So now what do I do?

I feel like I am in 5th grade posting this but I need some direction. I posted about a Virgo guy I met who I really like. He is funny, shy and smart. We have a lot in common. Both of us are recently out of long term relationships, both are cautious. ( I am Virgo rising ). He calls me every night, texts me during the day just to say hello. We've went out to eat, a few day trips, movies, etc. We did go to his place after about 3 weeks to watch movies, listen to music, etc.

Being a Sag, I tell him I miss him when we haven't been together for a few days. Although he doesn't say it first, he always responds with " I miss you too". Now yesterday we planned to meet at 7:30 last night. We were going to get something to eat and then relax at his apartment. At 7:45 he calls to tell me he locked himself out of his place and the landlord will be back at nine. So I said ok but I said why dont I come pick you up and we can get something to eat in the meantime so you are not standing there waiting? He said he would see and would call me right back.

He doesnt call me til about 9:30. Now I am pissed because I am left hanging, I really was looking forward to seeing him, and why didnt he accept my help? BUT, I do not say any of this when he calls. I said to him, what do you want to do, do you still want to meet up? He always takes long to answer, so I jump in and say its ok, we can get together another time if you want. Now I want him to say, NO, I need you baby, and would die if I have to wait another minute before kissing your sweet lips. Of course he says nothing of the kind but responds "Well, I am a little tired."

Now I'm thinking "what?". He knew I was looking forward to seeing him ( I told him that earlier ). Was I wrong to act more non-chalant than I felt? Did he just take the out because I gave him one? Yuck, I just hate this!

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Freaking full moon of last night!

Lol..of course! didn't think of that...but what do I say to him today?

Ok, thanx, will update later..

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

He doesnt call me til about 9:30. Now I am pissed because I am left hanging, I really was looking forward to seeing him, and why didnt he accept my help? BUT, I do not say any of this when he calls. I said to him, what do you want to do, do you still want to meet up? He always takes long to answer, so I jump in and say its ok, we can get together another time if you want. Now I want him to say, NO, I need you baby, and would die if I have to wait another minute before kissing your sweet lips. Of course he says nothing of the kind but responds "Well, I am a little tired."

This trend of thinking will not make you happy with him...

He was probably thoroughly turned off by the unfortunate turn of events, found himself being negative and did not want to bring negativity to you. That's how I would be.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

He doesnt call me til about 9:30. Now I am pissed because I am left hanging, I really was looking forward to seeing him, and why didnt he accept my help? BUT, I do not say any of this when he calls. I said to him, what do you want to do, do you still want to meet up? He always takes long to answer, so I jump in and say its ok, we can get together another time if you want. Now I want him to say, NO, I need you baby, and would die if I have to wait another minute before kissing your sweet lips. Of course he says nothing of the kind but responds "Well, I am a little tired."

This trend of thinking will not make you happy with him...

He was probably thoroughly turned off by the unfortunate turn of events, found himself being negative and did not want to bring negativity to you. That's how I would be.

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You are right Caj, I think he was upset about being locked out and also he had just attended a funeral on Friday. That sentence you italized was meant to be a joke though. I guess it wasn't funny...lol

Ok, so he texts me Sunday morning, just says his usual "Good morning" and I text back a good morning. He calls me a few hours later but I am driving so he leaves me this funny voicemail (so cute). I call him back and he picks up right away. We talk pleasantries blah blah, then I mention the night before casually. I tell him that as a woman, I dont just jump in the shower and I'm done like a man does. To get ready for him, I do my hair and make-up, am careful with what I wear and make sure I am smooth and good smelling all over. I tell him I was all ready to see him and he should've let me come by and help. He actually apologized and said I was right. Next time he wont do that. We agree he would call me later.

Now when he calls me last night, he was quite feisty. Not his usual calm and collected self. I think he is frustrated with the turn of events so I go back and forth with him a little. I usually tease him (you know what I mean), on the phone but last night he starts when its usually me...lol. Now we can't see each other until this weekend so he is not too happy. But honestly, I see things moving in the right direction..

Sounds like he might have had plans to get frisky lol

so I jump in and say its ok, we can get together another time if you want. Now I want him to say, NO, I need you baby, and would die if I have to wait another minute before kissing your sweet lips.

I thought this was incredibly cute, funny..and charming. 😄 As a woman, I fully understand!

Posted by Cajunspirit
Sounds like he might have had plans to get frisky lol

I think you are right Caj...too bad he messed it up for himself..lol

Posted by Shadows

so I jump in and say its ok, we can get together another time if you want. Now I want him to say, NO, I need you baby, and would die if I have to wait another minute before kissing your sweet lips.

I thought this was incredibly cute, funny..and charming. 😄 As a woman, I fully understand!

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Yes, the day we actually hear those words I would probably faint from shock...lol

Posted by ellessque

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I tell him that as a woman, I dont just jump in the shower and I'm done like a man does. To get ready for him, I do my hair and make-up, am careful with what I wear and make sure I am smooth and good smelling all over.

I had to laugh at this. This was an argument with Mr. Cap all the time. I like having a plan and an agenda. Give me a time and a place. Give me at least an hour to prepare myself. None of this "can you be ready in 10 minutes?" crap.

Sure, you guys "SAY" that we don't have to doll ourselves up for you, but let us show up just one time, just one time......lol.

We LIKE getting ready for you. I like how I FEEL when I'm getting ready just for you.

So, take note guys, give your woman that extra time, it is purely for your benefit.

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Yes, please give us a break!! And ellessque, it does feel good to get ready...lol

Posted by Let*It*Be
This Virgo sounds legit, and somewhat consistent. Relax, turn the patience volume up and I think you'll see things progress. Don't over analyze every little thing with this guy. Flow baby, flow.. 😉

@Let*It*Be : Patience is something I must learn for sure!