person. And I don't consider it a crime to meet up with new people and make new friends. And the reason why I preferred to meet him around other friends is cuz I'm careful I don't Wana be with a stranger alone by myself. I love making new friends and I make tons everyday and would love to meet more new people. I'm a very social person!!
We set a date and he didn't respect it. I did tell him that other friends will be around BEFORE we set a date and if he had any problems with that he could have just said he can't come from beginning jut he seemed all fine with it.
I don't want anyone's sympathy. All I'm asking is to whether give him another chance and allow some form of friendship to take place. However I've already figured it out I asked some people that know him and all of them said he's irresponsible, a womaniser and someone careless whom failed two years of uni.

So thanks a lot for attacking me but if I'm your daughter I don't u would want me hanging around a dude like that now do u?


With all love and respect understand before attacking. There is no reason to hate or attack!

Posted by Nouran20

So thanks a lot for attacking me but if I'm your daughter I don't u would want me hanging around a dude like that now do u?


With all love and respect understand before attacking. There is no reason to hate or attack!

You're a moron, plain and simple ... now go ask your mommy what that means.

Posted by busyeyes88
Continue to inore him. From what you say above, it's already an absolute disaster and another reason why I don't deal with virgo.

For.Taurus, virgo make good business partners not any kind of friendship / relationship.

I disagree.

Take it as a sign of things to come.

Posted by Nouran20
to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

But he was fit?!

Posted by PEITHO
Yet you said Taurus are too aggressive for Virgos...

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Posted by busyeyes88
Continue to inore him. From what you say above, it's already an absolute disaster and another reason why I don't deal with virgo.

For.Taurus, virgo make good business partners not any kind of friendship / relationship.

I disagree.

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Not at all. Some of my best friends are Bulls, and one of the best relationships I ever had was with a Bull.

Someone else must have posted that.

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Posted by Nouran20
to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

But he was fit?!

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Yup he's really handsome and fit. But I can tell he's careless and spoiled cuz he failed uni a few times and seems like he doesn't give a damn about his studies and could also mean he doesn't give a damn about sticking or respecting appointments.

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Posted by Nouran20

So thanks a lot for attacking me but if I'm your daughter I don't u would want me hanging around a dude like that now do u?


With all love and respect understand before attacking. There is no reason to hate or attack!

You're a moron, plain and simple ... now go ask your mommy what that means.

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Just asked my momy and she said don't reply to that lady again because if she has no respect for you she has no respect for no one and she has no respect for herself. And that's sad! Someone your age acting like this...really sad!

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Posted by Nouran20
to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

Just bc he may be handsom / cute, etc., and he flirts a lot and many females like him does mean mean anything at all. I think you are afraid of a female confrontation about him.

However.... him not sticking to the meeting date, you should look else where.

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Sure it does mean something. Why would a woman be comfortable with an attention whore, when she can find someone who doesn't do that. Why would one want that kind of drama.

Im big on keeping dates and times. And being mature to communciate so if i like u alot i may give u a chance if not im very cold and I will ignore u. And ur convo isnt great forget looks r3d flag. I also weigh options and make list befor i cut u and ur convo isnt that great nopeee.

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Posted by Nouran20
to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

Just bc he may be handsom / cute, etc., and he flirts a lot and many females like him does mean mean anything at all. I think you are afraid of a female confrontation about him.

However.... him not sticking to the meeting date, you should look else where.

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No it's not about female confrontation. He just seems like not relationship material and the kinda guy who would probably cheat on u cuz he's used to having too many females.
It's too much drama and something I don't like. I just didn't want to judge him by looking at the number of females surrounding him I wanted to look deeper into his personality but ever since he didn't respect the appointment I put him on ignore!

Posted by lovely77
Im big on keeping dates and times. And being mature to communciate so if i like u alot i may give u a chance if not im very cold and I will ignore u. And ur convo isnt great forget looks r3d flag. I also weigh options and make list befor i cut u and ur convo isnt that great nopeee.

Thanks a lot for the reply €

There's probably nothing more pathetic than a desperate girl who waits hours for a guy to give her his attention ... and then turns around and texts him to continue to try and get attention.

