So mr virgo is back....

OK so I was dating this virgo guy a couple of months back, we got on Ok nothing really special, I found him too "normal" for me lol. He seemed quite keen on me and I was fine to keep meeting up with him as we were both not wanting anything serious. We kind of stopped texting him and he didnt press the matter which I was kind of glad about as I was looking for a non confrontatinal way to get out of the "relationship".

But now he has text me again!!! I was actually talking very highly of this guy to my friends before this point, as I was impressed that he wasnt going to chase me and just accepted the fact we wernt dating anymore, he has greatly disappointed me by getting back in touch!

So now I have found myself agreeing to go out with this guy for a few drinks next week, as he missed my birthday, but I am actually going so that I can tell him i'm not interested in him anymore. Just wondering how you guys think he will take this? Would you appreciate a girl turning up just to tell you this (I will quite happily pay for my own drinks as I am ending things! lol) or would you be annoyed by the fact that I turned up just to do this?

The guy doesnt have any feelings for me, im guessing he's just horny and thats why he has contacted me, but I still dont want to upset the guy, I just feel a text message is such an impersonal thing, I know I would appreciate being told to my face, but I have come to realise that others view a lot of my preferences as odd lol so just thought I would check 🙂

So you would prefer a text? lol

This isnt about "one upping" I dont want to be unfriendly to the guy, he's a nice guy, I just have no interest in fucking him anymore.

Ok thanks for advice. I like to stay friends with everyone since I am a libra, which was why I was thinking the personal approach. Also this guy didnt get the hint from the last time I didnt text him so was thinking maybe I needed a different approach. But oh well, it doesnt bother me if he wants to stand me up or just wants to enjoy my company thats fine, but he will not be getting anything sexual from me, which is why I thought it would be better to meet in public rather than at either of our houses. I'll just have to see what happens, chalk it up as experience, and stay away from virgo men lol

Though frustrating, I am celebate by choice shaka lol. and avoid Virgo men not because of this situation, but as I do not click with them on a relationship level, which has led to this situation.