DO VIRGO GUYS LIKE BEING CONTROLLED

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by teeshajackson50 on Sunday, October 17, 2010 and has 13 replies.

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@teeshajackson50
17 Years

The virgo guy I have been talkin about for awhile now, is back with his ex and she(gemini) is always cntrolling him. Everytime I see them he's always following her around like a little puppy. At a party we attented recently she sat on his lap the whole time, he didn't even dance at all. Just about everytime shes near him all she does is cling to him.. I know most of it she does to make me jealous, but do virgo guys actually like being controlled like that?

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21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

You're jealous ... running your mouth off over nothing but pure jealousy because he doesn't want you.

Go back to the school yard ... that's the only place you're going to find people who care about high school bullshit.

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@teeshajackson50
17 Years

Posted by P-Angel
You're jealous ... running your mouth off over nothing but pure jealousy because he doesn't want you.

Go back to the school yard ... that's the only place you're going to find people who care about high school bullshit.

lol your too funny; THIS IS FOR MTURE COMMENTARY ONLY!! THANK YOU && GODBLESS

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by teeshajackson50
The virgo guy I have been talkin about for awhile now, is back with his ex and she(gemini) is always cntrolling him. Everytime I see them he's always following her around like a little puppy.

Virgo men are puppy like with girls they love.

At a party we attented recently she sat on his lap the whole time, he didn't even dance at all. Just about everytime shes near him all she does is cling to him..

If I am at a party, that's what I would enjoy out of my women. Complete attention.

I know most of it she does to make me jealous,

Eeerrrr... how did her making you jealous become part of this story?

but do virgo guys actually like being controlled like that?
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If that's what you define as controlling, sign me up.

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Posted by P-Angel
You're jealous ... running your mouth off over nothing but pure jealousy because he doesn't want you.

Go back to the school yard ... that's the only place you're going to find people who care about high school bullshit.

No, she has a valid point...this Gemini chick sat on his lap all night? Then why did they even bother to go to the party? Get a room...

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@TheLadySagittarius
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Posted by teeshajackson50
The virgo guy I have been talkin about for awhile now, is back with his ex and she(gemini) is always cntrolling him. Everytime I see them he's always following her around like a little puppy. At a party we attented recently she sat on his lap the whole time, he didn't even dance at all. Just about everytime shes near him all she does is cling to him.. I know most of it she does to make me jealous, but do virgo guys actually like being controlled like that?

Teesha, the hell with this guy. Let him act foolish if that's what he wants. He doesnt sound like a typical Virgo to me. You want a man, not a puppy anyway.

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@SomeRandomVirgo
15 YearsVirgo

The only place I like to be semi-controlled is in the bedroom. Nothin sexier than a woman ripping your clothes off. =P Other than that, no woman tells me what to do, except mah mama lol.

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@teeshajackson50
17 Years

Posted by Cajunspirit
Posted by teeshajackson50
The virgo guy I have been talkin about for awhile now, is back with his ex and she(gemini) is always cntrolling him. Everytime I see them he's always following her around like a little puppy.

Virgo men are puppy like with girls they love.

At a party we attented recently she sat on his lap the whole time, he didn't even dance at all. Just about everytime shes near him all she does is cling to him..

If I am at a party, that's what I would enjoy out of my women. Complete attention.

I know most of it she does to make me jealous,

Eeerrrr... how did her making you jealous become part of this story?

but do virgo guys actually like being controlled like that?

If that's what you define as controlling, sign me up.

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SHES JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE SAW HIM STARING AT ME BEFORE SO SHE THINKS WE HAVE SOMETHING GOING ON, AND SHE GIVES OFF NEGATIVE VIBES WHENEVER I'M AROUND HER.

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by teeshajackson50

SHES JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE SAW HIM STARING AT ME BEFORE SO SHE THINKS WE HAVE SOMETHING GOING ON, AND SHE GIVES OFF NEGATIVE VIBES WHENEVER I'M AROUND HER.

Men have their eyes stray all the time.
If he's not happy with her, it's unlikely to last.

As for the negative vibe, would'nt you do the same in her position?

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15 YearsVirgo


Cajun is
10,000% right. I love when my woman lingers around me especially when there are other women around. I dig that because i know other guys are sweating her and she is letting them know what the deal is.

quoted for truth

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@teeshajackson50
17 Years

Posted by WiseOldOwl
This is exactly how my Virgo ex and I acted around each other. Lasted many many years. Move on they are happy together and you are not going to be able separate them.

I don't really see where she is jealous or controlling. As far as staring it seems you are the one staring since you can dictated every move this poor couple has made all night long. So yeah maybe he looked at you because he noticed you staring at him. You are the one that is jealous not her, she probably has not even noticed you standing in the background. Geminis are normally to busy caught up in what is going on with them to notice what others are doing around them. We are seldom jealous creatures. Controlling— Did she have a leash and a whip making him follow her or was he doing this on his own free will— Did he shove her off his lap as if he was not enjoying it—

I think they are enjoying being together and you are just seething about it. Sorry but this man is taken for the moment so you should be more dignified about your behavior with a man who already seems to have a woman. Why are you chasing a man that is obviously taken— If he got back with her when he could have had you what does this tell you— I would not even want to give him the time of day if the roles were reversed.

I see what you mean what you mean, but maybe I failed to mention how she TALKS ABOUT ME EVERYDAY, and yet has never said anything to my face. But you are right hes with her so I'm moving on.

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@VirgoVixxxen
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Posted by teeshajackson50
Posted by WiseOldOwl
This is exactly how my Virgo ex and I acted around each other. Lasted many many years. Move on they are happy together and you are not going to be able separate them.

I don't really see where she is jealous or controlling. As far as staring it seems you are the one staring since you can dictated every move this poor couple has made all night long. So yeah maybe he looked at you because he noticed you staring at him. You are the one that is jealous not her, she probably has not even noticed you standing in the background. Geminis are normally to busy caught up in what is going on with them to notice what others are doing around them. We are seldom jealous creatures. Controlling— Did she have a leash and a whip making him follow her or was he doing this on his own free will— Did he shove her off his lap as if he was not enjoying it—

I think they are enjoying being together and you are just seething about it. Sorry but this man is taken for the moment so you should be more dignified about your behavior with a man who already seems to have a woman. Why are you chasing a man that is obviously taken— If he got back with her when he could have had you what does this tell you— I would not even want to give him the time of day if the roles were reversed.

I see what you mean what you mean, but maybe I failed to mention how she TALKS ABOUT ME EVERYDAY, and yet has never said anything to my face. But you are right hes with her so I'm moving on.

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I think moving on is a great idea because if he's with someone, then obviously he is not the guy for you. You sound young and sweet so just take your time and don't rush a thing. The right guy will come along. If his girlfriend is talking smack about you, take the high road and ignore her. In the end, she'll look like the butthole for talking badly about someone who isn't paying any attention to her.