And then because she's so shrouded in the delusion that she must be really fucking special since a guy noticed her .... she thinks that wanting more attention from him is giving him a chance at her.



when all along ... she is the one waiting for him to throw her some crumbs.



It's so disgusting ..... this desperate female. men just want to gag at them, but, will pretend that he isn't ready to vomit if her panties will fall off easily.

Posted by Taureye
You need someone who's straight forward. No times for stupidity like this. If he didn't wanna see you or if he was turned off in any way he shoulda said so. He's an idiot.

Exactly thank yooooou. He should have said if he can't make it. It's very rude to make someone wait plus not even apologise straight away but like call the next day at night!
Ofcourse I have every right to ignore him. I'm not interested in men acting like idiots.
I haven't contacted him since that incident. I was wondering if it's worth it just being distant friends if he contacts me ever in the future but now I'm like nah! There's plenty of better guys out there.

Posted by PEITHO
What are his other placements?

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Posted by Nouran20
to be honest i dont think hes my type he has too much women around him and he seems like a womaniser maybe cuz hes handsome. But I didn't want to quickly judge him however after what he did i decided to ignore him and still am.

But he was fit?!

Yup he's really handsome and fit. But I can tell he's careless and spoiled cuz he failed uni a few times and seems like he doesn't give a damn about his studies and could also mean he doesn't give a damn about sticking or respecting appointments.

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Not sure but his born on 28th August 1992. And I think he is a Virgo moon

Posted by PEITHO
You should also talk to other guys too I mean even if you really like this Virgo. Keep you some other male friends in case things don't work out with him. I always have guy friends I don't stop talking to men completely just because I'm really into one guy. I will however give him more of my attention than I give the other guys but I never just stop talking to other men cold turkey.

Yeah I've got other male friends too.
He's not ignoring me. He apologised big I chose to ignore and move on. Cuz I feel like if I continue being friends with him that problems will start coming and I'm In a point of my life where I need to minimise problems as much as possible. I got no energy for immature dramatic guys.

Everyone is entitled to a second chance, I remember when I was single, I dated a Taurus girl, she was sweet , beautiful I was captivated by her. I build up the nerve to approach her and asked her, she smiled and seemed shy but excited, like she was waiting on me to step up and say something which surprised me that she found me sooo attractive. I was blower away by her, but I got a little clingy and jealous after talking for a few weeks on the phone when she didn't return my calls, or she would say she would call me back cuz she was with friends, I know, I know trust me I know, but I was young and the more she pushed the more I pulled her closer. Even the physical attraction was there we had different views on what we wanted out if our relationship, she wanted space, but hung out with her friends day and night, minimum daily conversation with me over the phone, but had guy friends who were just friends who lines she blew all day. I felt even tho I was young I wanted something serious with this bull headed amazing women, but we parted ways, now 10 years later I stumbled on her page on face book because we had mutual friends I sent her a hello, and I liked a pic she posted with her two kids, she replied back days later ...OMG how are you, I missed u and thought about u a lot...I have yet to reply 1 reason I'm married now to aqua wife.

My only issue with her was that she chose everybody else to spend her free time with, and her issue with me was I was too available and chose her to spend all my time with.

But her having multiple guy friends was a turn off anyway, well to me anyway, because I know how guys are they tend to become vultures and can wait around until there prey gives them opportunity for them to sworn in like a pack of carnivores flocking together, always circling for that helpless better yet naive girl, who they can comfort,til they get there rocks off. Take it how u want but it's true.

The girls I just smashed and passed I straight up lied too, and if she had a lot of guy friends, so what I didn't care as long as I got mines, but if I developed feelings for her then I would get jealous because I know guys.

Oh and guess who she dated after we broke up, 1 of her guy friends. They dated for few months then he cheated, which I would have never done , but a , that's how the cookie cake crumbled.

Because she said she missed me, and she kept me in thought, I didn't miss her any more, I lost her a long time ago. She chose everybody else. If she would have only said she missed me years ago when we broke up I would have ran back to her, at that time she latterly had me hooked. I liked her pic because it was her with her family, and it was a beautiful picture.