So called Virgo best friend

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estellajones
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Ever since falling pregnant Virgo has been on and off with me just for no reason, she's cut me off then come back in to my life and to be honest I've forgiven her so many times and have had enough now especially as I always make the effort with her first.

The other day she wanted me to come to her new house baring in mind I live far and don't drive plus had no money to travel so I came, I had to wait an hour for the bus to her and started getting contractions, I rang her and apologised and said I would come the next day instead, she wasn't too pleased but was basically like whatever...

The next day came I had been throwing up and all sorts plus had to sort my daughter out because she was sick too, anyway finally got ready and about to leave the door she texts me a huge long text of abuse saying I was a fake friend and she thought I was true but I'm just fake and not to bother coming if I didn't want to come, I explained to her I was leaving the house now and she didn't need to react that way especially as Im about to give birth in 4 weeks she should be travelling to me really, she's not seen my new house since I moved in December and expected me to come to her house when she is more than fit to travel to me—? She just blew me off and basically told me she didn't care and that she hopes I get better soon and she's going to her mums house who literally lives round the corner from me anyway!

Now it's been a couple of days and she is constantly writing things about me for my attention, is this normal or just jealousy here and not a Virgo trait? I've not seen her be so spiteful and bitter before especially as I did nothing wrong
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Damnata
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so called friend? and then make a topic about how this person isn't a good friend to you? lol, hypocrisy

I find it exceptionally hilarious and hypocritical how in this topic you give no leeway for her being pregnant and hormonal when in your topic about your gemini "friend" (using "" because friendship isn't really important to you) you were all about finding excuses for your behavior since you're pregnant. but no, when someone else is also pregnant..it's you and you alone who's pregnant and has all the excuses in the world.

again with bending people's behavior to your standards and never reach them halfway.

i can't even bring the delusion in assuming she's jealous or that she is writing things for you especially. you can keep going believing that though.

however, I know virgos and how we are with friendship. it takes A LOT for us to lose it on a friend or cut a chord with a friend. so I'm sure this long "text of abuse" (lmao, poor you...abused over texts) is something that was brewing inside her for a while and not related to one single event. we give a lot of rope for people to hang themselves with.

anyone who read your topic about your last gemini "friend" knows you are not a loyal person in friendship so i'm not surprised you're surrounded by people who will disrespect you.
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Damnata
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88, read her topic about her gemini "Friend"

she talks bad about people in her life she calls friends. this isn't about her gemini or her virgo friend. so yes, someone who bad mouths friends is not in fact loyal to their friends.

i have scorpio moon friends. they are as loyal as it gets. not the case here.

it's about being born on the self serving self involved part of the pond. i've met pisceans like that and she is definitely one of them.
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estellajones
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Posted by 88aka
@ Damnata,

saying that she is not loyal in friendship is not correct. Because Pisces with scorpio moon are very loyal when people do get to be our friends. NOT everyone can be our friend. so we are not loyal to everyone. 🙂

We are only loyal to people who are really our friends. the rest are not trusted enough to deserve a Pisces / scorpio moon loyalty.
I've blocked them so I don't have to see what they say no more 🙂

Anyway I don't know what happened to my Virgo friend she just has been very weird since I've been pregnant and now this happened..not sure whether to just cut her off this is not the first time, and she always runs back apologising and I think there's only a certain amount of times you can forgive someone lol
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Posted by 88aka
would just give it time and see what happens. You may need to distance yourself
This.

Op, I thought you mentioned that your friend is also pregnant? It could very well be a case of hormones, as someone mentioned. And with both of you being pregnant, it can be very confusing on both ends.

Scorpio moon doesn't cut people off so easily because we already are so extra cautious when we pick them. But sometimes people do get past that extra caution. e.g. I consider most people I converse with only as acquaintances, not friends. People who have red flags get cut out really fast and don't last. But friends stay for a long time. I recently ended a 30-year friendship with a Pisces (pathological liar, conned me for money to buy drugs) and am currently considering cutting loose an Aqua (10 years of friendship down the drain).
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+1....just screams "hormones" to me....time out is very therapeutic at times like these....
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estellajones
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Can I just state that I am the one pregnant here not her...

and to judge me on a previous post especially if you do not know me in real life is hysterical, in fact just because you know of my sign does not mean you know me.. I think some people need a reality check. You don't go around avoiding people for their star signs? So why would you think you know me because I am a Pisces LOL

anyway @88aka she messaged me this morning acting like everything is fine, but I feel like I can't forgive her especially how she has treated me. She didn't care that I was having contractions or that I'm about to give birth but expected me to come all the way to see her and then called me a fake friend for it? Now she wants to be my friend again. Honestly, she's constantly up and down I don't think I can deal with virgos and their mood swings she didn't even apologise she never does for how she treats me .. Don't know why I even called her a bestfriend in the first place
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estellajones
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Posted by 88aka
@ Damnata,

saying that she is not loyal in friendship is not correct. Because Pisces with scorpio moon are very loyal when people do get to be our friends. NOT everyone can be our friend. so we are not loyal to everyone. 🙂

We are only loyal to people who are really our friends. the rest are not trusted enough to deserve a Pisces / scorpio moon loyalty.
I love you, you're so lovely and kind and not a bully. You obviously have a life outside of the Internet lol, but yes you're so right.. I'm only loyal to friends who have never made me question their loyalty.. I would honestly say I have 1 friend which was this Virgo but now I feel not even her I can trust, I suppose as I get older I will learn and meet new people I'm still young, only 22 and I guess I'm still learning about myself and life 🙂 xoxoxo

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth

Do people even read past posts I wonder.



You rest assured that I have read her previous posts.

In fact, I remember with the Gemini that that moment she started getting heat, due to people realizing that she's full of shit ... she comes back to say suddenly the Gemini accepted her apology.

just like now ... the moment people realize she's the wanker, she comes back to say the Virgo accepts her again.


this bitch has lied throughout dxp, contradicting herself in her threads. People only need to read her posting history to find out that, as a typical Piscean, she lies through her teeth, while playing victim.


It's stomach turning.
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estellajones
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I don't particularly have a victim mindset I just can't explain myself properly to people who don't know me so it comes across as I'm trying to over defend myself, especially to a group of elder woman who I would usually have much respect for in real life it's just weird to me how they can be so rude and almost child like in the way they say things that's why I over react, but thank you for your opinions and I do take them on board 🙂 xxxx